3 Matambudziko Eutano Vakadzi Vanoita Zvepabonde Vanoda Kuziva Nezvazvo

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Vakadzi vakawanda vari kuvhura nezvehunhu hwavo hwepabonde, maererano neongororo yenyika neCenters for Disease Control and Prevention yakaburitswa mwedzi wapera. Vanopfuura zvikamu zvishanu kubva muzana zvevakadzi vakati vane bondexual nguva ino, zvichienzaniswa ne3.9 muzana apo ongororo iyi yakapedzisira kuitiswa muna2011. "Kana munhu akazviratidza seakarurama kana ngochani, zviri nyore kuwana nharaunda iri kubvuma, asi nevane bisexuals, pane mikana mishoma," anodaro Aron C. Janssen, MD, purofesa mubatsiri wepachipatara paNYU Langone Medical Center, uyo ane hunyanzvi zvepabonde. "Varume vanoita zvepabonde vanowanzoona kushorwa uye kusarura kubva kumapoka ese."

Pamusoro pazvo, vatsvakurudzi veLondon School of Hygiene & Tropical Medicine vakaongorora vakadzi vanosvika chiuru chimwe chete nengochani dzinopfuura 4,500 muUK uye vakawana misiyano mikuru pakati pemapoka maviri aya-kureva kuti vakadzi vanoita zvepabonde vaive vadiki uye vasina mari shoma pane ngochani. Humwe hwakakomba hutano hwepfungwa hwakasiyana zvakare. Zvichienzaniswa nevane ngochani, bisexuals vaive makumi matanhatu neshanu muzana vangango taura nyaya dzekudya, 26 muzana vangangonzwa kusuwa kana kushushikana, uye 37 muzana vangangozvikuvadza mugore rapfuura. (Waizviziva here kuti kusanganiswa kwekurovedza muviri uye kufungisisa kunogona kudzora kushushikana?)

Zvakaoma kuita kutsvagisa kwekusaka kwekuti nyaya idzi dzinokanganisa bisexual kupfuura vevabonde kana vevane mitezo yevatano sezvo vakawanda vevakaroora vanofara chose. Asi kusarura kwakapetwa kunobva kunharaunda dzakatwasuka uye ngochani kunoita basa rakakura. "Pane pfungwa inonzi kushushikana kwevashoma uko kuve vashoma vanotambura kunokonzera kushushikana kwakanyanya uye izvo zvinogona kutungamirira kune mibairo isina kunaka muhutano hwepfungwa uye munzvimbo dzekurapa," anodaro Janssen.

Muzviitiko zvakawanda, kushushikana uku kunogona kuteverwa kumashure pakuyaruka. Hutano hwevarume nevakadzi, kutopfuura ungochani, hunogona kukonzera kudheerera kuchikoro. "Kazhinji, kukuvadzwa kwevana vaduku kunogona kufanotaura zviitiko zvinoshungurudza mukukura," anodaro Janssen. "Kana iwe ukashungurudzwa muhuduku, iwe unogona kuenderera mberi nezera iroro mukukura uye uzviwane iwe uri muukama umo iwe uri nyajambwa wekushungurudzwa." Vanopfuura makumi mana makumi mana kubva muzana evakadzi vanoita bonde vanoona kubatwa chibharo muhupenyu hwavo, sekureva kweNational Intimate Partner uye Zvepabonde Nyanzvi kubva kuCentre for Disease Control and Prevention. Iko kuwedzera kwakakura kubva ku13.1 muzana yevakadzi vevabonde uye 17.4 muzana yevakadzi vanoita zvepabonde vanoita.

Pamusoro pezvese izvi, dzinenge chikamu chimwe muzvina chevakaroorana havana inishuwarenzi yehutano, zvichienzaniswa ne20 muzana yevanhurume nevanhukadzi uye 17 muzana yevanorega kana ngochani, vanowana mushumo kubva kuKaiser Family Foundation. Izvi zvinogona kunge zvichikonzerwa nekusiyana kwemari inowanikwa kana kungoziva kusasarudzwa kweinishuwarenzi kunze uko, anodaro Alina Salganicoff, Ph.D., mutevedzeri wemutungamiri uye director wedare rezvehutano revakadzi kuKaiser Family Foundation.

Neraki, vakadzi vane bondexual vanogona kutora matanho akati wandei kuzvidzivirira - pamwe nehutano hwavo - panjodzi idzi.

Wana Inishuwarenzi

Nhau dzakanaka chiito chekutora inishuwarenzi chave nyore nekutenda kune Anodhura Care Act uye kupidigura kweDziviriro yeMuchato Mutemo, anodaro Salganicoff. Ikozvino zvinopesana nemutemo kuramba inishuwarenzi zvichibva pane yakatovapo mamiriro - senge chirwere chepfungwa kana hutachiona hweHIV. Uye bisexuals ikozvino yawedzera kufukidza pakati pevane-bonde vanobatirana nevashandirwi; kupidigurwa kweMutemo weKudzivirirwa kweMuchato zvinoreva kuti vanhu vakaroorana kana vakaroorana vanogona kubatsirwa neinishuwarenzi yehutano yeumwe wavo. Uye maonero evasina kuchengetedzwa anogona kunge asina kuomarara sezvaanoratidzika. Iyo data yatinayo kubva pamberi peAffordable Care Act uye kudzikiswa kweDefence of Marriage Act kwakave nemhedzisiro, Salganicoff anodaro. Mazuva ano, zviri nyore kuwana inishuwarenzi, saka zvinogona kunge kune vashoma vasina kuvimbiswa vakadzi vanoita bondexual pane zvaive muna 2013.

Dzivirira Hutano Hwako Hwepfungwa

Tora danho kumberi uye uzvidzivirire nepfungwa zvakare. "Chinangwa nechero chirongwa chekurapa ndechekuti chakasarudzika," anodaro Janssen. Izvi zvinoreva kuti kurapwa kwehutano hwepfungwa, ungave uri bisexual, wakatwasuka, kana ngochani, zvinofanirwa kusvikwa nerubatsiro rwakafanana rwemunhu. Kune zvakare nzira dzekusimudzira hutano hwako hwepfungwa kunze kwehofisi yechiremba. Bisexuals kashoma kuti vabude kushamwari uye mhuri nekuti vanonzwa zvakanyanya kushorwa, sekureva kwevaongorori veUK. Kubuda kushamwari nemhuri kungave kufamba kwakanaka-uye kubatsira nharaunda ine bisexual padanho rakakura. "Kupfuurira kumberi ndokuti, 'Uku ndiko kuzvizivisa kwangu,' kunobatsira kuputsa izvo zvipingaidzo," anodaro Janssen. "Kuvaka nharaunda yevanhu vanoita bondexual chinhu chakakosha chaizvo, uye zvakakosha kuva pachena uye kuvimbika nezve zvauri." (Hutano Hutano? Iyo Yakanakisa Pamhepo Tsigiro Maitiro.)

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Vakadzi vanoita zvepabonde avo vakashungurudzwa munguva yakapfuura vanofanirwa kubata njodzi yavo yakawedzera kumhirizhonga mudzimba nenzira inoitwa nemadzimai ane dzinza rekenza yemazamu: nekuziva njodzi uye kutora matanho ekuti vagare vakachengeteka, anodaro Salganicoff. Kana hukama hwemhirizhonga hwagara huripo, vakadzi vakatwasuka, ngochani, nevarume vane mitezo miviri vanofanira kuridza runhare panhamba dzinoti 800-787-3224 kuti vatange hurongwa hwekuchengetedza.

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