Zvinorevei Kuva Nevevevepabonde?

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• Ndezvipi chaizvo zvinoreva demisexual?
• Ndeupi rudzi rwechisungo chauri kutaura nezvacho - rudo?
• Mira, nei izvo zvichida chitupa?
• Chibvumirano chendangariro chinovimbisa here kuti kukwezva pabonde kuchaitika?
• Iyi ratidziro inokwana pasi peamburera amburera?
• Unogona here kuisa maitiro echikadzi pane izvi?
• Chii chiri kuita demisexual kutaridzika senge muchiita?
• Izvi zvakasiyana sei nekuva greysexual?
• Zvinoita here kuva vaviri panguva imwe chete kana kuchinja pakati pezviviri?
• Ko zvakadii kumwe kunhu pane chakatarisana? Unogona kufamba pakati penguva dzebonde uye asexuality?
• Vanodzikisira vanogona kusangana nedzimwe nzira dzekukwezva?
• Zvinorevei kuva demisexual zvinoreva hukama hwakabatana?
• Zvakanaka here kusada hukama zvachose?
• Ko bonde?
• Kuita bonhora kunoenderana kupi mune izvi?
• Unoziva sei iwe kwaunokwana pasi peasexual amburera - kana zvachose?
• Ndekupi kwaunogona kudzidza zvakawanda nezve kuve demisexual?

Ndezvipi chaizvo zvinoreva demisexual?

Demisexuality ndeyekurara pabonde uko vanhu vanongowana kukwezva kwepabonde kune vanhu ivo vane hukama hwepedyo hwepamoyo.

Mune mamwe mazwi, vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanongoona kukwezva pabonde mushure mekubatana kwepfungwa.

Ndeupi rudzi rwechisungo chauri kutaura nezvacho - rudo?

Ichi chisungo chepfungwa hachisi hacho rudo kana kudanana.

Kune vamwe vanhu vanoita zvepabonde, hungave hushamwari - kusanganisira hushamwari hweplato.

Ivo vangangodaro vasingade iye munhu - kungave kudanana kana platonically - zvachose.

Mira, nei izvo zvichida chitupa?

Maitiro edu anotsanangura watinokwezva. Dhemisexual vanhu vanoona kukwezvwa kune rakasarudzika boka revanhu.

Unogona kushamisika, "Asi vazhinji vedu havamiriri kuti vanzwe kushamwaridzana nemumwe munhu vasati varara navo here?"

Hongu, vanhu vazhinji vanosarudza kungoita bonde nevanhu vavanehukama navo - kungave kuroora, kuita kudanana, kana hushamwari hunofara uye hwakavimbika.

Musiyano ndewekuti demisexuality haisi yekuita bonde. Icho chiri pamusoro pekugona kwekunzwa kukwezva kwepabonde kune vamwe vanhu.

Unogona kukwezva bonde kune mumwe munhu usina kurara navo, uye unogona kuita bonde neumwe munhu usina kana kukwezvwa navo.

Dhemisexual vanhu havasi ivo chete vanhu vanosarudza kufambidzana nemumwe munhu kwenguva yakareba vasati varara navo. Izvo hazvisi zvekufunga kuita bonde, asi kuti unzwe kukwezva pabonde kune mumwe munhu.

Izvo zvakati, vamwe vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanogona kusarudza kumirira kwechinguva vasati vaita bonde newaunodanana naye - asi izvi zvakasununguka pane kwavo bonde.

Chibvumirano chendangariro chinovimbisa here kuti kukwezva pabonde kuchaitika?

Kwete!

Heterosexual varume vanokwezva pabonde nevakadzi, asi ivo havafanirwe kukweverwa kumukadzi wese wavanosangana naye.

Saizvozvowo, demisexuality hazvireve kuti munhu anodzvinyirira anokwezva kune wese wavanenge vane hukama hwakadzama hwepfungwa naye.

Iyi ratidziro inokwana pasi peamburera amburera?

Uyu mubvunzo ndiwo chikonzero chekupokana kwakawanda munharaunda dzeasexual, greysexual, uye nzanga dzevakadzi.

Anexex munhu anowana zvishoma kusvika pasina kukwezva pabonde. "Kukwezva zvepabonde" ndezvekutsvaga mumwe munhu achikwezva pabonde uye kuda kurara navo.

Izvo zvinopesana neasexual ndezvepabonde, zvinonziwo sevane ngochani.

Kuita zvebonde kunowanzoonekwa se "midpoint" pakati pesexuality uye kuita zvechingochani - vanhu vane greysexual havawanzo kukwezva pabonde, kana ivo vanohuwana hwakadzika zvakanyanya.

Vamwe vanhu vanopokana kuti demisexuality haina kukodzera pasi peasexual amburera nekuti zvinongoreva mamiriro ezvinhu aunonzwa kukwezva pabonde. Izvo hazvireve hazvo kutaura nezve kangani kana kuti zvakanyanya sei zvaunowana kukwezva pabonde.

Mumwe munhu anowanzo kunzwa kukwezva kwepabonde kwakanyanya kune vangangoita vese shamwari dzepedyo uye vavanoshamwaridzana navo - asi kwete kune vavanoziva kana vausingazive - vangangonzwa sevanodanana asi vasina hukama zvachose.

Mumwe munhu anongokwezva pabonde kune mumwe kana vaviri shamwari dzepedyo kana shamwari, asi zvisingawanzo uye zvisingaite zvakanyanya, anogona kuziva zvine simba nehupombwe kana asexual.

Kune rimwe divi, vanhu vanopokana kuti demisexuality inowira pasi peasexual banner. Izvi zvinodaro nekuti hukama hwepabonde hunotsanangura mamiriro ezvinhu apo iwe unongowana kukwezva pabonde mune mashoma mamiriro.

Pakupera kwezuva, hazvina kunyanya kukosha kuti chero munhu upi anofunga nezvekuti iko kutaridzika uku kunowira pane asexual-allosexual spectrum.

Unobvumidzwa kuziva zvisinei iwe zvaungade, uye unogamuchirwa kuti usarudze akawanda mavara ekutsanangura ako ezvepabonde uye ezverudo maitiro.

Unogona here kuisa maitiro echikadzi pane izvi?

Zvizhinji zvemazita ezvepabonde - senge ngochani, bisexual, kana pansexual - zvinongedzera kuchikadzi / vanhu vevanhu vatinokwezva.

Demisexual yakasiyana nekuti zvinoreva hunhu hwehukama hwedu nevanhu vatinokwezva. Zvakanaka kuda kushandisa tsananguro inoreva nezvechikadzi maitiro.

Saka hongu, iwe unogona kuve wepamoyo uye zvekare ungochani, bisexual, pansexual, heterosexual, uye zvichingodaro - chero zvinonyatsotsanangura maitiro ako ega.

Chii chiri kuita demisexual kutaridzika senge muchiita?

Kuva demisexual kunotaridzika kwakasiyana kune vanhu vakasiyana.

Kana iwe uri demisexual, iwe unogona kuve nehukama kune anotevera manzwiro kana zviitiko:

• Handiwanzonzwa kukwezva zvepabonde nevanhu vandinoona mumugwagwa, vandisingazive, kana vandinoziva.
• Ini ndainzwa kukwezva pabonde kune mumwe munhu wandaive padhuze naye (senge shamwari kana mudiwa wepamoyo).
• Kushushikana kwandinoita nemumwe munhu kunokanganisa kana ndikanzwa kukwezva pabonde kwavari.
• Ini handina kumutswa kana kufarira kufunga kwekuita bonde nemunhu wandisingazive mushe, kunyangwe kana aine runako kana ane hunhu hunofadza.

Izvo zvakati, vese vanodzikira vakasiyana, uye iwe unogona kuve unodzikisira kana usinei nezve zvataurwa pamusoro.

Izvi zvakasiyana sei nekuva greysexual?

Dhemisexual vanhu vanongoona kukwezva pabonde mushure mehukama hwepedyo hwehukama hwavapo. Izvi zvakasiyana nekusingawanzo kukwezva pabonde.

Dhemisexual vanhu vanogona kusangana nekukwezva pabonde kazhinji uye zvakanyanya, asi chete nevanhu vavari padhuze navo.

Saizvozvowo, vanhu vane hupombwe vanogona kuona kuti pavanosangana nekukwezva pabonde, hazvireve kuti nevanhu vavanenge vaine hukama hwepedyo navo.

Zvinoita here kuva vaviri panguva imwe chete kana kuchinja pakati pezviviri?

Ehe. Iwe unogona panguva imwe chete kuziva sewekuita demisexual uye greysexual kana demisexual uye asexual. Izvo zvakare zvakakwana zvakakwana kuchinja pakati pezvirevo.

Ko zvakadii kumwe kunhu pane chakatarisana? Unogona kufamba pakati penguva dzebonde uye asexuality?

Ehe. Sezvambotaurwa, vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanogona kuona seasexual, greysexual, kana vese vanoita zvebonde.

Zvepabonde uye kutaridzika zvine mvura. Unogona kuwana kugona kwako kwekukwezva pabonde kunochinja nekufamba kwenguva. Semuenzaniso, iwe unogona kubva uchibva pakuita bonde kusvika pakuita greysexual kusvika pakuve asexual.

Sezvineiwo, iyo 2015 Asexual Census yakawana kuti vanopfuura makumi masere muzana muzana yevakabvunzwa vakaonekwa seimwe nongedzo vasati vazivisa seasexual, izvo zvinoratidza kuti hunyoro hwepabonde hunogona sei.

Rangarira: Izvi hazvireve kuti ivo vaive vasiri hazvo chero hunhu hwavakazvizivisa nahwo, uye hazvireve kuti havasi veexual izvozvi.

Kuratidzira kwemvura hakusi kwakanyanya kushanda pane asiri emvura.

Vanodzikisira vanogona kusangana nedzimwe nzira dzekukwezva?

Ehe! Dhemisexual vanhu vanogona kusangana nedzimwe nzira dzekukwezva. Izvi zvinogona kusanganisira:

• Kukwezva kwerudo: kuda kudanana nemumwe munhu
• Kukwezva kwekushongedza: kukwezva kune mumwe munhu zvichibva nekutaridzika kwavanoita
• Kukwezva kwepanyama kana kwepanyama: kuda kubata, kubata, kana kumbundira mumwe munhu
• Kukwezva kwaPlatonic: kuda kushamwaridzana nemumwe munhu
• Kukwezva kwepamoyo: kuda kubatana kwepfungwa nemumwe munhu

Zvinorevei kuva demisexual zvinoreva hukama hwakabatana?

Dhemisexual vanhu vanogona kana vangangade kusadanana hukama uye kudyidzana.

Muhukama, vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanogona kana kusasarudza kuita bonde. Kune vamwe vanhu vanoita zvepabonde, bonde rinogona kunge risina kukosha muhukama. Kune vamwe, zvakakosha.

Vamwe vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanogona kunzwa kuti hukama hwavo newawakaroorana naye hahwuri padyo zvakakwana kuti vanzwe kukwezva pabonde nemumwe wavo.

Vamwe vangasarudza kumirira kusvikira vanzwa padhuze zvakakwana kune mumwe wavo, uye vamwe vangasarudza kubuda zvachose.

Vamwe vanogona kurara nemumwe wavo vasina kana kukwezva pabonde kune wavanodanana naye. Wese munhu anodzora murume akasiyana.

Zvakanaka here kusada hukama zvachose?

Ehe. Vanhu vazhinji - kusanganisira demisexual vanhu - havadi hukama uye izvo zvakanyatsonaka.

Rangarira kuti kuva nehukama hwepamoyo nemumwe munhu hakuna kufanana nekuva kana kuda kudanana navo.

Nekudaro, murume anoenda pese pese anogona kuve nehukama hwepamoyo nemumwe munhu uye anzwe kukwezvwa pabonde navo, asi kwete hazvo kuda kudanana nemunhu iyeye.

Ko bonde?

Kuva demisexual hakusi nezve kugona kwako kwekunakidzwa pabonde, chete kukwezva kwebonde.

Kune zvakare musiyano pakati pekukwezva pabonde uye maitiro epabonde. Unogona kukwezvwa pabonde nemumwe munhu usina kurara navo, uye unogona kurara nemunhu wausiri kukwezva naye.

Kune zvikonzero zvakawanda nei vanhu vachiita bonde, kusanganisira:

• kubata pamuviri
• kunzwa hukama hwepedyo
• yekubatana kwepfungwa
• zvekunakidzwa uye zvekunakidzwa
• yekuyedza

Nekudaro, vanhu vanoita zvepabonde - senge chero rimwe boka revanhu - vanogona kurara nevanhu vavasina kukwezva navo pabonde.

Kana vari vanhu vanoita asexual uye grey sexual, ivo vese vakasarudzika, uye vanogona kuve nemanzwiro akasiyana nezve bonde. Mazwi anoshandiswa kutsanangura manzwiro aya anosanganisira:

• zvepabonde-zvinosemesa, zvichireva kuti havadi bonde uye havadi kuva naro
• zvebonde-zvisina basa, zvichireva kuti vanonzwa kudziya nezve bonde
• bonde-rinonakidza, zvichireva kuti vanoshuvira uye vanonakidzwa nebonde

Kuita bonhora kunoenderana kupi mune izvi?

Asexual uye greysexual vanhu vanogona kuita bonhora.

Izvi zvinosanganisira vanhu vanoita zvepabonde avo vanogona zvakare kuziva seasexual kana greysexual. Uye hongu, inogona kunzwa inonakidza kwavari.

Zvekare, munhu wese akasarudzika, uye izvo zvinofarirwa nemunhu mumwe chete anogona kunge asiri izvo zvinofarirwa nemumwe munhu.

Unoziva sei iwe kwaunokwana pasi peasexual amburera - kana zvachose?

Iko hakuna bvunzo yekuona kuti iwe uri asexual, greysexual, kana demisexual.

Unogona kuona zvichibatsira kuzvibvunza mibvunzo yakaita seiyi:

• Ndiani wandinowana kukwezva zvepabonde kwaari?
• Ini ndinonzwa sei nezvevanhu ava?
• Kangani kandinowana kukwezva pabonde?
• Kukwezva kwepabonde kwakanyanya sei?
• Kukwezva zvepabonde chinhu chakakosha pakusarudza wandinofambidzana naye here?
• Ini ndinombonzwa kunzwa kukwezva zvepabonde kune vandisingazive kana vazivikanwi?

Ehezve, hapana mhinduro dzakarurama kana dzakashata. Wese munhu anodzora murume anopindura zvakasiyana zvichibva pamanzwiro avo uye nezviitiko.

Nekudaro, kuzvibvunza iwe iyi mibvunzo kunogona kukubatsira iwe kunzwisisa uye kugadzirisa ako manzwiro nezve kukwezva kwepabonde.

Ndekupi kwaunogona kudzidza zvakawanda nezve kuve demisexual?

Iwe unogona kudzidza zvakawanda nezve demisexuality pamhepo kana pane yemuno mu-munhu meetups. Kana iwe uine yemunharaunda LGBTQA + nharaunda, iwe unogona kukwanisa kubatana nevamwe vanodzikisira vanhu ipapo.

Iwe unogona zvakare kudzidza zvakawanda kubva ku:

• Kuonekwa kweAsexual uye Dzidzo Network wiki saiti, kwaunogona kutsvaga tsananguro dzemazwi akasiyana ane chekuita nezvebonde uye maitiro.
• Demisexuality Resource Center
• maforamu senge AVEN foramu uye Demisexuality subreddit
• Facebook mapoka uye mamwe maforamu epamhepo evanhukadzi vanhu

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