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Pane humwe hukoshi hwakaramba huchiyeukwa kwenguva: rukudzo, ruvimbo nekuvimbika. Asi pfungwa yokuzvibata-kana kuti kunyanya, umhandara-sokunaka yakachinja munguva pfupi yapfuura, kunyanya mutsika umo vatano yapamberi peroorano yava tsika. Funga nezvazvo: Wakaroora here? Wakaita bonde here? Kana iwe ukapindura kuti hungu kune ese ari maviri, ndeupi akauya pekutanga? (Mumwe mukadzi anogovera: "Zvandakadzidza Kubva Kumakore gumi eOne-Husiku Anomira.")

Chokwadi ndechekuti, vazhinji vedu tiri kutsvagawo mav-makadhi edu tisati tati "Ndinoita" -saka boka revanoongorora kubva kuIndiana University rakatanga kuona kana paine chinyadzo chekugara uri mhandara, kunyanya kana zvasvika pakusimbisa kudanana. Chavakawana ndechekuti kwete kungoita mhandara chete maonero ivo pachavo sekushorwa, ivo vari kutosarurwa neavo vakapedza nguva vari musaga.

Kuti ndiuye kune izvi zvawanikwa, izvo zvakangoburitswa mukati Chinyorwa cheBonde Ongororo Dr.Amanda Gesselman, Ph.D., nevamwe vanyori vaaishanda navo vakashandisa mibvunzo yekuzvizivisa kuti vapedze zvidzidzo zvidiki zvitatu-imwe yekuongorora zera rinotarisirwa rekutanga pabonde uye pfungwa dzekushorwa, imwe kuongorora kana kusaziva pabonde uku kunoganhurira mikana yekufambidzana uye chetatu. kuenderera mberi nembongoro kana ruzivo rwepabonde ruchikanganisa kukwezva kwako semunhu waungazodanana naye.

Mhedzisiro yavo yakaratidza kuti avhareji zera iro vanhu vakuru muAmerica vanorasikirwa nehumhandara hwavo i17; 90 muzana yevanhu 22 kusvika 24 vakarara pabonde. Uye icho chose chisati chaitika muchato? Makumi manomwe neshanu muzana evane makore makumi maviri ekuberekwa vari kuita bonde vasati vasunga pfumo. (Nhamba Dzako Dzepabonde Dzinofananidzwa Sei?) Chirevo ichi chakaenderera kuratidza kuti kuve mhandara, kunyanya gare gare muhupenyu, kunogona kudzikisira mikana yekuve murudo. Sezviri pachena, vanhu vasina ruzivo rwezvepabonde vakanga vasingadiwi zvakanyanya sevadiwa vehukama. Kunyangwe zvakanyanya, chidzidzo chakawana, vanhu vakuru vasina ruzivo rwepabonde pachavo handina kuwana vamwe vanhu vakuru vasina ruzivo kuti vave vanokwezva vehukama hwehukama. Iyi mhedzisiro yakaipa yekudyidzana inopesana zvakanyanya nezvakanaka panyama zvekuve mhandara zvinopa, sekudzivirirwa kubva kune dzose njovhera uye nhumbu dzisingadiwe.

Zvichida mhedzisiro yakanakisa yekubvisa pane izvi zvese? Rega kutonga zvakanyanya-pane zvakawanda kune mumwe munhu kupfuura v-kadhi yavo. (Uye ita shuwa kuti uverenge mukadzi uyu anotora "Zvepabonde Zano Ini Ndinoshuva Dai Ndakaziva Mune Makumi makumi maviri.")

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