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Kufamba kwakakwira pane yekutanga runyorwa rweakanyanya chero mamireniyamu mazuva ano. Muchokwadi, chidzidzo cheAirbnb chakawana kuti mamireniyumu anonyanya kufarira kushandisa mari pane zvakaitika pane kuva nemba. Kufamba kweSolo kuri kuwedzerawo. Ongororo yeMMGYGlobal yevakuru zviuru zviviri nemazana matatu eUS yakaratidza kuti 37 muzana yemireniyumu yaida kutora rwendo rumwechete rwekuzorora chete mukati memwedzi mitanhatu inotevera.

Hazvishamisi kuti vakadzi vanoshingaira vari kupinda muchiito, zvakare. "Vanopfuura chikamu chimwe muzvina chevashanyi pazororo redu rekushanya vakatora chikamu vari voga," anodaro Cynthia Dunbar, maneja mukuru weREI Adventures. "[Uye kunze] kwevafambi vedu vega, 66 muzana vakadzi."

Ndicho chikonzero nei brand yakapa ongororo yenyika kuti inyatso kuona kubatanidzwa kwevakadzi munyika yekukwira makomo. (Uye makambani akazopedzisira aburitsa magiya ekufamba musango kunyanya kuvakadzi.) Vakaona kuti vanopfuura zvikamu makumi masere nezvishanu kubva muzana zvevakadzi vese vakaongororwa vanotenda kuti kunze kunokanganisa hutano hwepfungwa, hutano hwepanyama, mufaro, uye hupenyu hwese, uye makumi manomwe muzana vanotaura kuti vari panze inosunungura. .

Ini, kune mumwe, ndiri mumwe wevakadzi ivavo. Kugara muNew York City, zvakaoma kuverevedza kubva musango rekongiri-kana kunyange hofisi-kutora mweya wekufema usina kuzadzwa nehutsi uye zvimwe zvinosvibisa mapapu. Ndozvandakazviwana ndakatarisa kune webhusaiti yeREI pakutanga. Pandakanzwa kuti vaive vaparura zviitiko zvinopfuura chiuru zvakagadzirirwa kuti vakadzi vabude kunze, ndakafunga kuti vangadai chimwe chinhu kumusoro mukoto wangu. Uye ini ndaitaura chokwadi: Pakati pemazana emakirasi eAkunze Chikoro uye matatu maREI Outessa anodzosera-akanyudza, emazuva matatu evakadzi-chete ezviitiko-ndakaona kuti ndaive nezvakawanda zvekusarudza kusarudza kubva.

Asi chaizvo, ini ndaida chimwe chinhu chakanyanya kusimba kupfuura kwemazuva matatu ekupukunyuka. Kutaura chokwadi, zvinhu zvakawanda zve "hupenyu" zvaive zvichikanganisa mufaro wangu wese, uye ndaida chimwe chinhu chaizonyatso gadzirisa. Saka ndakaenda kune iyo REI Adventures peji, ndichifunga kuti imwe yeayo 19 mafambiro matsva epasirese aizobata ziso rangu. Vanopfuura mumwe chete vakaita, asi pakupedzisira rakanga risiri rwendo rwechivanhu rweAdventures rwakandikwevera mukati. Asi, rwaive rwekutanga-rwendo rwevakadzi-chete kuGreek. Handisi kungopfuura nemuzvitsuwa zveTinos, Naxos, uye Insta-perfect Santorini, parwendo rwemazuva gumi rwekufamba netsoka neREI Adventures gwara, asi ndaizove nevamwe vakadzi vanofarirawo kukwira gomo idzva. mhepo sezvandakaita.

Zvirinani, ndizvo zvandiri tarisiro vakadzi ava vaive. Asi chii chandakaziva-ava vanhu vaive vasingazivikanwe zvachose, uye kusaina wega kwaireva kuti ndinenge ndichisiya iyo crutch yekuve neshamwari kana yakakosha imwe yekushamwaridzana nayo kana zvinhu zvikaita manyama amire nerongo. Ini ndanga ndisingazive kana paine mumwe munhu akabudirira pakunzwa kunoyerera nepakati pako apo mhasuru dzako dziri kutsva uye wave pedyo pakupera kwekukwira kwakasimba iwe ziva kune epic maonero akamirira kumusangano. Vangandiona ndichisvotwa nekuda kusunda nekurwadziwa, kana kubatana neni mukuvhiya kusvika kumusoro? Uyezve, ini semuzvarirwo ndiri introvert-mumwe munhu anoda chaizvo nguva ari ega kuti awedzere. Kuverevedza kwangu kubva muboka kwechinguva chinyararire chekufungisisa kungagumbura here? Kana kugamuchirwa sechikamu cheyakajairwa?

Yese mibvunzo iyi yaitenderera mumusoro mangu apo ini ndaienda pamusoro pebhatani rekunyoresa, asi ipapo ndakakwenya nekukasira mubhurugwa ne, chokwadika, chitauro chandakaona pa Instagram. Yakati, "Munguva ipi zvayo, tine zvingasarudzwa zviviri: Kufambira mberi mukukura kana kudzokera shure mukuchengeteka." Zviri nyore, chokwadi, asi zvakasvika kumba. Ndakaona kuti, pakupera kwezuva, yaive nzira yekukwanisa kuti ndiwirirane nevakadzi ava pane kusadaro, kuti taizobatana tichifamba munzira uye tichisimudza nzvimbo, uye kuti tichava neruzivo chaizvoizvo zvakaita kuti tide kuva shamwari kwenguva refu mushure mokunge ruzivo rwedu rwapera.

Saka, pakupedzisira, ndakaita saShonda Rhimes ndikati "hongu." Uye pandakakwira chikepe muAthens kuti nditange rwendo rwangu, ndichifema mweya mutsva, une munyu weGungwa reAegean, kunetseka kupi nokupi kwandakanga ndava nako pamusoro pokuti urwo rwakanga rwusiri rwendo runoshamisa rwakabva rwaenda. Panguva yandakakwira ndege yangu kudzokera kuNew York City, ndakanga ndadzidza gehena nezvakawanda-nezvangu, nezvekufamba nemuGreece, uye nezvekufara ndichitenderedzwa nevasingazive zvachose. Idzi ndidzo dzaive nzira dzangu huru dzekutora.

Vakadzi vafambi vebasass. Muchidzidzo cheREI chandakaverenga ndisati ndaenda, vakadzi vakataura zvakawanda nezvekuda kunze. Asi makumi matatu neshanu muzana vakabvumawo kuti havagone kufunga nezvechikadzi chekunze, uye vatanhatu pavakadzi gumi vakati zvido zvevanhurume mumabasa ekunze zvinotorwa zvakanyanya kupfuura zvevakadzi. Nepo izvo zvakawanikwa zvisiri izvo zvese zvinoshamisa, ini ndinovaona vari bhururu. Mumwe wevakadzi parwendo rwangu aive mupenyu humbowo hwekuti vakadzi vanotyisa sei vari panze - paakatanga kusaina rwendo urwu, akaisa chinangwa chekudzora 110 mapaundi mumwedzi mitanhatu. Icho chinangwa chakakura nemhando ipi neipi, asi ndizvo zvaaifanira kuita kuti ave noutano hwakakwana kuti akwire makomo atakange tichida kugadzirisa. Uye fungidzira chii? Akazviita zvachose. Sezvaakasimudza Gomo Zeus (kana Zas, sekutaura kwevaGiriki), chinhambwe chemakiromita mana kukwira pakakwirira pakakwirira mudunhu reCyclades, ndiye wandakatarisa kumusoro kwazvo. Makomo ane nzira yekuzvininipisa kwazvo, uye kunyangwe kufamba musango chiri chinhu chakareruka-tsoka imwe pamberi peimwe, ndinoda kutaura kuti-inogona kukanda dhongi rako nyore kana iwe uchibvumira. Mukadzi uyu akaramba kuti izvo zviitike, uye anongova mumwe wevakadzi vazhinji achiratidza izvozvo ipapo vari mienzaniso murenje. .

Kufamba wega hazvireve kuva wega. Kufamba kweSolo kune zvakawanda zvakanaka-sekuita chaizvo zvaunoda, kana uchida, zvekutanga-asi kuenda parwendo wega wobva wasangana neboka revasingazive ndizvo chaizvo zvandiri, uye vazhinji vevakadzi pane izvi rwendo, inodiwa. Isu tese taivepo nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana, kungave kushanda-, hukama-, kana mhuri-zvine hukama, uye kufamba nevasingazive kwakatendera mumwe nemumwe wedu kuzarura nekutaura nyaya zvedu pachedu nenzira yatisingazokwanise kuita neshamwari. kana kuti, dai taifamba tega. Pataifamba kwemakiromita angangoita manomwe tichitevedza Caldera muSantorini, paive nekunatswa kwepfungwa kwakaitika. Vazhinji vedu takange taneta kubva pamazuva matatu apfuura ekufamba musango, zvichitiisa munzvimbo yakashushikana yepfungwa iyo yakachera mukati memitoro yemanzwiro vazhinji vedu tanga tichitarisana nayo muhupenyu hwedu kumusha. Asi kuve neshamwari nyowani kwaive chiyeuchidzo chekuti isu taisafanirwa kutakura nhamo idzodzo tiri tega, uye zvakatotibvumidza kuti tione mamiriro edu ezvinhu neimwe nzira, zvichipiwa izvo, zvakare, isu tese tanga tisingazive. Sezvo zuva rakavira, isu vatanhatu takasvika pamusuwo weOia musha (wakatumidzwa ee-yah, BTW) uye isu takanyarara takatarisa semwenje mumahotera, mudzimba, uye mumaresitorendi achibatidza. Yakave nguva yerunyararo, ndakamira ndakanyura mukati mese, ndakaona kuti dai ndaiva ndisati ndave nemadzimai aya, ndingadai ndakatonyanya mumusoro mangu kuti ndimire ndichiyemura runako rwaiva chairwo. pamberi pangu.

Varume havadi kukokwa. Ini ndiri wese wenzvimbo yekusanganisa yekufamba mushe nekuti, chaizvo, makomo haana basa kuti uri murume kana mukadzi. Asi rwendo urwu rwakandibatsira kuona kuti kubatsira kuva nevakadzi chete kunobatsira sei. Panzvimbo dzakawanda dzerwendo-senge patakatora kirasi yekubika yeMediterranean kubva kumubiki weko pachitsuwa cheTinos, kana patakatsauswa pakufamba kwema 7.5 mamaira kuburikidza nemisha yechitsuwa ichi - mazhinji majee, mazwi ekurudziro, uye hunhu hwekusava nehanya hwakakandwa pakati peboka. Wedu mutungamiri, Sylvia, akatoona mutsauko, sezvaakatungamirwa mapoka akabatanidzwa kwemakore mazhinji. Nguva zhinji, varume vese vari pamusoro pekusimba kwerwendo rwekufamba, akandiudza, uye vari pano kuti vasvike pamusoro pegomo uye ndizvozvo. Vakadzi vanogona kuve saizvozvowo, zvakare-ini zvechokwadi ndaida kusundira miganho yangu yemuviri parwendo urwu - asi zvakare vakasununguka kubatana nevamwe vari muboka, kushamwaridzana nevanhu veko, uye kungoenda nekuyerera kana zvinhu zvisipo ' t enda maererano nezvakarongwa. Izvo zvakaita kuti pave nekuzorora, kuvhurika, uye rwendo rwekukoka-uye mukomana makuhwa uye majee epabonde akadzika haana kukuvadza, zvakare. (Hei, tiri vanhu.)

Kusurukirwa kwakakunakira iwe. Pandakaenda parwendo urwu, kusurukirwa hachisi chinhu chakambopfuura nepfungwa dzangu. Ini ndakanaka pakusangana nevanhu vatsva uye kubatsira munhu wese kuti anzwe kugadzikana nemumwe (uye iwe unogona kubheja ini ndichave wekutanga kubvarura joko nemari yangu pachangu). Saka ndakashamisika apo, pakati pehafu yerwendo, ndakazviwana ndisisipo pamba. Izvo zvaive zvisina chekuita nepandakanga ndiri-izvo zvataiona, vanhu vatakanga tichisangana, uye zvinhu zvataiita zvese zvaishamisa-asi asi nezvandaive ndasiya kumashure. Sezvandakareva, akawanda masistresi aive achiunganidzira kumashure kumba, uye ndakaona kuti kunyangwe ndaida chaizvo kupunyuka pandakabhuka rwendo urwu, ndakanzwa zvakashata nekusiya idzo nhamo pamurume wangu anga asara kumashure.

Asi zvino, boka rangu rakakwira pamusoro peGomo reZas, uye pfungwa yekudzikama yakandiwira-kunyanya apo, kubva pavanhu vose vaiva pamusoro pegomo, mashavishavi maviri akawana nzira yokuuya kwandiri, achitamba akazorora pangowani yangu. Uye munzira yekudzika, boka rangu rakawana nzvimbo yakavharika iyo yaive nzira diki kubva munzira - nzvimbo yaive yakaringana kukwana kwedu tese kuti tikwane. Takagara pasi uye, kwemaminetsi mashoma, takagara mukutungamira kwekutungamirwa kwakatungamirwa nemumwe wevatori vechikamu vekufamba vakave murairidzi weyoga. Kuita izvo kwakandibatsira kuti ndigadzikane nemanzwiro asina kugadzikana-mhosva uye kunetseka, kunyanya-uye zvakandibvumidza kutarisisa mune izvozvi zvakare. Kutinhira, kunhuwidza, uye kunzwa zvese zvakabatsira kundidzosera kunzvimbo yangu, uye ndipo pandakaona kuti hapana zvandaigona kuita nezvezvinhu zviri kuitika kumba. Pane chikonzero chandaida rwendo urwu panguva iyi. Pasina kufungisisa ikoko-uye pasina marwadzo ekutanga ekusurukirwa-handina chokwadi chekuti ndingadai ndasvika panguva idzodzo dzerunyararo.

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