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Kira Stokes haavhiringidzi kana zvasvika pakusimba. Mugadziri weThe Stokes Method ari kuseri kwedambudziko redu repuranga remazuva makumi matatu uye dambudziko remaoko remazuva makumi matatu, uye anogadzira maseketi evakakurumbira vakaita saShay Mitchell, musikana wedu wevhavha waFebruary, uye. Imba yakazara's Candace Cameron Bure.

Uye nekuda kwekuti ane simba segehena (zvakanyanya, edzai zvakanyanya obliques Workout) hazvireve kuti haana kudzivirirwa mukutukwa. Mhinduro senge '"Izvo zvinosemesa. Kwete zvechikadzi zvachose" uye "Ini ndiri wese wekuonda, asi iwo muviri wemurume," anoonekwa pane aKira's Instagram zvinyorwa, achimusarudzira kuti ave' akasimba 'akasimba.

"Paunoverenga zvirevo zvakadaro pasocial media, kunyangwe uri munhu ane chivimbo chakakura, haugone kubatsira asi kunzwa vachirova moyo wako-kunyangwe zvishoma," Kira achangobva kuudza Chimiro. "Manzwiro iwayo haanamatire neni kwenguva refu - ndinogona kuabvisa-asi nekuti isu, sevarairidzi, tine muviri wekunze wakasimba hazvireve kuti hatina divi remunhu. Kunyangwe zvako kwekunze kwakasimba chitarisiko, manzwiro ako, uye manzwiro anosungirwa kukuvadzwa."

Kira anoti akagamuchirawo mazwi akafanana mumunhu zvakare. "Ini ndichave ndiri pagungwa, ndichifamba-famba sevamwe vese, uye nenzwi guru Ndakanzwa vanhu vachitaura zvinhu zvakadai sokuti 'handifi ndakada kutaridzika saizvozvo'" anodaro. "Zvinoshungurudza nokuti ndinofunga kuti vanhu vanoona mukadzi akasimba uye vanonzwa sokuti vanogona kutaura chero chinhu nokuti haazonetsi nazvo. Hazvina kunaka. "

Kira anoedza kuyeuka kuti mashoko aya haana chokuita naye. “Ndinoda kushanda nesimba kwandinoisa mumuviri wangu,” anodaro. "Izvo zvinoitirwa kukurudzira vanhu uye kwete kuita kuti vanzwe vakaderera pamusoro pavo, saka pandinonzwa mashoko akadaro, ndinongozviyeuchidza kuti vanhu ivavo vane chimwe chinhu chiri kuitika mukati mavo pachavo chisina chokuita neni."

Ndosaka tichidada kuti Kira apinde muchirongwa chedu che #MindYourOwnShape, chiri chekuti vanhu vazive kuti kuda muviri wako hakufanire kureva kuvenga mumwe munhu.

Kira ane meseji yakapusa kune avo vachiri kuvenga miviri yevamwe vanhu iwe kunzwa. Kuziva kuti wakanyora kuti 'anoratidzika semurume,' zvinozokubatsira here kurara zviri nani usiku? Zvingaite kuti unzwe zvirinani semunhu? Matambudziko aripo, pamwe haadaro. "Isu zvirokwazvo tariro kwete.

Kira anotarisira kuti anogona kukurudzira vamwe vakadzi kuti vaone kuti ndivo chete vanogona kutaura kuti kuve mukadzi zvinorevei. "Muzuva rino nezera, ndinovimba takave nekushanduka kuti tigamuchire chokwadi chekuti vakadzi vanofarira kuve mune yekurovedza muviri, kusimudza masimbi, uye kugadzira muviri wakasimba," anodaro. "Chero zvingaratidzika kunge zvakadaro." chero mukadzi anofanira kutorwa semukadzi."

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