Kristen Bell Anotiudza Izvo Chaizvoizvo Kuti Urarame Nekushungurudzika uye Kufunganya

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Kushungurudzika uye kuzvidya mwoyo zvirwere zviviri zvepfungwa zvinowanzobatwa nevakadzi vakawanda. Uye kunyangwe isu tichida kufunga kuti rusarura rwakatenderedza nyaya dzepfungwa rwuri kupera, pachine basa rinofanira kuitwa. Case in point: Kate Middleton's #HeadsTogether PSA , kana musangano wekushamwaridzana uko vakadzi vakatumira ma selfies ekurwisa kuora mwoyo kurwisa kusarwa kwehutano hwepfungwa. Ikozvino, Kristen Bell akabatana neChidiki Pfungwa Institute kune chimwe chiziviso kuunza imwezve pfungwa kune kukosha kwekubvisa ruzvidzo rwakanangana nenyaya dzehutano hwepfungwa. (PS Tarisa Mudzimai uyu Achiratidza Neushingi Kuti Panic Attack Inotaridzika sei)

Bell anotanga nekugoverana kuti akambosangana nekufunganya uye/kana kuora mwoyo kubva paaiva nemakore 18. Anoenderera mberi achiudza vaoni kuti vasafungidzire kuti vamwe havatamburi nenyaya dzehutano hwepfungwa, zvakare.

"Zvandingati kumudiki wangu usanyengerwa nemutambo wekukwana unotambwa nevanhu," anodaro. "Nekuti Instagram nemagazini nemitambo yeTV, ivo vanovavarira kune imwe aesthetic, uye zvese zvinotaridzika kunge zvakanaka uye vanhu vanoita kunge vasina matambudziko, asi munhu wese munhu."

Muvhidhiyo iyi, Bell anokurudzirawo vanhu kuti vatarise zviwanikwa zvehutano hwepfungwa uye usambonzwa sekunge nyaya dzehutano hwepfungwa dzinofanirwa kuvanzwa kana kufuratirwa. (Yakabatana: Maitiro Ekuwana Akanaka Chiremba Kwauri)

"Usambofa wakanyara kana kunyara nezve zvauri," anodaro. "Pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvekunyara kana kunyara nazvo. Kana ukakanganwa nezvezuva rekuzvarwa raamai vako, inzwa uchinyara nezvazvo. Kana uchiwanzoita makuhwa, inzwa kunyara nezvazvo. Asi usambofa uchinyara kana kunyara pamusoro pekusiyana kwaunenge uri iwe. . "

Kudzoka mu2016, Bell yakavhurika nezve yake yenguva refu kurwira nekushushikana mune chinyorwa che Motto-uye nei asiri kuramba akanyarara. "Handina kutaura pachena nezvematambudziko angu nehutano hwepfungwa kwemakore gumi nemashanu ekutanga ebasa rangu," anonyora kudaro. "Asi ikozvino ndiri panguva yandisingatendi kuti chero chinhu chinofanira kunge chiri taboo."

Bell akasheedzera "kunyadzisa kwakanyanya nezvehutano hwepfungwa," achinyora kuti iye "haakwanise kugadzira misoro kana miswe yekuti nei iripo." Mushure mezvose, "pane mukana wakanaka kuti iwe uzive mumwe munhu ari kunetseka nazvo sezvo vangangoita makumi maviri muzana vevanhu vakuru vekuAmerica vanosangana nechimwe chirwere chepfungwa muhupenyu hwavo," anotsanangura. "Saka sei tisiri kutaura nezvazvo?"

Akaenderera mberi achisimbisa kuti "hapana chinhu chisina kusimba mukunetsekana nechirwere chepfungwa" uye kuti, senhengo dze "chikwata chevanhu," zviri pamunhu wese kushanda pamwechete kuti vauye nemhinduro. Iye zvakare anotora danho pakuongorora kwehutano hwepfungwa, hwaanofunga kuti hunofanirwa kunge "hwakajairwa sekuenda kuna chiremba kana chiremba wemazino."

Bhero rakapawo hurukuro yemusoro-yekuunganidza ye Kunze Kamera naSam Jones, kwaakataura chokwadi chakawanda nezve kubata nekushushikana uye kushushikana. Semuyenzaniso, kunyangwe achiratidza kuve mumwe wevasikana vane mukurumbira muchikoro chesekondari, anotaura nezvekuti aigara achinetsekana neAF, izvo zvakamuita kuti aumbe zvido zvake zvichibva kune avo vakamupoteredza, pane kuziva zvaaive chaizvo. kufarira. (Funga bhurukwa reuto raCady uye flip-flops mukati Vasikana vaneutsinye.)

Bell anoti hunhu hwake hwekufara hunozivikanwa ndechimwe chezvinhu zvakamukurudzira kugovera chinhu chakadaro. "Ndanga ndichitaura nemurume wangu, uye zvakandifunga kuti ndinoita senge ndinofara uye ndine tariro," akadaro mune imwe hurukuro yapfuura na NHASI. "Handina kumbobvira ndakagovana izvo zvakandiendesa ipapo uye nei ndiri saizvozvo kana zvinhu zvandakashanda kuburikidza nazvo. Uye ini ndainzwa kuti yaive yemhando yemagariro mutoro yandaive nayo - kwete kungoita kunge akanaka uye vane tariro."

Zvinozorodza zvikuru kuona mumwe munhu akaita saBell (uyo anonyanya kuratidza kuva anonakidza uye anotyisa munhu) kuva akatendeseka kwazvo pamusoro penyaya isina kutaurwa nezvayo zvakakwana. Isu tese tinofanirwa kukwanisa kukurukura kuti kumanikidza kwekushushikana uye kushushikana kunogona kunyatsonzwa sei-isu tese tinonzwa zvirinani pazviri. Tarisa kubvunzurudzwa kwake kwese pazasi-zvakakodzera kuteerera. (Zvino, inzwa kubva kune vamwe vapfumbamwe vane mukurumbira vanotaura nezvehutano hwepfungwa.)

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