Lena Dunham Akanyora Yeutsinye Kutendeseka Essay Nezve Iye Asina kubudirira IVF Chiitiko

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Lena Dunham ari kuvhura pamusoro pekuti akadzidza sei kuti haazombove nemwana wake chaiye. Mune yakatsvuka, isina njodzi rondedzero yakanyorwa Harper's Magazini, akarondedzera kusabudirira kwake ne in vitro fertilization (IVF) uye kuti zvakamukanganisa sei mupfungwa.

Dunham akatanga rondedzero nekurondedzera danho rake rakaoma rekuvhiyiwa chibereko aine makore makumi matatu nerimwe. “Pandakashaya mbereko ndakatanga kutsvaga mwana,” akanyora kudaro. "Mushure memakumi maviri emakore ekurwadziwa kusingaperi kwakakonzerwa ne endometriosis nekuparadzwa kwayo kushoma, ndakabviswa chibereko changu, chibereko changu, uye rimwe remazai angu. Pamberi pacho, humai hwakanga hwaratidzika kunge husingakurumidze, husingadzivisike sekukura kunze " (Yakabatana: Halsey Anovhura Kumusoro Nezve Maitiro Ekuvhiya kweEndometriosis Akabata Sei Muviri Wake)

Nguva pfupi mushure mekuvhiyiwa hysterectomy, Dunham akati akafunga kurerwa. Zvisinei, panguva imwe cheteyo, akanyora, akanga achizogamuchira kupindwa muropa kwake nebenzodiazepines (boka rezvinodhaka rinonyanya kushandiswa kurapa kushushikana) uye aiziva kuti aifanira kukoshesa utano hwake asati aunza mwana mumufananidzo. "Uye saka ndakaenda kunogadzirisazve," akanyora kudaro, "uko ini ndakazvipira nemoyo wese kuti ndive mukadzi akakodzera kwazvo f ck-iwe mucheche shawa munhoroondo yeAmerica."

Mushure me rehab, Dunham akati akatanga kutsvaga mapoka ekutsigira munharaunda epamhepo evakadzi vasingakwanise kubata pamuviri. Ndipo paakasvika IVF.

Pakutanga, mutambi wemakore makumi matatu nematatu akabvuma kuti aisatomboziva IVF yaive sarudzo kwaari, tichifunga nezvehutano hwake. "Zvakazoitika kuti mushure mezvose zvandakanga ndapfuura - kemikari kuenda kumwedzi, kuvhiiwa negumi nevaviri, kushaya hanya kwekushandisa zvinodhaka - ovary yangu imwe chete yanga ichiri kuburitsa mazai," akanyora murondedzero yake. "Kana tikabudirira kuikohwa, dzinogona kupihwa hurume nemupiro wemurume uye yoendeswa kunopera nemumwe munhu."

Nehurombo, zvakadaro, Dunham akati akazoziva kuti mazai ake aisakwanisa kubereka. Mune rondedzero yake, akayeuka mazwi chaiwo echiremba wake paakaendesa nhau idzi: "'Hatina kukwanisa kusanganisa chero mazai. Sezvaunoziva, isu tanga tine vatanhatu. Vashanu havana kutora. Iyo yaiita kunge ine chromosomal nyaya." uye pakupedzisira... ' Akatsauka pandakaedza kuifananidza - imba ine rima, dhishi rinopenya, urume huchisangana nemazai angu ane huruva zvine chisimba zvekuti akapisa. Zvakanga zvakaoma kunzwisisa kuti akanga aenda."

Dunham ndemumwe wevakadzi vanosvika mamirioni matanhatu muUS vanorwira kushaya mbereko, sekureva kweU.S.Office paWomen Health. Kutenda kune kwakabatsirwa matekinoroji ekubereka (ART) akaita seIVF, vakadzi ava vane mukana wekuva nemwana wekubereka, asi kubudirira kwacho kunoenderana nezvinhu zvakawanda. Paunofunga nezvezvinhu zvakaita sezera, kuongororwa kwekushaya mbereko, huwandu hwema embryos anotamiswa, nhoroondo yekuzvarwa kwekare, uye kupfupfudzika, panoguma pave chero pakati pegumi kusvika makumi mana muzana mukana wekuzvara mwana ane hutano mushure mekurapwa IVF, sekureva. kusvika kumushumo we2017 kubva kuCenters for Disease Control (CDC). Izvo hazvisi kusanganisira iyo nhamba yeIVF kutenderera iyo inogona kutora kuti mumwe munhu anyatso kubata pamuviri, tisingataure nezve yakakwira mutengo wekushaya mbereko kurapwa zvachose. (Zvakafanana: Izvo Ob-Gyns Vanoshuvira Vakadzi Kuziva Nezve Kubereka Kwavo)

Kutarisana nekushaya mbereko kwakaoma pahutano hwepfungwa, zvakare. Zvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuti chiitiko chinonetsa chinogona kutungamira mukunzwa kwekunyara, mhosva, uye kuzvidzora - chimwe chinhu Dunham chakazvionera. Maari Harper's Magazini rondedzero, akati ainetseka kana kusabudirira kwake IVF kwaireva kuti "ari kuwana [zvaaikodzera]." (Chrissy Teigen naAnna Victoria vataura chokwadi nezvematambudziko eVIV, zvakare.)

"Ndakarangarira kuita kwewaimbove shamwari, makore mazhinji apfuura, pandakamuudza kuti dzimwe nguva ndaishushikana kuti endometriosis yangu yaive chituko chaida kundiudza kuti handina kukodzera kuva nemwana," Dunham akaenderera mberi. "Anenge akapfira mate. 'Hapana munhu anokodzera mwana.'"

Dunham zvakajeka akadzidza zvakawanda mukati meichi chiitiko. Asi chimwe chezvidzidzo zvake zvikurusa, akagovera murondedzero yake, chaibatanidza kurega kudzora. "Pane zvakawanda zvaunogona kugadzirisa muhupenyu - unogona kupedza hukama, kuita sober, kuve wakakomba, uti sorry," akanyora kudaro. "Asi haugone kumanikidza nyika kuti ikupe mwana wawakaudzwa nemuviri wako kuti hazvigoneke." (Yakabatana: Chii Molly Sims Anoda Vakadzi Kuti Vazive Nezve Sarudzo Yekusunungura Mazai Avo)

Zvakaoma sekuziva kwanga kuri, Dunham ari kugovera nyaya yake ikozvino mukubatana nemamiriyoni evamwe "IVF varwi" vakasangana nekukwira nekudzika kwechiitiko. "Ndakanyora chidimbu ichi chevakadzi vazhinji vakakundikana nesainzi yekurapa uye biology yavo, avo vakakundikanazve nekutadza kwenharaunda kufunga rimwe basa kwavari," Dunham akanyora mune Instagram post. "Ini zvakare ndakanyora izvi kune vanhu vakabvisa marwadzo avo. Uye ini ndakanyora izvi kune vatorwa online - vamwe vacho vandakataurirana navo, vazhinji vacho vandisina - vakandiratidza, kakawanda, kuti ndaive kure ndega.

Achipedzisa kutumira kwake Instagram, Dunham akati anotarisira kuti chinyorwa chake "chinotanga hurukuro shomanana, anobvunza mibvunzo yakawanda kupfuura inopindura, uye anotiyeuchidza kuti kune nzira dzakawanda kwazvo dzekuve amai, uyezve nzira dzakawanda dzekuve mukadzi."

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