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Rwiyo rutsva rwaMeghan Trainor, "Glow Up" runogona kunge rwuri rwiyo rwemunhu wese ari padanho rekuchinja kwakanaka kwehupenyu, asi kune Mudzidzisi, mazwi acho akadzama ega. Mushure mekusununguka mwana wake wekutanga, Riley, muna Kukadzi 8, Mudzidzisi aive akagadzirira kutora muviri wake, hutano hwake, uye hupenyu hwake - zvese izvi zvakaedzwa panguva yekuzvitakura nepamuviri uye kunetsa kunounza kwakasiya mwanakomana wake iyo ichangozvarwa yevanorwara zvakanyanya nzvimbo yekuchengetedza.

Yekutanga snag parwendo rwekutanga pamuviri rweGrammy muhwina yakauya mune yechipiri trimester, paakawana chirwere chisingatarisirwi: gestational chirwere cheshuga, chirwere chinobata 6 kusvika 9 muzana yevakadzi vane pamuviri muUnited States, maererano neCenters for Disease. Kudzora uye Kudzivirira.

"Pasina chirwere cheshuga cheshuga, ndaive nyeredzi yedombo," muimbi anotaurira Chimiro. "Ini ndainyatsoita nhumbu, ndakaita zvakanaka. Handina kumbobvira ndarwara pakutanga, ndakabvunza zvakawanda, 'ndine nhumbu here? Ndinoziva kuti handina kumboita bvunzo yangu uye bvunzo inoti, asi ndinonzwa zvakajairika. .'"

Trainor anoti kwaive kuseka kwakaitika panguva yekuongororwa izvo zvakaita kuti azopedzisira aongororwa, izvo zvisingakonzere zviratidzo zvinoonekwa kuvakadzi vazhinji. "Ndakavhenekwa ropa nekuti ndanga ndichiedza kuita dambe uye kurerutsa kamuri," anodaro. "Ndakati, 'amai vangu vakati vane chirwere cheshuga che gestational asi vanofunga kuti imhaka yekuti vakanwa muto mukuru weorenji mangwanani iwayo uye ndizvo zvakaita kuti shuga yavo yeropa."

Kutaura kwakareruka kwemurairidzi nekusaziva akazivisa vanachiremba vake nezvemureza ungangodaro mutsvuku. Kunyange zvikonzero zvacho zvisina kunyatsonzwisiswa, vakadzi vazhinji vane gestational chirwere cheshuga vane imwe nhengo yemhuri yepedyo nechirwere kana chimwe chimiro cheshuga. Uye amai vake shuga yeropa spike yaisave yakangoita anecdote inosekesa - yakanongedza vanachiremba vake mune chokwadi chekuti amai vake vangangodaro vakawana chisina kujairika shuwa, chiratidzo chingangove chechirwere. Kuti uedze chirwere cheshuga mumadzimai akazvitakura, vanachiremba vanowanzo kupa bvunzo yekutsungirira glucose umo murwere anonwa mhinduro ine shuga yakawanda mushure mekutsanya uyezve vozoongororwa ropa ravo nguva nenguva kwemaawa akati wandei.

Mhedzisiro yekutanga murairidzi yaive yakajairika, asi akabva aonekwa aine chirwere pamasvondo gumi nematanhatu. “Unofanirwa kuongorora ropa rako mushure mekudya kwega uye mangwanani, saka kana pazuva unenge uchibaya-baya chigunwe uchiongorora ropa rako uye kuona kuti mazinga ako akarurama,” anodaro. "Uri kudzidzira kudya chikafu uye handina kumbobvira ndave nehukama hwakanaka nechikafu, saka zvaive zvakaoma."

Nepo Murairidzi pakutanga akaidaidza kuti "bump mumugwagwa," kugara uchiongororwa uye mhinduro zvakamubata zvakanyanya pamamiriro ake epamoyo. "Pamazuva aunofoira bvunzo asi wakaita zvese nemazvo, unongonzwa sekukundikana kukuru," anodaro. "[Ndainzwa] sekuti, 'Ndatokundikana saamai uye mwana haasati aripo.' "Zvanga zvakaomarara mupfungwa. Ndichiri kufunga kuti hapana [zviwanikwa] zvakakwana kuti zvibatsire vakadzi vane chirwere cheshuga cheshuga."

Asi kuongororwa ndiko kwaingova iko kwekutanga kunetsekana naMudzidzisi pakununura mwanakomana wake. Sezvaakaudza vateveri vake vepa Instagram mune yaJanuary Instagram post, mwana wake aive nebhurugwa, zvichireva kuti aive akamira kumusoro muchibereko, tsoka dzake dzakanongedza kugomba rekuzvara - nyaya inoitika muzvikamu zvitatu kusvika zvina muzana zvenhumbu dzese. uye inoita kuti kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi kuome zvakanyanya, kana zvisingaite.

"Pamasvondo e34, akanga ari munzvimbo [yakarurama], akanga agadzirira kuenda!" anoti. "Uyezve vhiki rakatevera, akaputika. Aingoda kuva parutivi. Ndakanga ndaita sekuti, 'akanaka pano, saka ndichagadzirisa pfungwa dzangu kuti ndigadzirire chikamu cheC.' "(Zvakafanana: Shawn Johnson Anoti Kuva C-Chikamu Chakaita Kuti Anzwe Senge Iye "Akundikana")

Asi izvo Trainor akasangana nazvo panguva yekusununguka - mazuva mashoma emazuva ake ekuzvarwa - chaive chimwe chipingamupinyi chaaive asingafungiri chaakanzwa asina kugadzirira zvachose. "Paakazobuda, ndinorangarira isu tanga takamutarisa senge, 'wow anoshamisa,' uye ini ndakakatyamadzwa," anodaro. "Tese takanga tichifara uye tichipembera ndokubva ndati," sei asingachemi? Kuchema kupi ikoko?" Uye hazvina kuzombouya. "

Maminetsi mashoma akatevera aive chamupupuri sezvo Mudzidzisi - akarapwa uye ari muchimiro chekufara mushure mekuona mwanakomana wake kekutanga - kuyedza kubatanidza pamwechete kuteedzana kwezviitiko kubva kuseri kwekuvhiya. "Ivo vakati," tiri kuzomutora, "uye murume wangu akavakumbira kuti vanditarise kwaari," anodaro. "Saka vakamumhanyisa pamusoro uye [ndokuzomhanya] vachibuda, saka ndaive nekechipiri kumutarisa."

Riley akabva amhanyiswa kuNICU uko kwaakanopihwa chubhu yekudyisa. "Vakandiudza zvaive zvese nezve" paakada kumuka, "anodaro. "Ndanga ndakafanana," muka? " Vakandiudza kuti izvi zvinoitika nevana veC-chikamu uye ini ndaive senge, 'sei ndisina kumbonzwa nezvazvo? Sei ichi chiri chinhu chakajairika uye pasina munhu anopenga apo, kwandiri, anoita kunge ane machubhu kwese kwese? ' Zvaishungurudza zvakanyanya uye zvakanyanya kuoma. " (Related: Rwendo Rwunoshamisa rweMukadzi uyu kuenda kuAmai Hapana Chidiki Chinokurudzira)

Femerwa nemwana iyeye akabuda mauri. Wakakura chinhu ichocho. Imhaka yako ivo vapenyu izvozvi - zvinoshamisa. Saka tora izvozvo uye uzvikurudzire. Ndiri kuda kuti mwanakomana wangu anditarise ndichiita zvese kuitira kuti azive kuti anogona kuzviita futi.

Heather Irobunda, MD, chiremba wezvekuzvara ari kuNew York City uye ari nhengo yekanzuru yePeloton's Advisory Council anoti nyaya yemuimbi uyu yakajairika. "Zvinoita sekunge mwana wake angave aine tachypnea yenguva pfupi yemwana achangozvarwa," anodaro, achiona kuti anowanzoona mamiriro acho kakawanda pasvondo mukuita kwake. TTN chirwere chekufema chinoonekwa nguva pfupi mushure mekusununguka chinowanzotora maawa asingasviki makumi mana nemasere. Tsvagiridzo yenguva yekuzvara (vana vanozvarwa pakati pemasvondo makumi matatu nemanomwe kusvika makumi mana nemaviri), inoratidza kuti TTN inoitika mukati me5-6 pa1,000 yekuzvarwa. Izvo zvinowanzoitika kune vacheche vanounzwa kuburikidza neC-chikamu, vanozvarwa kutanga (pasati pavhiki makumi matatu nemasere), uye vanozvarwa kuna amai vane chirwere cheshuga kana asthma, sekureva kweU.S. National Library yeMishonga.

TTN inowanzoita muvacheche vanozvarwa kuburikidza neC-chikamu nekuti "kana mwana achinge azvarwa kuburikidza nemukadzi, rwendo kuburikidza negwara rekuzvarwa rinosvina chipfuva chemwana, izvo zvinoita kuti imwe yemvura inozoungana mumapapu isvinirwe kunze uye buda mumuromo memwana, "anotsanangura Dr. Irobunda. "Zvisinei, panguva yeC-chikamu, hapana kusvina kuburikidza nepanhengo, saka mvura yacho inogona kuunganidza mumapapu." (Yakabatana: Iyo Nhamba yeC-Chikamu Kuberekwa Yakawedzera Zvakanyanya)

"Kazhinji, tinonetseka nezvekuti mwana ave neichi kana, pakuzvarwa, mwana anoita kunge ari kushanda nesimba chaizvo kufema," anodaro Dr. Irobunda. "Zvakare, tinogona kuona kuti oxygen yemwana yakaderera pane zvakajairwa. Kana izvi zvikaitika, mwana anofanirwa kugara muNICU kuti awane oxygen yakawanda."

Trainor anoti mushure memazuva mashoma, Riley akazotanga kuita nani - asi iye pachake akange asina kugadzirira kuenda kumba. "Ndainzwa kurwadziwa," anodaro. "Ndanga ndiri," Handirarame pamba, rega ndigare pano. "

Mushure meimwe zuva rekupora muchipatara, Trainor nemurume wake, mutambi Daryl Sabara, vakaunza Riley kumba. Asi kurwadziwa kwemuviri uye kwepamoyo kwechiitiko kwakakanganisa. "Ndakazviwana ndiri munzvimbo yekurwadziwa zvandisati ndamboita," anodaro. "Chikamu chakaomesesa ndechekuti [pandakauya] kumba, ndipo pakarwadza marwadzo. Ndaifamba ndichienda zvakanaka asi ndobva ndarara pasi kuti ndirare uye kurwadziwa kwaizorova. Ndakarangarira kuvhiyiwa uye Ndaiudza murume wangu ndichichema kuti, 'Ndichiri kuvanzwa vachivhiya.' Iye zvino marwadzo akabatana nendangariro saka zvaive zvakaoma kuti zvipere. [Zvakatora] semavhiki maviri kuti pfungwa dzangu dzikanganwe nezvazvo." (Nechekuita: Ashley Tisdale Akavhura Nezvake "Zvisiri Zvakajairwa" Zviitiko zvePostpartum)

Shanduko yeTrainor yakauya paakawana chitambi chemvumo kuti atange kushanda zvakare - kanguva kaanoti akagadzirira nzira ye "kupenya" kwaanoimba nezvayo murwiyo rwake rutsva, rwunoratidzwa mumushandirapamwe weVerizon wazvino.

“Musi wakabvumirwa nachiremba wangu kuti ndiite maekisesaizi – ndakanga ndichizvikwenya – ndakabva ndatanga kufamba ndikatanga kunzwa kuti ndadzoka kuita munhu,” anodaro. "Ini ndanga ndakafanana, ndinoda kutarisa pahutano hwangu, ndinoda kudzokera kunzwa muviri wangu zvekare. Pandaive nemwedzi mipfumbamwe ndave nepamuviri, ndaitomira kusimuka pamubhedha, saka handina kuzomirira kutanga rwendo rwangu. kutarisa kwandiri semwana wangu. " (Zvakafanana: Ungakurumidza Sei Kuekisesaiza Mushure meKusununguka?)

Murairidzi akatanga kushanda neyekudya zvinovaka muviri uye mudzidzisi, uye mwedzi mina mushure mekusununguka, anoti ari kubudirira - uye naRiley ndizvo. "Agwinya manje," anodaro. "Hutano zvachose. Wese munhu ari kungonzwa nezve izvi izvozvi uye akafanana, 'chinhu chinotyisa sei,' uye ndakafanana, 'oh isu tiri kupenya izvozvi - anga ari mwedzi mina yapfuura.'"

Murairidzi anoti anotenda hutano hwemhuri yake, asi anoziva rombo rakanaka raakange ave naro kubva mukutanga kwake kwakaoma kusvika pakuva amai. Anowedzera kunzwira tsitsi kune vamwe vakadzi vane nhumbu uye vamwe vanaamai nyowani, uye anopa mamwe mazwi ehungwaru.

"Kuwana gadziriro yakanaka yekutsigira kwakakosha," anodaro. "Ndine amai vanoshamisa uye murume anoshamisa aripo zuva rega rega kwandiri nechikwata changu. Kana iwe ukazvikomberedza nevanhu vakanaka, zvinhu zvakanaka zvinoitika kwauri. Uye kurudzirwa nemwana iyeye akabuda mauri." Iwe wakakura chinhu ichocho. Imhaka yako ivo vapenyu izvozvi - izvo zvinoshamisa. Saka tora izvo uye uzvikurudzire iwe pachako. Ndinoda mwanakomana wangu kuti anditarise ini ndichizadzisa zvese kuti azive kuti anogona kuita izvozvo, zvakare."

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