Zvinorevei Kusanganisa Mumwe Munhu?

Zvemukati

• Nei misgendering ichiitika?
• Kukanganisa kunokanganisa sei vanhu vari transgender?
• Sei zvirevo zvichikosha?
• Chii chaungaite kudzivirira misgender?
• Chinokosha

Chii chinonzi misgendering?

Kune vanhu vari transgender, vasiri mabhinari, kana murume kana mukadzi asiri anoenderana, kuuya mune kwavo kwechokwadi kwevakadzi kunogona kuve kwakakosha uye kusimbisa nhanho muhupenyu.

Dzimwe nguva, vanhu vanoramba vachinongedzera kumunhu ari transgender, asiri webhinari, kana murume kana mukadzi asiri kuita vachishandisa mazwi ane chekuita nemabatiro avakaita pamberi pekuchinja.

Izvi zvinozivikanwa sekusavimbika.

Misgendering inoitika kana iwe uchiita nemaune kana kusaziva uchireva munhu, uchienderana nemunhu, kana kushandisa mutauro kutsanangura munhu asingaenderane neakasimbirwa murume kana mukadzi. Semuenzaniso, kutaura kumukadzi se "iye" kana kumudaidza kuti "mukomana" chiito chekutadza.

Nei misgendering ichiitika?

Pane zvikonzero zvinoverengeka nei misgendering ichiitika.

Semuenzaniso, vanhu vanogona kucherechedza kuti munhu ane hunhu hwepakutanga kana hwechipiri uye vanoita fungidziro nezve murume iyeye.

Izvi zvinosanganisira zvemunhu:

• bvudzi kumeso kana kushomeka kwaro
• yakakwira kana yakaderera izwi renji
• chipfuva kana nyama yemuzamu kana kushaikwa kwayo
• sikarudzi

Misgendering inogona zvakare kuitika mumamiriro ezvinhu anoshandiswa kuzivikanwa nehurumende. Chirevo cheTransgender Law Center chekushandura mamaki echikadzi chinoratidza kuti mune mamwe matunhu hazvigoneke kuchinja hunhu hwako pazvinyorwa zvakaita semarezinesi ekutyaira uye zvitupa zvekuzvarwa. Uye mune mamwe matunhu, iwe unofanirwa kunge wakavhiyiwa chaiwo kuti uzviite.

Sekureva kweNational Center for Transgender Equality's 2015 U.S. Trans Survey, chete zvikamu gumi nesere muzana zvevanhu vakaongororwa vaive nehurume hwavo hwakanyorwa pazvitupa zvavo zvese zvehurumende. 67 muzana vakanga vasina ID chero ipi neyakavimbisa murume nemukadzi vakanyorwa.

Muzviitiko zvinofanirwa kupihwa zvitupa zvehurumende - senge kumahofisi ehurumende, muzvikoro, uye muzvipatara - vanhu vasina kuchinja mamaki echikadzi vanogona kuve nemisikanzwa. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, vanhu vanoita fungidziro pamusoro pehunhu hwavo zvichienderana nezvakanyorwa pamaID avo.

Ehe, misgendering inogona zvakare kuita nemaune chiito. Vanhu vane zvitendero zvakasarudzika uye mazano pamusoro penzanga yekudyidzana vanogona kushandisa misgender senge zano rekushusha nekushusha. Izvi zvinoratidzwa ne2015 US Trans Survey, iyo yakawana kuti makumi mana nenomwe kubva muzana yevakabvunzwa vakashungurudzwa nemazwi nekuda kwehunhu hwavo, uye mapfumbamwe muzana akarohwa.

Kukanganisa kunokanganisa sei vanhu vari transgender?

Misgendering inogona kuve nemhedzisiro yakaipa kune munhu anozvivimba uye kuzvivimba kwehutano hwepfungwa.

Chidzidzo chegore ra2014 mumagazini Kuzviziva uye Kuzivikanwa, chakabvunza vanhu vane transgender nezve zvakaitika kwavari nekuitirwa zvisizvo.

Vatsvakurudzi vakawana kuti:

• 32.8 muzana yevatori vechikamu vakashumwa vachinzwa kusarurwa zvakanyanya kana vakanganisa.
• Genderqueer vanhu, uye vanhu vanga vatora matanho mashoma mukushandurwa, vangave vangangofungidzirwa zvisiri izvo.
• Vaya vakarasika zvakanyanya vaifunga kuti kuzivikanwa kwavo kwakakosha, asi vane ruzivo rwekuzvitemba kwakatenderedza chitarisiko chavo.
• Ivo zvakare vaive neakadzikira pfungwa yesimba uye kuenderera mukuzivikanwa kwavo.

"Kwandiri kuchikoro izvozvi kune vanhu vashoma vanochinja uye vasingaiti mabhaisikopo, hapana inoonekwa nharaunda, uye nepo kudzidziswa kwedu kwemari kwaisanganisira vhidhiyo pazita, hapana mumwe wevaporofesa vangu kana vandaishanda navo vakambobvunza kuti zvirevo zvangu ndezvipi," N. , 27, akadaro. "Kana mumwe munhu akataura zvisiri izvo neni kuchikoro ndinongowana kushamisika kwekutambudzika kunorwadza mumuviri wangu wese."

Paunoshungurudza mumwe munhu, iwe unomhanyisawo njodzi yekuvabudisira kune vamwe vanhu. Haimbove kodzero yemunhu chero upi zvake kana mutoro wekubuditsa munhu ari transgender pasina mvumo yavo yakajeka. Ikodzero yemunhu wekutengesa uye kodzero yavo chete kuudza vamwe kuti ivo transgender, zvinoenderana nekuti vanoshuvira kuve kunze kana kwete.

Kuburitsa munhu mutengesi hakungoremekedze miganhu yavo chete, asi zvinogona zvakare kukonzera kuti munhu iyeye anetswe nekusarurwa.

Uye, rusarura inyaya hombe yenharaunda yekutenderera. I2015 US Trans Survey yakawana idzi nhamba dzinotyisa:

• 33 muzana yevatendi vanhu vakaongororwa vaive neruzivo rwekusarura pavaitsvaga kurapwa.
• 27 muzana yevakabvunzwa vakataura imwe nzira yekusarura pabasa, kungave kuri kudzingwa, kubatwa zvisirizvo kubasa, kana kusabhadharwa nekuda kwekuzivikanwa kwavo.
• 77 muzana yevanhu vaive kunze kweK-12, uye 24 muzana yeavo vaive kunze kukoreji kana chikoro chehunyanzvi, vakashungurudzwa munzvimbo idzodzo.

Sei zvirevo zvichikosha?

Kune vazhinji - kunyange vasiri vese - vanhu vari trans, shanduko mumazita echisimbiso chikamu chinosimbisa cheiyo shanduko maitiro. Inogona kubatsira munhu anotapurirana uye vanhu vari muhupenyu hwavo kutanga kuvaona sevano simbisa murume kana murume. Kuwana zvisazitasingwi zvemunhu zvisiri izvo muenzaniso wakajairika wekuti misgendering.

Mazita ekutaura ndiwo mazwi atinoshandisa kuzvitsanangura isu pachedu mumunhu wechitatu pachinzvimbo chezita redu.

Izvi zvinogona kusanganisira:

• iye / iye / ake
• iye / iye / wake
• ivo / ivo / zvavo
• mazita echikadzi-asina kwazvakarerekera, senge ze / hir / hirs

Kunyangwe paine kumwe kupokana kwakanangana nekushandiswa kwezita rezvevanhukadzi-vasina kwazvakarerekera - kunyanya mashandisirwo avo / avo / avo sezita rehumwe kupesana neuwandu - kugamuchirwa kuruzhinji kweumwe "ivo" wakura mumakore akati wandei apfuura.

Merriam-Webster akabuda achitsigira mumwe “muna” muna 2016, uye American Dialectic Society, boka revanyanzvi vemitauro, vakavhota ra2015 ravo “Izwi reGore.”

Nekutenda, zvese zvaunoda kuti uzviite kuti ubvunze! Ive neshuwa yekupa yako wega zvirevo kana iwe uchidaro.

Kazhinji zvinonzwa kunetsa kubvunza vanhu kuti vashandise zvirevo zvakanaka kwandiri, kunyanya sezvo ini ndichivashandisa / ivo / vavo. Vanhu vanowanzo sundira kumashure kana kunetsekana kuti vagadzirise. Asi, kana vanhu vakawana zvakanaka, ndinonzwa kusimbiswa chaizvo mukuzivikanwa kwangu kusiri kwekubhinya. Ndinonzwa kuoneka.

Chii chaungaite kudzivirira misgender?

Kumisa ako ega misgendering maitiro uye kukurudzira vamwe kuti vaite saizvozvo inzira iri nyore uye inoshanda yekutsigira vanhu vanofamba muhupenyu hwako.

Hezvino zvinhu zvishoma zvaunogona kuita kudzivirira kusabvumirana uye kusimbisa kuzivikanwa kwemunhu:

1. Usaite zvekufungidzira.

Iwe unogona kufunga kuti unoziva kuti mumwe munhu anozivisa sei, asi haugone kuziva zvechokwadi kunze kwekunge wabvunza.

2. Gara uchibvunza kuti ndeapi mazwi aunofanira kushandisa!

Unogona kubvunza vanhu zvakananga kana kubvunza vanhu vanoziva munhu wakapihwa. Kana, iwe unogona kungopinda mutsika yekubvunza munhu wese avo zvirevo uye mazwi avanoshandisa ivo pachavo.

3. Shandisa zita chairo uye zvisazitasingwikune vanhu vanochinja muhupenyu hwako.

Iwe unofanirwa kuita izvi nguva dzese, kwete chete kana ivo varipo. Izvi zvinoratidza nzira chaiyo yekureva shamwari dzako dzekutengesa kune vamwe vanhu. Izvo zvinobatsirawo iwe kujairira kutaura chinhu chakakodzera.

4. Dzivisa kushandisa mutauro wechikadzi kutaura nevanhu kana kutsanangura vanhu kunze kwekunge iwe uchiziva kuti ndiwo mutauro unodiwa nemumwe munhu.

Mienzaniso yemutauro wechikadzi unosanganisira:

• kukudzwa kwakadai sa "changamire" kana "ma'am"
• mazwi anoti "madzimai," "vakomana," kana "madzimai nevarume" kureva boka revanhu
• kazhinji zvipikisheni zvevasikana zvakadai se "akanaka" uye "akanaka"

Dzidzira kushandisa aya echikadzi-asina kwazvakarerekera mazwi uye mafomu ekero panzvimbo. Unogona kutaura zvinhu se "shamwari yangu" pachinzvimbo cha "changamire" kana "ma'am," uye wotarisa kumapoka evanhu se "vanhu," "yall," kana "vaenzi."

5. Usatadzise mutauro usingarerekedze vanhukadzi kana uchiziva kuti munhu anoda kutaurwa naye sei.

Zvinogona kuita senge kushandisa imwechete "ivo" kurondedzera munhu wese ibhegi rakachengeteka, uye dzimwe nguva ndiyo nzira chaiyo yekufamba nemamiriro ezvinhu iwe usina chokwadi kuti munhu anozivisa sei. Asi, zvakakosha kuremekedza zvido zvevanhu vane mutauro chaiwo wechikadzi wavanoda kuti ushandise.

6. Dzivisa kushandisa mutauro usingashandisi.

Panzvimbo pekutaura kuti: "X anozivisa semukadzi" kana "Y anosarudza iye / iye / zvisazitasingwi zvake," taura zvinhu zvakaita sekuti "X mukadzi" kana "Mazita aY ndiwo iye / iye / wake."

Pakupera kwezuva, ziva kuti zvakanaka kuita chikanganiso pano kana apo chero bedzi usingaite tsika yacho. Kana iwe ukakanganisa, ingokumbira ruregerero woenderera mberi.

"Kana iwe uchida kuzvigadzirisa iwe, zviite uye uenderere mberi," akadaro Louis, ane makore makumi maviri nemapfumbamwe asiri munhu wekubheja. “Usakumbira ruregerero zvakanyanya kutoti ndizvo zvinodiwa nemumwe munhu. Haisi basa remunhu anotambira kukumbira ruregerero kana kukuita kuti unzwe zvirinani nekuda kwekusavapa kwavo zvakanaka. "

Chinokosha

Misgendering inyaya yakaoma kune vanofamba vanhu. Iwe unogona kuratidza rutsigiro uye tsitsi kune avo vanoita transgender muhupenyu hwako uye munharaunda yako nekuziva nezve kutora chikamu kwako mazviri uye kutora matanho akareruka ekudzivirira kuzviita.

KC Clements ndeye queer, asiri-binary munyori anogara muBrooklyn, NY. Basa ravo rinobata nekuziva uye kushambadzira kuzivikanwa, bonde uye hutano, hutano uye hutano kubva pakuona kwakanaka kwemuviri, nezvimwe zvakawanda. Unogona kuenderera navo nekushanyira avo webhusaiti, kana kuvawana pa Instagram uye Twitter.