Uyu Mutori Akazvitakura Nhau Mutambi Akanyanya Kubatikana Kupwanya Basa rake Kuti Aite Muviri-Vanyengeri Vamutsike
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Nhepfenyuro yeESPN Molly McGrath aitaura parutivi pamutambo wenhabvu kutanga kwemwedzi uno paakapihwa DM yakaipa kubva kune anonyadzisa muviri. McGrath, uyo parizvino ari mune yake yechitatu trimester, anowanzorega akadaro kutaura. Asi panguva ino, akaramba kugara kumashure. Pane kudaro, mune yemoyo Instagram post, akagovera kuti muviri wake ane pamuviri une simba rakadii - kwete chete pakukura munhu mudiki, asi kuti arambe achiita basa rinowanzoita mutero.
"Nezuro manheru ndakange ndakamira kwemaawa anopfuura matanhatu ndakananga, ndichinaya, uye ndaiziva kuti ndaizongogona kurara kwemaawa matatu nekuda kwekuchinja kwekupedzisira-kwechipiri kwendege," akanyora padivi nepikicha achimuratidzira ari parutivi. . "Kekutanga, pamwe nakare, ndakarega troll ine hutsinye nezve shanduko yemuviri wangu une nhumbu yasvika kwandiri." (Yakabatana: Nei Nyadzi-Nyadzi Iri Dambudziko Rakakura Zvakadai uye Zvaunogona Kuita Kuti Urimise)
Achienderera mberi nebasa rake, McGrath akavhura nezve shanduko dzakaomarara dzave kusangana nemuviri wake, kunyanya izvozvi zvaave pedyo nemagumo epamuviri pake. "Tsoka dzangu dzinozvimba uye dzinorwadza zvandisina kumbofungidzira uye musana wangu uchigara uchirwadza," akanyora kudaro. "Tisingarevi kuurayiwa kwezvimwe zviratidzo zvakadai sekusvotwa, chirungurira, uye kuneta." (Yakabatana: Weird Kubata Pamuviri Mhedzisiro Mhedzisiro Izvo Chaizvoizvo Zvakajairika)
Nezve izvo zvese mupfungwa, chekupedzisira chinoshungurudza McGrath nezvemazuva ano ndechekuti muviri wake unotaridzika sei, akanyora. "Ndiri kuita HUPENYU HWOMUNHU," akagovana. "Mwana wandakatakura anogona kugara kunze kwemuviri wangu izvozvi, uye muviri wangu wakasimba wembongoro wakagadzira mwana iyeye kubva pakutanga."
Pamusoro pezvo, McGrath anoti basa rake pacharo harisi nyore feat. "Basa remutori wenhau wepadivi rakaomawo nerwendo, gadzirira, hustle kuti uwane ruzivo, uye chokwadi chekuti hatimbopinde munhepfenyuro sezvataigona kunge takapa," akanyora kudaro. "Asi iwe unoziva chii, ini handingachinje CHETE chemamiriro angu sekondi. Ndinonzwa rombo rakanaka kwazvo kuwana basa randiri kufarira, zvinoita kuti ndikanganwe kuti munhu mudiki arikurova mbabvu dzangu."
Muhurukuro ne Yahoo Hupenyu, McGrath akati akatumira pamusoro pekutaura kwakashata kwetoll kwete kungoratidza kuti vakadzi havafanirwe kunyara nemitumbi yavo, asi zvakare senzira yekuwedzera kumiririra mitumbi ine nhumbu munhau. "Kashoma kuona mukadzi ane pamuviri paterevhizheni, asi terevhizheni haifanire kuve inomiririra nyika yatiri kurarama mairi?" akadaro achibuda. (Yakabatana: Mafuta-Kunyadzisa Anogona Kuva Anokuvadza Muviri Wako)
Zvisinei nekusafarira, McGrath akanyora mune yake post kuti anokoshesa muviri wake nezvese zvaunogona kuita uye kuti anoramba kuratidza kutonga kwazviri. "Ndinodada kuva mukadzi ane pamuviri anoshanda nguva yakazara uye ndinodada kuti ukuru hwekugadzira hupenyu hwemunhu hahuna, uye hahuzondinonotse," akadaro. "Vakadzi vanoshamisa uye vane simba uye chero asingaoni anogona kutsvoda achey yangu yakakura." (Zvinoenderana: Twitter Inopindura Zvakakwana Mushure meTrolls Muviri Unonyadzisa Mudzidzisi wekupfeka kwake)
McGrath ari kure nemutori wenhau wekutanga kuitiswa mhando iyi yekunyadzisa muviri. Kudzoka muna2017, Dallas-based traffic mutori wenhau Demetria Obilor akashoropodzwa nekuda kwemakara ake uye sarudzo dzekupfeka neanonyara muoni paFacebook. Munguva pfupi yapfuura, WREG-TV nhau anchor, Nina Harrelson akataura mushure mekunge murume amuudza kuti airatidzika kunge "ane simba guru" paTV. Kune zvakare Tracy Hinson, nyanzvi yezvemamiriro ekunze weKSDK News, akaombera achidzokera shure mushure mekunge troll yamuudza kuti aida bhandi rekuvhara dumbu rake "bulging." (Isa kugomera kwenguva refu apa.)
Izvi zviitiko zviri pachena zvinoodza moyo, asi vakadzi vakaita saMcGrath, Obilor, Harrelson, naHinson vakaita zvakatowanda pane kungoita negativity nhanho. Vakawedzera mazwi eruvengo aya kumikana yekukurudzira positivity mune vamwe. Case in point: Mushure mekunge McGrath agovera chiitiko chake chekunyadzisa muviri pa Instagram, akazadzwa nemeseji kubva kune vamwe vakadzi vane nhumbu vanoshanda vainzwa kusimbiswa nenyaya yake.
"Hei @MollyAMcGrath. Screw the trolls. Ini handisati ndasangana nemurume anogona kusimudza achikura hupenyu hwevanhu achiramba achipwanya basa ravo," Anchor anchor Emily Jones McCoy tweeted padhuze nepikicha yake achizivisa padivi.
"Ramba uchizviuraya, musikana!" wezvemitambo mutori wenhau Julia Morales akanyora mune imwe tweet. "Ini handigoni kumirira kuti ndiudze mwana wangu musikana kuti inguvai yeTV yaakawana asati azvarwa. Ndakagashira ndikamhan'ara kusvika vhiki 38."
"Ida mapikicha ese evanhukadzi vanga vachitumira ekushanda pamhepo panguva yekuzvitakura," mutori wenhau weNASCAR, Kaitlyn Vincie akatumira mashoko padivi pake pikicha yake yepamhepo.
"Saka heino imwezve: Nhumbu ine mwedzi mitanhatu, mwana anondirova nguva dzese, kunyanya anoda pandinenge ndichitaura paTV. Hazvingave neimwe nzira!"