Iyo Nha. 1 Chikonzero Vakadzi Vanobiridzira

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Unofunga kuti muchato uri kubiridzira mumwe wako muchato uri pamakumbo ekupedzisira, handiti? Tsvagurudzo nyowani yakapihwa pamusangano wechi109 weAmerican Sexological Association inokumbira kusiyana. Varoorani vakawanda vari kufara muwanano yavo-asi vari kutsvagawo wekudanana naye, ongororo yevakadzi zana vari pakati pemakore makumi matatu nemashanu kusvika makumi mana nemashanu yakawanikwa. . Hapana mumwe wevakadzi vari muchidzidzo akaratidzira kufarira kusiya imba yavo. Makumi makumi matanhatu nenomwe muzana vakatsauka nekuti vaida "kudanana kwerudo."

Uye kunyangwe zvinganzwika sekunge ingadai yakanyanya kusanyanya kunetsekana kuronga zuva remanheru, vatsvagiri vakapinda muchidzidzo vanoti hazvishande nenzira iyoyo. "Kutsvaga kwenguva refu kwekuita bonde ndekwekuti kurara nemunhu mumwe chete kunofinha," anotsanangura munyori wekudzidza Eric Anderson, Ph.D., purofesa wezvehurume paUniversity yeWinchester kuEngland, pamwe nemukuru wesainzi kuAshleyMadison.com .

Uye uchitsvaga bonde kumwe kumwe kungashanda kune vamwe vakaroora (funga Frank naClaire Underwood mukati Imba Yemakadhi), handiyo chete nzira yekuenda (kana mhinduro yakanaka!). Tanga, pachinzvimbo, nekungotaura chete. "Vakawanda vakaroorana, kunyange avo vari murudo rwakadzama, havazivi kutaura nezvebonde," anodaro Jenni Skyler, Ph.D., chiremba wezvepabonde uye hukama uye director weThe Intimacy Institute muBoulder, CO. .

Kana iwe newawakaroorana naye muchiita sekunge hamunetsi kutenderera nyaya yacho - asi vese vari vaviri vanoda kuunza zvinonhuwira mukamuri yekurara-kusaina kumusangano kune imwe nzvimbo yekutengesa bonde kune rako rinotevera zuva husiku, nyanzvi dzinopa zano. Izvo zvinogona kubatsira kuti imi mose musununguka kutaura izvo zvinokutenderedzai-uye izvo zvisinga. Hembe dzakasiiwa dziripo, asi kuve nehunyanzvi uchitaura matekinoroji akasiyana uye matipi zvinogona kuita kuti zvive nyore kwauri kuti uvhure mushure mekirasi pamwe nekunakidzwa uchiita chinhu chinoshamisira pamwe chete.

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