Ko Kushandisa Vibrator Kakawanda Kakawanda Kunodzikisira Clitoris Yangu?

Zvemukati

• Mhinduro? Kwete, vibe yako haisi kuzoparadza V yako
• Kana iwe uine chiveve, iyo yakaipa zvakadaro haisi yako vibe
• Zvakadaro haugone orgasm panguva yepabonde hwepabonde?
• Kutora

Ini ndiri munyori wepabonde anoedza-anotyaira obva anyora nezve matoyi epabonde.

Nekudaro, apo izwi rekuti "vakafa vagina syndrome" raive richikandirwa padandemutande kutsanangura vibrator-inokonzereswa nether region chiveve, ndakazvibvunza kuti: Ndinoda comp yevashandi here? Ini ndinofanira kudzora kumashure pane iyo buzz?

Ndakashevedza yangu yekuenda-pabonde uye nyanzvi dzevhivhi kuti ndibatsire kupindura uyu unokosha mubvunzo: Inogona yakawandisa nguva yemhando nema vibrator chaizvo desensitize my clit kana mess neimwe chikamu chemukadzi wangu?

Mhinduro? Kwete, vibe yako haisi kuzoparadza V yako

Sekureva kwenyanzvi yezvebonde Jill McDevitt, PhD, neCalExotic, "akafa vagina syndrome" izwi risiri remishonga, rinotyisa rinotungamirwa nevanhu vasinganyatsonzwisisa bonyora revakadzi, orgasms, mafaro, kana kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi uye vulvar anatomy.

Ivo vanhu vanotsigira iyi yekunyepedzera kuongororwa vanogona kutonyanya kuve vakaipisisa pane avo vanoti ivo "havatende mu lube" (cue eye roll).

"Sosaiti inonzwa uye inodzidzisa vakadzi kuti vanzwe kusagadzikana nepfungwa yevakadzi vanowana mafaro nekuda kwemafaro nekuzvibvisa," anodaro McDevitt. Nekuda kweizvozvo, "Vanhu vane vulvas vanoudzwa kuti vibrator icha'vaparadza 'kune bonde rakabatana uye kuti ivo havazokwanise kuita orgasm neimwe nzira," anowedzera. Asi ichi chinyadzo, kwete sainzi, kutaura.

"Ingano izere yekuti iwe unogona kushatisa hukadzi hwako kana kirisisi kubva pakushandisa vibrator," anodaro Dr. Carolyn DeLucia, FACOG, uyo anogara muHillsborough, New Jersey. Uye zvakafanana kune vibes ine yakawanda vroom pane yekucheka uswa (vimba neni, ndinoziva mamwe emagetsi emagetsi akasimba kupfuura iwe zvaunofunga).

"Panofanira kunge pasina dambudziko kana chiveve kubva kune vibrator ayo anoshanda pane yakanyanyisa vibrator pateni kana kusimba," anodaro DeLucia. Chaizvoizvo, iyo Hitachi wand ndeye chiremba-anotenderwa. Unogona kuishandisa zvese zvaunoda - kunze kwekunge zvichirwadza zviri pamutemo kana iwe usina kugadzikana pane chero chikonzero, hongu.

Paitove nechidzidzo chidiki chakaburitswa muThe Journal of Sexual Medicine chakaona kuti vibrator hadzina chiveve. Ruzhinji rwevashandisi ve vibrator vakashuma zip, zilch, zero zvakashata kana zvisina kunaka zviratidzo munhengo dzavo dzebonde semhedzisiro.

Muchokwadi, zvinopesana nekutenda kwema vibrator maalarm, paive nehumbowo hwakawandisa hwekuti kushandisa vibrator kwakabatsira pamhedzisiro. Izvi zvaisanganisira:

• orgasm
• kuwedzera lubrication
• kurwadziwa kwakaderera
• mukana wakakura wekutsvaga gynecological kuongororwa

Saka vibe kure, vanhu.

McDevitt anonongedza kuti muchidzidzo ichi, "Hezvo vaive vashoma vakataura kupera simba, [asi] vakati kunzwa ikoko kwakapera mukati mezuva rimwe. ”

Clinical sexologist Megan Stubbs, Ed.D, anofananidza chiveve chenguva pfupi mushure mekushandisa kwechi vibrator kune chiveve chingave neruoko rwako mushure mekucheka huswa kana kubata Theragun. “Haigare nekusingaperi. Nemhando ipi neipi yekusimudzira kwakanyanya, muviri wako unongoda nguva yekumisazve uye kupora, ”anodaro. Zvimwe chete zvinoenda pabonde. Nhau huru kune vadikani vechi vibrator.

Kana iwe uine chiveve, iyo yakaipa zvakadaro haisi yako vibe

Kana iwe uri wekungogara uchi vibrator mushandisi uye ukaona kurasikirwa mukunzwa, Stubbs inoti ingangove chimwe chinhu uye kwete yako inobata ruoko buzzer yekupa mhosva.

Kunyangwe uchinetsekana kuti vibrator yako iri kuzokanganisa kugona kwako kunakidzwa netekinoroji isina hukama hwepabonde aigona ive chii chiri kukutadzisa kuburuka.

"Kune vanhu vane vulvas, yakawanda yeiyo orgasm inouya kubva muhuropi, uye kushushikana nezve orgasming ndiyo huru nzira yekuvhara," anodaro McDevitt. Hongu, inogona kuve yekuzvizadzisa chiporofita.

Zvakadaro, DeLucia anoratidzira kunyorera musangano neOB-GYN yako kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinzwikwa. Zvinhu zvakaita sekushushikana, kushushikana, mishonga, kana imwe mamiriro ehutano anogona kukonzeresa kunzwisisika kwako, saka zvakakosha kuti uone kuti chii chiri kukuodza moyo pasi.

Zvakadaro haugone orgasm panguva yepabonde hwepabonde?

Kutanga, fema. Izvo zvakajairika. Hazvireve hazvo kuti chero chinhu chakanganisika.

"Chikamu chegumi chete chevakadzi chinoguma zviri nyore," anodaro DeLucia. "Uye vakadzi vazhinji havagone kusvika kumagumo ne / kubva pabonde rinopinda chete uye vanoda kutwasanuka chaiko kusvika kumagumo." Nekudaro, dzimwe nguva vibrator zvinonyanya kushanda nekuti zvinopa izvo zvinokurudzira uyezve zvimwe.

DeLucia anoti ndokusaka vamwe vakadzi vachikwanisa kuita orgasm netoyi asi kwete mumwe. Haisi iyo bata ndiko kupindira neO, chaizvo; ndizvo nzvimbo yekubata, anodaro.

Nekudaro, kana kiriti yako ichiwanzorasirwa padivi panguva yemutambo (aka bonde rinopinda), uya nemwana iyeye kuitira backup.

Izvi zvinogona kureva kushandisa ruoko rwako kana kukumbira mumwe wako kuti ashandise ruoko rwake. Asi zvinogona zvakare kureva kuunza yako buzzy boo mumusanganiswa, futi. Chero nzira, ingo ita shuwa kuti clitoris yako iri kupihwa hanya kuti ubve.

"Ndinoziva kuti hapana munhu ari kudhonza vibrator kunze panguva yebonde bhaisikopo, asi bonde repamoyo harisi rehupenyu chaihwo bonde!," Anodaro Stubbs. “Vakadzi vazhinji ita vanoda kuti vibe ibve kune vamwe vavo, uye hapana munhu anofanira kumbokunyadzisa nekuda kweizvozvo. ”

Vibe shame? Kwete mumba mangu.

Kutora

Nhau dzakanaka iwe haufanire kunetseka nezve vibrator-inosimudzira chiveve.

Nhau dzakaipa? “Nyaya yacho kazhinji haisi yekuita chiveve kana kuora moyo. Nyaya ndeye kusagadzikana kwevanhu nekunakidzwa kwevakadzi nekusanzwisisana kwemaatomu, "anodaro McDevitt. Kushoreka kwekunakirwa kwevakadzi kunogona kunge kuri kudzikira, asi isu tichine nzira dzekuenda.

Saka gara pasi, zorora, uye unakirwe neiyo vibrator kwenguva yakareba (kana kune akawanda maoregasms) sezvaunoda.

Gabrielle Kassel ndeyeNew York-based Wellness munyori uye CrossFit Level 1 Mudzidzisi. Iye ave munhu wemangwanani, akaedza iro rese30 dambudziko, ndokudya, kudhakwa, kukwesha pamwe, kukwesha pamwe, nekugezwa nemarasha - zvese muzita rezvenhau. Munguva yake yekusununguka, anogona kuwanikwa achiverenga mabhuku ekuzvibatsira, kubhenji-bhenji, kana kutamba pole. Mutevere pa Instagram.