Autism Kurera Vana: 9 Nzira dzeKugadzirisa Yako Babysitting Dilemma

Zvemukati

• 1. Nharaunda yatove nayo
• 2. Chikoro
• 3. Therapist rutsigiro
• 4. Autism yevabereki "mikoko pfungwa"
• 5. Special inoda misasa
• 6. Koreji dzakakosha ed zvirongwa
• 7. Zvirongwa zveChechi
• 8. Nzvimbo dzekuchengeta uye dzekuchengeta
• 9. Iva negadziriro yeparutivi

Kurera vana kunogona kuve kusarudzika. Kurera vana kunogona kunetesa. Wese munhu anoda zororo. Wese munhu anoda kubatana zvakare.

Kunyangwe iri nekuda kwekushushikana, nzvimbo dzaunofanirwa kumhanyisa, kuda kukwesha pamusoro pevakuru-kutaura, kana kuona kuti iwe ikozvino wotaura kune mumwe wako mufesetto inowanzo chengeterwa mudiki, vanochengeta vana chikamu chakakosha chekurera.

Mwanasikana wangu mudiki, Lily, ane autism. Dambudziko kwandiri nevamwe vabereki vevana vane autism nderekuti, muzviitiko zvakawanda, mwana wemuvakidzani uyo akakodzera kuita semuchengeti wevana haana kukodzera kubata zvinodiwa nemwana ane autism. Hazvina kunaka kumwana, kana, kutaura chokwadi, kune anochengeta mwana. Zvinhu zvakaita sekuzvikuvadza maitiro, kunyungudika, kana hukasha zvinogona kutadzisa kunyange wechidiki kuyaruka kubva pakubata mwana. Zvinhu zvakaita sekushomeka kana kutaurirana zvisina kutaurwa zvinogona kusimudza nyaya dzekuvimba dzinogona kurovera mumwe anokwanisa kugara kubva mukufungisisa nekuda kwekushayikwa kwenyaradzo yevabereki.

Zvinogona kuve zvakaoma kwazvo kuwana mumwe munhu anorova mashiripiti trifecta yekuvimba, kugona, uye kuwanikwa. Kutsvaga akanaka wekuchengeta chinzvimbo kumusoro uko kumusoro nekuwana chiremba akanaka. Heano mamwe mazano ekuti ungatsvage kupi kwezuva-husiku zviwanikwa, kana kungo zorora zvishoma.

1. Nharaunda yatove nayo

Nzvimbo yekutanga - uye, zvine nharo, iri nyore - inonyanya kukosha zvinodiwa nevabereki kutarisa mukati memhuri dzavo uye mapoka eshamwari. Vimba navo? Ndizvozvo! Uye vanoshanda zvakachipa! Asi sekuru nasekuru pavanokwegura, kana vanatete nasekuru vachienda kure, zvinogona kuomera vabereki kuti vapinde mumambure aripo. Pamusoro pezvo, iwe unogona kuwana iyo pfungwa (kungave kwakarurama kana zvisizvo) kuti iwe uri "kumanikidza." Asi, nokutendeseka, dai iwe uine zvakawanda zviwanikwa zvekuchengeta kwako vana, iwe haungazove uchiverenga ichi chinyorwa zvakadaro.

2. Chikoro

Vabatsiri vechikoro vatove kushanda nemwana wako uye vanoziva nezvavanoda vanogona kunge vachida kuwana mari shoma padivi. Uine vabatsiri venguva yakareba vakazvitsaurira, danho rekunyaradza, uye kunyangwe hushamwari, zvinogona kukura izvo zvinoita kuti kubvunza nezve kubysitting gig kutotyisa. Mwanasikana wangu wenguva refu akazvipira mubatsiri akambomutarisa pamusoro pezhizha. Aive akatokwanisika kudhura, tichifunga zvese zvaakaitira Lily. Panguva iyoyo, raive basa rerudo uye anga ari mhuri chaiyo.

3. Therapist rutsigiro

Lily anowana "masevhisi akapetwa" (kurapwa kunze kwenzvimbo yechikoro) yekutaura kuburikidza nekoreji yemuno. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, aya marudzi ebasa anotariswa nachiremba, asi "basa rekugunun'una" rinotarisirwa nevana vekoreji vanoenda kuchikoro kuti vave varapi vega. Vana vepaKoreji vanogara vachida mari - Ini ndakabaya mune angangoita maviri ekutanga ekurapa ekurapa kuti vatarise Lily kuti ndikwanise kuenda kunodya kana kunwa neshamwari. Vanoziva Lily, vanonzwisisa zvaari kuda, uye pane nhanho yekunyaradza pakati pavo kubva kumaawa marefu vachishanda pamwechete.

4. Autism yevabereki "mikoko pfungwa"

Sezvo iwe uchikudziridza yako yemagariro nhepfenyuro dzinza uye kutora chikamu mumapoka evanhu vari mumamiriro akafanana, iwe unogona kushandisa simba rezvemagariro media kukumbira mazano, kana kutumira "rubatsiro runodiwa" zvikumbiro kune vanhu vano "zviwana" uye vanogona kuziva mumwe munhu. Pamwe urikushaya bhenefiti yakapusa kana sosi inogona. Pfungwa dzemukoko dzinogona kukugadzirisa.

5. Special inoda misasa

Kazhinji kuburikidza nechikoro kana kurapwa, vabereki vanozotumidzwa kune akakosha anodikanwa emisasa yezhizha. Vanhu vakatokudziridza hukama nemwana wako mumisasa yezhizha ino vanogona kuswededzwa kubasa padivi. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, vanhu ava vanozvipira, kazhinji vaine mudiwa wavo ane zvidikanwi zvakakosha. Chido chavo chechokwadi chekushanda nevana vedu uye ruzivo rwavakawana kubva mukutsigira musasa unovaita sarudzo dzakanaka dzekuchengeta vana.

6. Koreji dzakakosha ed zvirongwa

Uku kukunda. Vadzidzi vanodzidzira basa mune yakasarudzika dzidzo vanogamuchira zvishoma kune-pa-basa rovedzo. Tora mukana wavo kudiwa kwedoro uye pizza mari uchivabvumidza kuwana zvishoma kutangazve-kuvaka, chaicho-chaihwo hupenyu. Kazhinji, makoreji anozotumira rubatsiro runodiwa online. Neimwe nzira, iwe unogona kusvika kune madhipatimendi misoro nezvevangangobvumirwa kukwikwidza

7. Zvirongwa zveChechi

Vabereki vevana vanodikanwa vana vane mukana wekunosanganisira chirongwa chechechi vanogona kunyorera vadzidzisi kana vabatsiri muzvirongwa izvi zvekuwana mikana kana mazano.

8. Nzvimbo dzekuchengeta uye dzekuchengeta

Kana iwe uchiri wakanamatira, nzvimbo dzekutarisira senge Care.com, Urbansitter, uye Sittercity runyorwa vanochengeta avo vanopa masevhisi avo. Iwo masayiti anowanzo kuve nerondedzero yakanangana nevanokosha vanochengeta. Iwe unogona kuvabvunzurudza uye uwane mumwe munhu anoita seakakodzera mhuri yako. Dzimwe nguva, iwe unofanirwa kuve nhengo kuti ushandise saiti masevhisi, asi izvo zvinoita semutengo mudiki kubhadhara kuzorora kunodiwa.

9. Iva negadziriro yeparutivi

Kunyangwe kubaya pane zvese zvataurwa pamusoro, zvinogona kuramba zvichinetsa kuwana mumwe munhu akavimbika, anodhura, akavimbika, uye anokwanisa kubata matambudziko akasarudzika emwana wako ... uye zvakare anowanikwa pazvinenge zvichidikanwa. Uye zvakakosha zvinodiwa vabereki vanowana mumwe munhu wavanogona kuvimba naye kuti vavake muzvirongwa zvekuchengetedza uye sarudzo dzekudzokera kumashure kwemazuva iwo avanogarira sitter asiri mahara.

Kana iwe uchinzwa sekutora mukana pamwana wemuvakidzani kana uchinge wanyatsotsanangura kuti basa iri rakasiyana sei ne "zvakajairwa," saka nenzira dzose, vaedze. (Asi zvidikanwi zvinodikanwa vabereki vanogona kufunga kuisa nanny cam yekuwedzera rugare rwepfungwa… sezvandakaita ini.)

Jim Walter ndiye munyori we Ingori Lil Blog, kwaanonyora zviitiko zvake sababa vasina vanasikana vaviri, mumwe wavo ane autism. Unogona kumutevera pa Twitter pa @blogginglily.