Iyo Sayenzi Inokwezva Kukwezva

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Nhau dzakanaka kwauri newako mukadzi webapiro: Iwe unongowana mumwechete mukomana anokwezva hafu yenguva. Zvinoenderana netsvagiridzo itsva yakabudiswa mu Yazvino Biology, zvinoonekwa nevanhu kuti zvinoyevedza zvakasiyana nemunhu iyeye

Kuti uone kuti chii chaizvo chinoita kuti munhu ave "mhando", vaongorori kubva kuWellesley College vaive ne35,000 vatori vechikamu vanoyera zviso zvekukwezva. Kunyangwe paine pfungwa yekuti kumwe kumeso kwakaringana (saBrad Pitt) kunofadza kwese, vaongorori vakaona kuti vanhu vakasiyana vaingoiswa kumeso kumwechete makumi mashanu epanguva yacho. (Nei kukwezva kuchidhakwa? Nekuti Chiso Chakanaka Chakafanana neHeroin, Kudzidza Kunoti.)

Sezvo vanhu vazhinji vaisabvumirana kuti ndiani aipisa zvakanyanya, vaongorori vakashamisika kana zvatinofarira panyama zvine chekuita nemasikirwo kana kuchengetedzwa. Iyo chete nzira yekudzora kwemajini uye ezvakatipoteredza kusarudzika? Nekudzidza vanhu vane zvakafanana genetics uye zvakatipoteredza kuratidzwa-mapatya. Asi kunyange vanhu vakafanana sezvaunogona kuwana vakangowana zviso zvakafanana zvinokwezva 50 muzana yenguva zvakare!

Saka chii chiri kupesvedzera "rudzi" rwedu? Vatsvakurudzi vanofungidzira kuti zvese zvinoenderana nezviitiko zvako zvakasarudzika. Ndosaka kunyangwe BFF wako ari *anenge munhu mumwe chete* sezvaunokwanisa kupindirwa nemhando dzakasiyana siyana dzehunhu: Hapana vanhu vaviri vane seti chaiyo yezviitiko nekudyidzana.

Vanotsvagira vanofungidzira kuti pane maviri akakosha emhando zviitiko zvinokwezva kukwezva kwedu kune mumwe munhu: Kuzivikanwa uye kushamwaridzana kwakanaka. Kutsvagurudza kwekare kwakaratidza kuti paunowirirana nemumwe munhu, zvinonyanya kufadza iwe unozviwana. Uyu musimboti unobata chokwadi kune zviso zvakafanana, ndosaka dzimwe nguva shamwari yako rebound mukomana anotaridzika eerily yakafanana neyake ex. Kana iri songaniro yakanaka, tinowanzowana zvinhu zvinokwezva zvikuru patinozvibatanidza nechimwe chinhu chatinoda. Izvi zvinogona kutsanangura kuti sei iwe uchiwana barista uyo anogara achikupa imwe pfuti ye espresso mangwanani yakanakisa. (Ungasarudza Sparks Pamusoro Pehukama Hwakagadzikana?)

Chidzidzo chacho? Iva nemhando yako. Kukwezva ndeyemunhu zvachose saka enda kumunhu iwe tsvaga inokwezva uye kanganwa nezvekuti shamwari dzako dzinobvumirana here kana kwete.

Ongororo ye