Kutaura Nevako Vako Nezve HIV Kuongororwa Kwako
Zvemukati
- Guy Anthony
- Zera
- Kurarama neHIV
- Mazita echikadzi
- Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
- Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
- Chii zvachinja?
- Kahlib Barton-Garcon
- Zera
- Kurarama neHIV
- Mazita echikadzi
- Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
- Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
- Chii zvachinja?
- Jennifer Vaughan
- Zera
- Kurarama neHIV
- Mazita echikadzi
- Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
- Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
- Chii zvachinja?
- Daniel G. Garza
- Zera
- Kurarama neHIV
- Mazita echikadzi
- Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
- Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
- Chii zvachinja?
- Davina Conner
- Zera
- Kurarama neHIV
- Mazita echikadzi
- Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
- Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
- Chii zvachinja?
Hapana hurukuro mbiri dzakafanana. Kana zvasvika pakugovana hutachiona hweHIV nemhuri, shamwari, nevamwe vadikani, munhu wese anozvibata zvakasiyana.
Iyo hurukuro isingaitike kamwe chete. Kurarama neutachiona hweHIV kunogona kuunza nhaurirano dzinoenderera nemhuri uye neshamwari. Vanhu vepedyo newe vangangoda kubvunza zvitsva nezve hutano hwako hwepanyama uye hwepfungwa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe unofanirwa kufamba uchiwanda sei zvaunoda kugovana.
Parutivi rweflip, ungangoda kutaura nezvematambudziko uye kubudirira muhupenyu hwako neHIV. Kana vadiwa vako vasingabvunze, iwe uchasarudza kugovana zvakadaro? Zviri kwauri kuti usarudze maitiro ekuvhura uye kugovana izvo zvikamu zvehupenyu hwako. Izvo zvinoshanda kune mumwe munhu zvinogona kusanzwa zvakanaka kune mumwe.
Hazvina mhosva kuti chii chinoitika, yeuka kuti hausi wega. Vazhinji vanofamba nenzira iyi mazuva ese, kusanganisira ini. Ndakatambanudzira kune mana evamiriri vanoshamisa kwazvo vandinoziva kuti vadzidze zvakawanda nezve zvakaitika kwavari, futi. Pano, ini ndinopa nyaya dzedu dzekutaura kumhuri, shamwari, uye nevasingazive nezve kurarama neHIV.
Guy Anthony
Zera
32
Kurarama neHIV
Guy anga achirarama neHIV kwemakore gumi nematatu, uye anga ave makore gumi nerimwe kubva zvaakaonekwa.
Mazita echikadzi
Iye / iye / wake
Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
Handimbofi ndakakanganwa zuva randakazotaura mazwi ekuti, "Ndiri kurarama neHIV" kuna amai vangu. Nguva yakapora, asi neimwe nzira miromo yangu yakaramba ichifamba. Isu tese takabata foni takanyarara, kune izvo zvaiita senge zvekusingaperi, asi anga achingova 30 masekondi. Mhinduro yake, kuburikidza nemisodzi yaive, "Uchiri mwanangu, uye ndichagara ndichikuda."
Ini ndanga ndichinyora bhuku rangu rekutanga nezve kurarama zvine mutsindo neHIV uye ndaida kumuudza kutanga bhuku risati ratumirwa muprinta. Ndakafunga kuti akakodzera kunzwa nezvehutachiona hwangu kubva kwandiri, kusiyana nenhengo yemhuri kana mumwewo munhu wandisingazive. Mushure mezuva iro, uye nhaurirano iyoyo, handina kumbobvira ndarega kuve nesimba pachiitiko changu.
Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
Zvinotoshamisa kuti ini naamai vangu taisambotaura nezve serostatus yangu. Pakutanga, ndinorangarira ndichigumbuka nenyaya yekuti iye, kana ani zvake mumhuri yangu, haana kumbondibvunza nezve hupenyu hwangu kuti hwave sei kurarama neHIV. Ndini ndega ndinogara pachena neHIV mumhuri medu. Ini ndaida kwazvo kutaura nezve hupenyu hwangu hutsva. Ndainzwa kunge mwanakomana asingaonekwe.
Chii zvachinja?
Zvino, handidikiriki kuita hurukuro zvakanyanya. Ndakaona kuti nzira yakanakisa yekudzidzisa chero munhu nezve izvo zvinonzwa chaizvo sekurarama nechirwere ichi kurarama NESHURE uye ZVINOTAURA. Ini ndakachengeteka kwazvo neni uye nemararamiro andinoita hupenyu hwangu zvekuti ndinogara ndichigadzirira kutungamira nemuenzaniso. Kukwana muvengi wekufambira mberi uye ini handityi kuve ndisina kukwana.
Kahlib Barton-Garcon
Zera
27
Kurarama neHIV
Kahlib anga achirarama neHIV kwemakore matanhatu.
Mazita echikadzi
Iye / ivo / ivo
Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
Pakutanga, ini ndakasarudza kusagovana chimiro changu nemhuri yangu. Yakanga iri anenge makore matatu ndisati ndaudza chero munhu. Ini ndakakurira muTexas, mune imwe nharaunda yaisasimudzira chaizvo kugovana rudzi irworwo ruzivo, saka ndakafunga kuti zvingave zvakanaka kwandiri kuti ndigadzirise chinzvimbo changu ndega.
Mushure mekubata chinzvimbo changu padhuze nemoyo wangu kwemakore matatu, ndakaita sarudzo yekuigovana pachena neFacebook. Saka mhuri yangu kekutanga kudzidza nezve chimiro changu yaive kuburikidza nevhidhiyo panguva chaiyo yakawanikwa nemunhu wese muhupenyu hwangu.
Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
Ini ndinonzwa kuti mhuri yangu yakaita sarudzo yekundigamuchira uye yakasiya zvakadaro. Havana kana kumbobvunza kana kundibvunza nezvekuti kurarama neHIV kwakamira sei. Kune rimwe divi, ndinovatenda nekuramba vachindibata zvakafanana. Kune rimwe divi, ndinoshuvira dai paine mari yakawanda muhupenyu hwangu pachangu, asi mhuri yangu inondiona se "munhu akasimba."
Ini ndinoona chimiro changu semukana uye kutyisidzira. Ndiwo mukana nekuti wakandipa chinangwa chitsva muhupenyu. Ndine kuzvipira kuona vanhu vese vachiunganidza mukana wekuchengetwa uye dzidzo yakazara. Hunhu hwangu hunogona kutyisidzira nekuti ndinofanira kuzvitarisira; nzira yandinokoshesa nayo hupenyu hwangu nhasi inodarika zvandaimbove ndisati ndaonekwa.
Chii zvachinja?
Ndave kuvhurika munguva. Panguva ino muhupenyu hwangu, ndaisakwanisa kuita hanya nezvekuti vanhu vanonzwa sei nezvangu kana chinzvimbo changu. Ini ndoda kuve anokurudzira kuti vanhu vapinde mukutarisirwa, uye kwandiri izvo zvinoreva kuti ndinofanirwa kuvhurika uye kutendeseka.
Jennifer Vaughan
Zera
48
Kurarama neHIV
Jennifer ave neHIV kwemakore mashanu. Akaonekwa mugore ra2016, asi akazoona gare gare kuti akange aibata muna 2013.
Mazita echikadzi
Iye / wake / wake
Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
Sezvo nhengo zhinji dzemhuri dzaiziva kuti ndanga ndichirwara kwemavhiki, vese vaive vakamirira kuti vanzwe kuti chii, kana ndawana mhinduro. Tainetseka nekenza, lupus, meningitis, uye rheumatoid arthritis.
Pakazodzoka zvabuda zvine hutachiwana hweHIV, kunyangwe ndaive ndakatyamadzwa zvakakwana, handina kumbofunga kaviri nezvekuudza munhu wese kuti chaive chii. Pakanga paine zororo mukuva nemhinduro uye kufambira mberi nekurapwa, zvichienzaniswa nekusave neruzivo kuti chii chiri kukonzera zviratidzo zvangu.
Kutendeseka, mazwi akabuda ndisati ndagara pasi ndokupa chero kufunga. Ndichitarisa kumashure, ndinofara kuti handina kuzviita chakavanzika. Ingadai yakadya pandiri 24/7.
Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
Ini ndakanyatso gadzikana ndichishandisa izwi rekuti HIV kana ndichiunza kumhuri yangu. Handizvitaure nemanzwi akanyarara, kunyangwe mune ruzhinji.
Ini ndinoda kuti vanhu vandinzwe uye vateerere mukati, asi ndinochenjerera kuti ndisanyadzisa nhengo dzemhuri yangu futi. Kazhinji kazhinji ava vangave vana vangu. Ini ndinoremekedza kusazivikanwa kwavo nemamiriro angu. Ndinoziva kuti havanyare neni, asi kunyadziswa hakufanire kuva mutoro wavo.
HIV ikozvino yaunzwa zvakanyanya maererano nebasa rangu rekumiririra pane zvekurarama nemamiriro acho ini. Nguva nenguva ndichaona vatezvara vangu uye vachati, "Unotaridzika chaizvo," vachisimbisa "wakanaka." Uye ini ndinogona kutaura ipapo kuti ivo vachiri kusanzwisisa kuti chii.
Mumamiriro ezvinhu iwawo, ini pamwe ndinotiza kubva pakuvagadzirisa nekutya kuvaita vasina kugadzikana. Ini kazhinji ndinonzwa kugutsikana zvakakwana zvekuti vanoramba vachiona kuti ndiri nani. Ini ndinofunga izvo zvine huremu hwayo pachayo.
Chii zvachinja?
Ndoziva dzimwe dzemhuri dzangu dzakura dzemhuri dzisingandibvunze nezvazvo. Handina chokwadi chekuti izvi imhaka yekuti vanonzwa kusagadzikana kutaura nezveHIV kana kuti inyaya yekuti havafunge nezvazvo pavanondiona. Ndinoda kufunga kuti kugona kwangu kutaura pachena nezvazvo kunotambira chero mibvunzo yavanogona kunge vainayo, saka dzimwe nguva ndinonetseka kuti havangofunga nezvayo zvakanyanya here. Izvo zvakanaka, futi.
Ndine chokwadi nevana vangu, mukomana, uye ndinotaura nezveHIV zuva nezuva nekuda kwebasa rangu rekumiririra - zvakare, kwete nekuti riri mandiri. Tinotaura nezvazvo sekuti tinotaura nezve izvo zvatinoda kuwana kuchitoro.
Ingori chikamu chehupenyu hwedu izvozvi. Takazvigadzirisa zvekuti izwi rekuti kutya hapachina mukwekwe.
Daniel G. Garza
Zera
47
Kurarama neHIV
Daniel ave nemakore gumi nemasere achirarama neHIV.
Mazita echikadzi
Iye / iye / wake
Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
MunaGunyana 2000, ndakaiswa muchipatara nekuda kwezviratidzo zvinoverengeka: bronchitis, chirwere chemudumbu, uye TB, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu. Mhuri yangu yaive muchipatara neni pakauya chiremba mumba kuzondipa kuongororwa hutachiona hweHIV.
MaT-cell angu panguva iyoyo aive 108, saka kuongororwa kwangu kwaive AIDS. Mhuri yangu yaisaziva zvakawanda nezvazvo, uye nekuda kweizvozvo, neniwo handina.
Vaifunga kuti ndichafa. Handina kufunga kuti ndakanga ndagadzirira. Zvangu zvakanyanya kunetsekana zvaive, bvudzi rangu riri kuzomera zvakare uye ndichakwanisa kufamba here? Vhudzi rangu raidonha. Ini handina basa nebvudzi rangu.
Nekufamba kwenguva ndakadzidza zvakawanda pamusoro peHIV neAIDS, uye ndakakwanisa kudzidzisa mhuri yangu. Tiri pano nhasi.
Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
Inenge mwedzi mitanhatu mushure mekuongororwa kwangu ndakatanga kuzvipira kune imwe nzvimbo yemunharaunda. Ndaienda kunozadza mapaketi emakondomu. Takatora chikumbiro kubva kukoreji yemunharaunda kuve chikamu chehutano hwavo. Isu taizo gadzira tafura uye nekupa makondomu neruzivo.
Sangano iri muSouth Texas, guta diki rinonzi McAllen. Nhaurirano dzebonde, zvebonde, uye kunyanya hutachiona hweHIV. Hapana wevashandi aivepo kuti apinde, asi isu taida kuve nekuvapo. Mutungamiriri akabvunza kana ini ndaifarira kuenda. Iyi ingadai iri nguva yangu yekutanga kutaura kuruzhinji nezveHIV.
Ndakaenda, ndikataura nezve bonde rakachengeteka, kudzivirira, uye kuyedzwa. Izvo zvaive zvisiri nyore sezvandaitarisira, asi mukufamba kwezuva, zvakazoita zvishoma kunetsa kutaura nezvazvo. Ini ndakakwanisa kugovera nyaya yangu uye izvo zvakatanga yangu yekupora maitiro.
Nhasi ndinoenda kuzvikoro zvepamusoro, makoreji, nemayunivhesiti, muOrange County, California. Kutaura nevadzidzi, nyaya yacho yakakura pamusoro pemakore. Inosanganisira cancer, stomas, kushushikana, uye mamwe matambudziko. Zvekare, ndepatiri nhasi.
Chii zvachinja?
Mhuri yangu haisisina hanya neHIV zvakare. Vanoziva kuti ini ndinoziva maitiro ekuzvibata. Ndave nemukomana kwemakore ekupedzisira manomwe, uye anoziva zvikuru nezvenyaya iyi.
Gomarara rakauya muna Chivabvu 2015, uye colostomy yangu muna Kubvumbi 2016. Mushure memakore akati wandei ekuva pamishonga yekudzvinyirira, ndiri kurumurwa kubva pavari.
Ndave murevereri wenyika uye mutauriri weHIV neAIDS ndakanangana nedzidzo uye kudzivirira kwevechidiki. Ndave ndiri chikamu chemakomiti akati wandei, makanzuru, uye mabhodhi. Ndine chivimbo mukati mangu kupfuura pandakatanga kuongororwa.
Ndarasikirwa nevhudzi rangu kaviri, panguva yeHIV nekenza. Ini ndiri mutambi weSAG, Reiki Master, uye simira-up comic. Uye, zvakare, ndimi nhasi.
Davina Conner
Zera
48
Kurarama neHIV
Davina ave nemakore makumi maviri nemaviri achirarama neHIV.
Mazita echikadzi
Iye / wake / wake
Pakutanga hurukuro nevadikani nezve kurarama neHIV:
Handina kuzengurira zvachose kuudza vandinoda. Ini ndaitya uye ndaifanira kuzivisa mumwe munhu, saka ndakafambisa kuenda kumba kweimwe yehanzvadzi dzangu. I called her into her room ndikamuudza. Tese takazofonera mai vangu nedzimwe hanzvadzi dzangu mbiri kuti ndivaudze.
Amainini vangu, babamunini, nehama dzangu dzose vanoziva chimiro changu. Handina kumbobvira ndave nekunzwa kuti chero munhu akanzwa kusagadzikana neni mushure mekuziva.
Ndeipi hurukuro pamusoro peHIV yakaita nhasi?
Ndinotaura nezveHIV mazuva ese pandinogona. Ndanga ndiri mumiriri wemakore mana ikozvino, uye ndinonzwa kuti inofanirwa kutaura nezvazvo. Ndinotaura nezvazvo pasocial media mazuva ese. Ini ndinoshandisa podcast yangu kutaura nezvazvo. Ndinotaurawo nevanhu vemunharaunda nezve HIV.
Zvakakosha kuti vamwe vazive kuti HIV ichiripo. Kana vazhinji vedu tichiti isu tiri varevereri saka ibasa redu kuzivisa vanhu kuti vanofanirwa kushandisa dziviriro, kuongororwa, uye kutarisa kune wese munhu sekunge vabatwa chirwere kusvika vazoziva neimwe nzira.
Chii zvachinja?
Zvinhu zvachinja zvakanyanya nenguva. Chekutanga pane zvese, mushonga - mushonga weantiretroviral - wasvika kure kubva makore makumi maviri nerimwe apfuura. Handifanire kunwa mapiritsi gumi nemaviri kusvika gumi nemana zvakare. Zvino, ndinotora imwe. Uye handinzwe kurwara kubva kumushonga zvekare.
Vakadzi vava kukwanisa kuita vana vasina kuzvarwa vaine hutachiwana hweHIV. Iko kufamba UequalsU, kana U = U, mutambo-unochinja. Inobatsirwa vanhu vazhinji vanoonekwa kuti vanoziva kuti havana hutachiona, izvo zvakavasunungura mupfungwa.
Ini ndave kutaura zvakanyanya nezvekurarama neHIV. Uye ndinoziva kuti nekuita izvi, zvakabatsira vamwe kuziva kuti vanogona kurarama neHIV, zvakare.
Guy Anthony inoremekedzwa kwazvo Mumiriri weHIV / AIDS, mutungamiri wenharaunda, uye munyori. Akaonekwa aine hutachiwana hweHIV achiri mudiki, Guy akatsaurira hupenyu hwake hwechikuru mukutsvaga kurerutsa hutachiona hweHIV / AIDS hwenharaunda nepasirese. Akaburitsa Pos (+) zvine mutsindo Akanaka: Kusimbiswa, Advocacy & Advice paWorld AIDS Day muna 2012. Iyi muunganidzwa wenyaya dzinokurudzira, mifananidzo yakasvibirira, nekusimbisa anecdotes kwakaita kuti Guy arumbidzwe zvakanyanya, kusanganisira kunzi mumwe wevatungamiriri zana ekudzivirira HIV. pasi pemakumi matatu nePOZ Magazini, mumwe wevakuru 100 Vatema LGBTQ / SGL Vanotungamira Vatungamiriri kuti vatarise neNational Black Justice Coalition, uye imwe yeDBQ Magazine's LOUD 100 inova ndiyo yega LGBTQ runyorwa rwevanhu zana vane simba vane ruvara. Munguva pfupi yapfuura, Guy akatumidzwa mumwe weVapamusoro 35 Millennial Influencers naInotevera Big Thing Inc. uye semumwe wevatanhatu "Makambani Matema Aunofanira Kuziva" kubudikidza Ebony Magazine.