Unofanira Kumirira Kusvikira Mushure meMazororo Kuti Uparadzane neOO?

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Iyi nyaya yakatanga kuburitswa muna Zvita 17, 2014.

Kurambana kunoyamwa, zvisinei kuti inguvai yegore. Mwaka wezororo, zvakadaro, une nzira yake yemashiripiti yekuita chigamba chakashata chinzwe kusingatsungiririki.Ipa mhosva zviedza zvinopenya uye mistletoe uye kufara, vakabata maoko vakaroorana-chero chikonzero, kana iwe usina kutengeswa zvachose paSO yako, zvinogona kuerekana zvinoedza kucheka hukama uye kupedza gore roga.

Kana iwe uchinetsekana nekutarisa hutsinye kana kukuvadza mumwe munhu, usadaro, anodaro Sofi Papamarko weShamwari yeShamwari Matchmaking muToronto. "Zviripachena, hazvina basa kurasa mumwe munhu pazuva reKisimusi kana manheru Evha Idzva," anodaro. "Same anoenda kune Zuva reValentine, zuva ravo rekuzvarwa, kana zuva ravanoisa pasi kati yavo." Zvakadaro, anotsanangura, "kupusa uye kunyange hutsinye hushoma kugara nemumwe munhu kwenguva yakareba kupfuura yaunofanirwa nekuda kwezororo riri kuuya." Uyezve, kana iwe uchigara pamwe chete, "kurambana nguva yezororo isati yasvika ingava chinhu chakanaka-zvichakupa nguva yekusiya nzvimbo yako yakagovaniswa yedzimba dzemhuri yako uye kukuita kuti uone matanho anotevera."

Kana iwe uri kunze-uye-kunze usina chokwadi nezvekuti inguva yekurambana here, ita izvo iwe zvaungaite chero imwe nguva yegore: Taura nezve zvaunonetseka nemumwe wako. Chokwadi, iyo hurukuro-ye-iyo-yemubatanidzwa hurukuro inogona kusanzwisisika, asi ivo vanokoshesa iyo kujekesa nekuda kwako (imi mese). "Kana iwe uchinzwa sekuti hukama hwako hwasvika mugwenga kana kuti unoda kutariswa iwe, ita hurukuro yakasununguka nezvazvo," rinopa zano Marni Battista, murairidzi wekudanana kubva Kudanana Nekuremekedza. "Hapana chikonzero chekugara muhukama husina kukukodzera. Asi, kana zvichikosha, isa nguva nesimba mukati maro-mwaka wezororo kana kwete."

Ko zvakadii nezvevaroorani vanoziva kuti havana mufaro, asi vanozvinamatira kusvika gore idzva zvakadaro? Zvinogona kudaro kuti hukama hwekushomeka hunoratidzika kunge hunonakidza pane kubata zororo wega. "Hazvisi nyore kuva iwe wega muzukuru pakuungana kwezororo kuzere nevarume, madzimai, vadiwa, uye vacheche-simudza ruoko rwako kana iwe uri mumakore ako makumi matatu uye uchiri kugara patafura yevana!" Papamarko anowedzera. Makore mashoma apfuura, Leann, 30, aive mu "hukama hwakanaka hwemwedzi minomwe" nemukomana wake panguva iyoyo, Jeff. "Pamberi pezororo, ndaive ndisina chokwadi neukama uye ndaive negumbo rimwe kunze kwemukova," anoyeuka. Zvakadaro, akasarudza kugara neyake nzira-shoma-kupfuura-akakwana mudiwa pane kushinga imwe inotonhora Kisimusi ari ega. "Ndisati ndasangana naye, ndakanga ndisina kuroora kwemakore, uye ndakayeuka kusurukirwa kwandakaita," anotsanangura kudaro. "Saka, ndakaguma ndakamirira kurasa Jeff kusvika mushure mekupenga kwehoridhe kwapera. Ndofunga ndaingonzwa sekunge ndaida munhu anondibatsira kuti ndipfuure napo."

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