Nhau dzechokwadi: Kurarama neHIV

Zvemukati

• Chelsea White
• Nicholas Snow
• Josh Robbins

Kune vanhu vanopfuura mamirioni 1,2 muUnited States vanorarama neHIV.

Kunyange hazvo huwandu hwehutachiwana hweHIV hwave kuderera zvakadzikama mumakore gumi apfuura, inoramba iri chikamu chakakosha chehurukuro - kunyanya kupihwa chokwadi chekuti vangangoita gumi nemana kubva muzana yeavo vane HIV havazive kuti vanayo.

Idzi ndidzo nyaya dzevanhu vatatu vari kushandisa zvavakasangana nazvo zvekurarama neHIV kukurudzira vanhu kuti vaongororwe, vagoverane nyaya dzavo, kana kuona kuti ndezvipi zvingavanakira.

Chelsea White

"Pandakapinda mumba, chinhu chekutanga chandakaona ndechekuti vanhu ava vaisaratidzika seni," anodaro Chelsea White, achirangarira musangano wake wekutanga nevamwe vanhu vane HIV.

Nicholas Snow

Nicholas Snow, makumi mashanu nemashanu, akachengetedza hutachiona hweHIV hupenyu hwake hwevanhu vakuru uye aigara achishandisa nzira dzekudzivirira Zvino, rimwe zuva, aive ne "slip" mune ake zvebonde maitiro.

Mavhiki mashoma gare gare, Nicholas akatanga kusangana nezvakakomba zvechirwere chefuruwenza, chiratidzo chakajairika chekutapukira kweHIV. Mwedzi mishanu mushure meizvozvo, akaonekwa kuti ane hutachiona hweHIV.

Panguva yekuongororwa kwake, Nicholas, mutori wenhau, aigara muThailand. Iye kubva ipapo adzokera kuUnited States uye anogara muPalm Springs, California. Parizvino anopinda muDesert AIDS Project, kiriniki yezvokurapa yakazvipira chose pakurapwa nekutarisirwa kweHIV.

Nicholas anodudza dambudziko rakajairika kana zvasvika pakutapurirana kweHIV: "Vanhu vanozvirondedzera sevanodhakwa- uye vasina chirwere, asi vanhu vazhinji vane HIV havazive kuti vanayo," anodaro.

Ndicho chikonzero nei Nicholas achikurudzira kuongororwa nguva dzose. "Pane nzira mbiri dzekuziva kuti munhu ane HIV - anoongororwa kana kurwara," anodaro.

Nicholas anotora mishonga yezuva nezuva - piritsi rimwe, kamwe chete pazuva. Uye iri kushanda. "Mukati memwedzi miviri ndatanga uyu mushonga, huwandu hwehutachiona hwangu hwakave husingaonekwe."

Nicholas anodya zvakanaka uye anorovedza muviri kazhinji, uye kunze kwechinetso necholesterol yake (chinowanzoitika pamushonga weHIV), ane hutano hwakanaka.

Kuve akavhurika kwazvo nezve chirwere chake, Nicholas akanyora uye akaburitsa vhidhiyo yemumhanzi iyo yaanotarisira inokurudzira vanhu kuti vaedzwe nguva dzose.

Iye zvakare anotungamira yepamhepo redhiyo inoratidza iyo inokurukura, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, kurarama neHIV. "Ndinorarama chokwadi changu pachena uye nokutendeka," anodaro. "Handitambise nguva kana simba kuviga chikamu ichi chechokwadi changu."

Josh Robbins

“Ndichiri Josh. "Ndiri kurarama neHIV, asi ndichiri munhu chaiye." Kuziva uku ndiko kwakatungamira Josh Robbins, ane makore makumi matatu nematatu mumiririri wematarenda muNashville, Tennessee, kuudza mhuri yake nezve kuongororwa kwake mukati memaawa makumi maviri nemana ekuziva kuti aive neHIV.

"Nzira chete iyo mhuri yangu ichave yakanaka ndeyekuti ndivaudze chiso nechiso, kuti vandione uye vandibate uye vatarise mumaziso angu uye vaone kuti ndichiri munhu chaiye."

Husiku hwaJosh paakagamuchira shoko kubva kuna chiremba wake kuti zviratidzo zvake zvakaita sefuruu zvakave zvichikonzerwa neHIV, Josh aive kumba, achiudza mhuri yake nezvechirwere chake chemuviri chakangoonekwa.

Zuva rakatevera, akafonera murume waakabata hutachiona kubva, kuti amuudze nezvechirwere chake. “Ndakaona zviri pachena kuti aisaziva, uye ndakaita danho rekutaurirana naye bazi rezvehutano risati ragona. Kungotaura zvishomanana. ”

Pane imwe nguva mhuri yake yaiziva, Josh akatsunga kusachengeta kuongororwa kwake kwakavanzika. “Kuhwanda kwanga kusiri kwangu. Ndakafunga nzira chete yekurwisa kusvibiswa kana kudzivirira makuhwa kwaive kutanga kutaura nyaya yangu. Saka ndatanga bhurogu. ”

Yake blog, ImStillJosh.com, inobvumira Josh kuti ataure nyaya yake, agovane ruzivo rwake nevamwe, uye kubatana nevanhu vakaita saiye, chimwe chinhu chaakaomerwa nacho pakutanga.

“Ndakange ndisati ndambove nemunhu mumwe chete akandiudza kuti vaive neutachiona hweHIV ndisati ndaonekwa. Ndakanga ndisingazive munhu, uye ndakanzwa kusurukirwa. Uyezve, ndaitya, kutya kunyange hutano hwangu. ”

Kubva paakatanga blog yake, anga aine zviuru zvevanhu zvinosvika kwaari, vangangoita mazana maviri kubva mudunhu rake renyika chete.

“Handisi kusurukirwa zvachose izvozvi. Kukudzwa kukuru uye kunoninipisa zvikuru kuti mumwe munhu angasarudze kugovana nyaya yavo neemail nekuti akangonzwa kubatana nekuti ndakatora danho rekutaura nyaya yangu kublog rangu. "