Aya "Makondomu Ekubvumidza" Tora Vanhu Viri Kuvhura Pasuru

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Mvumo inogona kunge isiri iyo sexiest pazvidzidzo, asi kana hurukuro yakavhurika haisi Kukurudzira, kumisa pakati pako nemumwe wako kunogona kuwira munzira-kunyanya kana zvinhu zvave kupisa. Ndosaka kambani yekuArgentina yekutambisa bonde reTulipán yakagadzira "makondomu ekubvumirana," izvo zvinoda kuti vanhu vaviri vavhure pasuru. (Yakabatana: "Kubira" Ndiko Kunonyanya Kurwiswa Pabonde uye Inguva iyo Mutemo Unozviziva Izvo Zvakadai)

Unovhiringidzika? Usave-iyo ichokwadi yakapusa pfungwa kana iwe waiona.

Heino mashandiro ayo: Kondomu yakaiswa mukati mekadiki, sikweya bhokisi, uye unofanirwa kudhinda makona ese mana epakeji (pane mabhatani kudivi rega rinoratidza pekutsikirira) panguva imwechete kuti uvhure.

"Iyi paki iri nyore kuvhura sekunzwisisa kwayo kuti kana isingati hongu, haisi," inoverenga zvinyorwa zvakashandurwa zvinoperekedza vhidhiyo kushambadzira. "Kubvumirana ndicho chinhu chinonyanya kukosha mune zvepabonde." (Yakabatana: 3 Nzira dzekuzvidzivirira kubva pakushungurudzwa pabonde)

Tulipán inogona kunyanya kugadzira matoyi ebonde, asi kambani inotenda kuti mafaro nemvumo zvinofambidzana. "Tulipán agara achitaura nezvemafaro akachengeteka, asi pamushandirapamwe uyu takanzwisisa kuti taifanira kutaura nezvechinhu chakakoshesesa muhukama hwese hwepabonde: mafaro anokwanisika chete kana imi vaviri mambopa mvumo yenyu," mutauriri weBBDO Argentina, iyo ad agency iyo yakagadzira dhizaini, akadaro muchirevo kuna Adweek. (Related: Nzira Yokuwana Nayo Yakawanda Kunze Kwenzvimbo Dzakafanana Dzebonde)

"Kondomu yekubvumidza" haisati yatengeswa kuArgentina; parizvino, Tulipán ari kufambisa iro shoko pasocial media uye achigovanisa mahara sampu kumabhawa muBuenos Aires, sekureva Iyo New York Post.

Kana pfungwa ye "kondomu yekubvumidza" ichinzwika kunge isina kunetseka, zvakanaka, ndiyo pfungwa. Kutaura nezvekubvuma ndizvo zvinoita kusanzwisisika dzimwe nguva, kunyanya kana iwe usiri kuda kukuvadza kana kuramba mumwe wako, anodaro Sherrie Campbell, Ph.D., chipangamazano ane rezinesi, chiremba wezvepfungwa, uye muchato uye wemhuri murapi.

Mvumo inowanzo "kurasika" mukutya kurambwa, anotsanangura. "Tinoda kufadza pane kutsigira zvatiri kunyatsoda mukuedza kusakuvadza mumwe munhu; zvakadaro, isu tiri kuzvikuvadza isu," anodaro Chimiro.

Anenge mumwe chete pavakadzi vashanu uye mumwe muvarume makumi manomwe nenomwe vachabatwa chibharo pane imwe nguva muhupenyu hwavo, sekureva kweNational Sexual Violence Resource Center. Uyezve, inenge hafu yevakadzi vanobatwa vanoshungurudzwa newavakaroorana naye wepedyo. "Kondomu yemvumo" haisi kuzoshandura nhamba idzi, asi zvinoita inomiririra nhanho munzira kwayo. Tiri kutaura zvakanyanya nezvemvumo mazuva ano kupfuura nakare kose, kusanganisira kuti nhaurirano idzodzo newaunosangana naye pabonde dzinotaridzika sei. Kana zvese zvataurwa uye zvaitwa, mutsara wakavhurika wekutaurirana ndiyo nzira yakanaka yekupfuura chero nyaya yakaoma. (Zvakabatana: Kushungurudzwa pabonde Kunokanganisa Utano hwePfungwa uye Hwemuviri, Maererano neChidzidzo Chitsva)

"Kutaura nezve bonde kunoda kuve nemoyo murefu, mutsa, uye nekunzwisisa, tichivimba kuti kana mumwe wedu achitida zvakadzama, acharemekedza zvatinoda kumiganhu," anodaro Dr. Campbell. "Hapana munhu anofanira kuda kurara nemunhu achiziva kuti haana kugadzikana kana kuti haana kugadzirira."

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