U Up? Maitiro Ekuunza Kwako Kink Yako kune Wako Partner
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U Up? iyo Healthline's nyowani yezano kuraira, iyo inobatsira vaverengi kuongorora bonde uye zvepabonde.
Ini ndichiri kufunga ndichifunga nezve kekutanga nguva pandakaedza kuunza fungidziro yangu yepabonde kune mukomana, kumashure mumakore makumi maviri ekutanga. Yakanga isiri iyo KUTI isinganzwisisike. Ini ndanga ndichida kuziva nezvekusungwa nechimwe chinhu senge tayi - {textend} Bonde neGuta sekondari plotline kuWARST.
Pandakazove nehushingi hwekumubvunza nezvazvo, ndaive ndakapunzika, ndichidzedzereka uye ndichidikitira pese apa murombo asati aziva kuti ndanga ndichingokumbira humwe hutapwa (uye akasungirwa kunge munda).
Sei ndainyara kudaro? Sei zvainge zvakaoma kutaura nezvandaida? Ini ndaive ndakatwasuka kushanda! Ndinoedza kuzvicheka zvishoma, zvakadaro. Mushure mezvose, izvi zvaive pamberi pekuti vanhu vanga vachiita mamirioni emadhora vachinyora nezve zvibvumirano zveBDSM uye "makamuri matsvuku," Rihanna asati atipa zano pakukurukura nyaya yemaketani nezvikwapuro murwiyo rwake rweS & M.
Chikurukuru, izvi zvaive pamberi pevanhu-chaiwo mahwanda ekubatira seScruff kana Feeld vakatora fungidziro kunze kwekutsvaga vavanowani vari papeji rimwe chete, kink-wise. Pane izvi, kungoongorora ma profiles ayo anonyora zvinoitwa nemunhu usati watumira meseji zvinoita kuti njodzi yekunyadziswa ive shoma. Unogona kujekesa zvaunoda pamberi peunhu munhu asati aona kumeso kwako (uye dzimwe nguva usingazive kuti anotaridzika sei fetish - {textend} zvinoita sei).
Asi ko zvakadiniko nevanhu vanosangana nevanhu kunze kwenyika, vanhu vanga vari muhukama hwakazvipira uko iwo musoro wenyaya usina kumbobvira wauya, kana vanhu vasingakwanise kuita nhaurirano yakajeka pamusoro pezvishuwo zvebonde newavo (ma) kune chero chimwe chikonzero?
Kunyangwe nekufambira mberi kwese kwatakaita nehukama hwepabonde uye dzidzo yepabonde, kuita kuti hurukuro itange kunogona kuomarara!
Kuita kuti hurukuro itange
Saka ndeipi nzira yakanaka yekutanga? Ndafunga kuenda kushamwari yangu Lux Alptraum, nyanzvi pabonde uye munyori we "Faking It: Nhema Dzinotaura Nezvebonde - {textend} Uye Chokwadi Chavanoburitsa" kune mazano.
"Mumwe munhu anogona kufunga kuti wakashamisa kana kuti izvo [kink] zvakakomba," anodaro Alptraum. Uku ndiko kugona chaiko uye kunogona kuodza moyo, asi pachine nzira dzekuti vaviri vabate hurukuro nekunzwira tsitsi nekuremekedza.
"Zvinogona kuva panjodzi yekuvhurika woti, 'Mhoroi, ndoda kuongorora chinhu ichi,'" akadaro nezvekutya kutanga hurukuro iyi, asati andiyeuchidza kuti zvinogona kunge zvichishungurudza kuva pamagumo. yekuziviswa kwekink, kunyangwe ikapedzisira yanzwika kupisa kwauri. Zvinogona kutyisa zvishoma nekuti panogona kuve nepfungwa yekumanikidza kana kuti "ko kana ndikazviita zvakaipa kana kusaziva zvekuita?"
Seye icebreaker yevatangi vekinky, isu vaviri tinokurudzira zvikuru kuenzanisa zvinyorwa - {textend} chaiko! "Hongu / Kwete / Zvimwe" ongororo dzinonyora dzakasiyana zviitiko zvebonde uye fetuki saka kana iwe uchizadza, zvinogona kuita sepfupiso yezvauri mese mairi.
Lux anokurudzira kushandisa iyo PlsPlsMe app, iyo inokupa iwe nemumwe wako bvunzo uye wozongoburitsa izvo zvamuri vaviri horny kuedza! Nekudaro, kune avo vane hukama hwakazvipira, iye zvakare anofunga kuti chinyorwa chakanyorwa nemaoko inogona kunge iri nzira yekuenda.
“Kushinga kuratidza munhu zvinhu zvako zvese uye kuvhurika kune mukana wekusazvifarira. Kink yakawanda iri kuvaka kuvimba uye kuvaka hukama. ”
Kutsvaga = / = kuongororwa kwehunyanzvi hwako
Hazvina mhosva kuti iwe unoita sei kuti hurukuro ienderere, Lux anodaro, simbisa pachine nguva kuti uku kuongorora uye kwete kuongorora.
Kana mumwe munhu achizeza nekuti vari kutya kuti havazozviita nemazvo kana kungoda nhungamiro, shandira kugadzira nharaunda inotsigira. Iye anofunga achiuya nemaitiro, "Hei, isu tichango tarisa izvi uye iwe kuyedza kunoreva zvakawanda kwandiri," anoshanda zvishamiso. Izvi zvinoreva zvakare kugashira mhinduro, uye pamwe nekutsvaga nzira dzekukanganisa kuti imi mose munzwe kugadzikana uye kuvhurwa.
“Dzimwe nguva unofanirwa kushinga, kutora njodzi, uye uzive kuti unogona kukuvara. Unogona kuona kuti munhu wacho anokuramba, uye icho chingori chikamu chepabonde uye kufambidzana. Gadzira yakaderera mweya mhepo, chengeta yakavhurika kupera, uye iva anoteerera kune chero mhinduro yaunogamuchira. "
Rakanakisa rairo - {textend} uye heino zvangu sekubata, shuga: Rega kuzvifunga iwe se "weird" kana ukabva pane chimwe chinhu chisinganyanyozivikanwa. Kana munhu wese akabatanidzwa iri GGG (izvo "zvakanaka, kupa, uye mutambo") uye usiri kutyora mvumo yemumwe munhu, iwe unofanirwa kuongorora izvo zvinoita kuti ufare uye ugutsikane!
Hutano kuda kuziva zvese chikamu chehutano hwakanaka hwepabonde, saka buda maoko akasungwa, tora izwi rakachengeteka kuenda, uye ibva!
Reed Brice munyori uye mutambi anogara muLos Angeles. Brice ndiye alum weUK Irvine's Claire Trevor Chikoro cheArt uye aive wekutanga transgender munhu akambokandirwa mune yehunyanzvi revue neChipiri Guta. Kana usiri kutaura tii yechirwere chepfungwa, Brice anonyorawo rudo rwedu uye chikamu chebonde, "U Up?"