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Zvemukati

• Demi Moore naAshton Kutcher
• Kim Kardashian naKris Humphries
• Sandra Bullock naJesse James
• Scarlett Johansson naRyan Reynolds
• J-Lo naMarc Anthony
• Charlie Sheen naBrooke Mueller
• Arnold Schwarzenegger naMaria Shriver
• Ashlee Simpson naPete Wentz
• Courteney Cox naDavid Arquette
• Eva Longoria naTony Parker
• Ongororo ye

Dzimwe nguva chirevo "hukama hwevakakurumbira" choga chingangoita che oxymoron. Kuroorana kwakaoma sezvazviri, asi kanda mumatambudziko eHollywood uye, kazhinji; iresipi yenjodzi inokwikwidza chero chinyorwa chebhaisikopo. Pasinei nekupenya uye kupenya kwemufananidzo weA-lister, "Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha kusatarisira kukwana," anodaro Beverly Hills psychotherapist Dr. Fran Walfish. "Tese tiri vanhu vane kukanganisa uye zvakakosha kubvuma izvozvo uye kuzvidavirira pane zvatinokanganisa uye zvatinokanganisa."

Pano, tinoparadzanisa hukama hwevanhu vane mukurumbira hwakanga husina kusimba uye zvaigona kunge zvakaitwa kuvaponesa.

Demi Moore naAshton Kutcher

Iine musiyano wemakore gumi neshanu musiyano, mikana yacho yakarongedzwa kupokana neiyi simba-vaviri kubva pakutanga. Asi vakakwanisa kuzviita makore matanhatu, runyerekupe rwekubiridzira kwaKutcher rusati rwazoisa kibosh kune vakaroorana vane rudo veKabbalah (Moore akazivisa zviri pamutemo kuti ari kuda kurambana musi wa17 Mbudzi).

"Anonzi" macougars "kana hukama hwehukadzi nemurume mudiki hwave kuwedzera, asi ngatitorei chaizvo, hazviite kuti vagare kwenguva yakareba," Kriger anodaro. Anotenda kuti, kana kuna Kutcher, kwanga kuchinakidza kwekanguva asi mufaro pawakanga wapera, vakanga vasina zvakawanda zvakafanana kuti varambe vachifara muKuroorana Tsvene.

Tisingatauri, kukanganisa kwavo kwose kwakarondwa uye kuudzwa chero ani zvake aizoteerera. "Dai vaviri vaviri vakambova nebundu mumugwagwa vakaiswa pabutiro remagazini ese epasi, isu tese tichaomeswa," anodaro Miller. Donaghue anobvumirana nazvo achiti: “Ndaizoudza vaviri ava kuti vayeuke chakaita kuti vadanane pakutanga.

Kim Kardashian naKris Humphries

Ne ping-pong yeakadaro/iye-akataura achienderera mberi munhau uye achipomerwa kuti zvese zvaive manyepo, zvakaoma kunzwisisa kuti chii chakakanganisika mumuchato uyu we "made-for-tv" wakapinda mudumbu. inopfuura mwedzi miviri. "Chimwe chinhu chaizvo zvakaipa zvinofanira kunge zvakaitika kuti muchato uyu upere nekukurumidza,” anodaro Tina Tessina, chiremba wepfungwa anodzidzira kuSouthern California.

Kana kuti makamera angave ane mhosva here? "Ichokwadi TV inogadzira TV yakanaka, kwete hukama," anodaro Allison Pescosolido, mubatanidzwa weDivorce Detox. Hukama nyanzvi Lindsay Kriger anobvuma kuti Kardashian achitamba hupenyu hwake kune vese kuti vaone ingangove yaive yekudonha kumuchato wake. "Kim naKris vaive vakabatikana kutepfenyura hukama hwavo paTV chaiyo, havana kutora nguva kuona kuti inoshanda muchokwadi chaicho," Kriger anodaro. "Kunyangwe Kim akamuitira mari seponi yekuratidzira paTV, zvinoita sekunge hapana akamuudza kuti kana zvasvika parudo, mubatanidzwa wengano haugone kurairwa paGilt."

Chris Donaghue, anotungamira mutsva weLOGO Bonde Rakaipa, Ine mamwe mazano kune iyo Kufambirana neyaKardashian's star. "Regedza kudzingirira zvinhu zvinopenya uye isa nguva nekushanda nesimba zvinotora kuti muchato ufambe kwenguva refu," anodaro. "Kuroora hakuna kuita semafashoni-mune imwe mwaka uye kunze kunotevera!" Kardashian anofanirwa kushandisa hunyanzvi hwakafanana hunoita kuti abudirire mubhizinesi kuhukama hwake hweramangwana, Kriger anodaro. "Pasina kuda kubva kumativi ese kutaurirana nekupa nekutora, muchato hauna tariro."

Sandra Bullock naJesse James

Sezvo nyaya iyi yakabuda zvinosiririsa munhau munyika yose, Sandra Bullock akakunda kunzwira tsitsi uye akabvuma mhombwe Jesse James akava munhu akaipa. Sezvineiwo, Rutivi Bofu mutambi akapedzisira ave vasina kuona iye pachake, zvachose murima nezve nzira dzemurume wake dzekubiridzira. Asi vamwe vaifungidzira kuti kusaenzana mumabasa avo kwakazoita kuti hukama hwavo huparare. "Pakazara, ndinofunga vaviri ava vaive mutambo wakanaka, asi ndine fungidziro yekuti basa rake rakakwira uye mbiri dzake dzakadai sekukunda kwake Oscar pakupedzisira zvakakanganisa hurume hwake," anodaro Tessina.

Kunyange pasina kana nyanzvi dzedu dziri kubvisira James basa rake rekukonzera bongozozo muwanano, Donaghue anofungawo kuti ringave riri basa raBullock rakasundidzira James kure-uye mumaoko evamwe vakadzi. "Ndingafarire kuziva kuti Sandra akaramba akabatana sei nemurume wake iye achigara asipo achipfura mafirimu." Anowedzera, "Mumwe munhu anofanira kuvazivisa kuti hukama hahufambire pa autopilot, zvisinei kuti wakabatikana sei." Kunyange nyanzvi dzedu dzese dzichibvumirana, kurapwa kwakanyatso kurongeka kuna James, Brooke Miller, weSoapboxtherapy.com anovimba kuti Sandra anodzidza kuda uye kuvimba zvakare. "Pakupedzisira, anozokwanisa kuvhura moyo wake kumurume anoda izvo zvaari kuda."

Scarlett Johansson naRyan Reynolds

Vaviri vanopisa vekuHollywood vatambi mukutanga kwebasa ravo-zvinonzwika senge mutambo wakakwana, handiti? Kwete nekukurumidza-vaviri ava vakananga splitsville kubva pakutanga vanodaro nyanzvi dzedu. "Hazvishamise kuti murume wepabonde ari mupenyu uye mukadzi wepabonde wegore akabatana, asi hazvishamisi kuti vakarambana mushure memakore maviri chete," anodaro Kriger. "Zvinoratidzika kunge zvakajairika kuHollywood."

Kunyange zvazvo kurambana uku kwaiwanzoita runyararo, hakuna kuuya pasina mhosva yeruzhinji. Johansson akati Ryan aive "akawandisa" nepo Reynolds akati Johansson aive "akazvimiririra uye ane moyo." "Tinogamuchirwa kune yatinoti hupenyu," Donaghue anodaro. "Kunze kwekunge urikuronga kubayira mabasa ako, imi mese zvirinani dzidzai kuregerera chinhambwe, kudzora manzwiro ako uye kunzwisisa kuzvipira."

J-Lo naMarc Anthony

"Shoma dzakatadza michato pasi peumwe neumwe bhandi ravo uye nezvidzidzo zvakadzidzwa, idzi shamwari dzakareba dzakashandura vadikani vechiLatin vakaita senge vakatemerwa hupenyu hwakareba uye hunofadza pamwe chete." Jennifer Lopez inobata hukama senge rinotenderera musuwo uye zvinoita sekunge iri kugara ichidzingirira iyo yakakwirira iwe yaunowana pakutanga kweimwe, "Donaghue anofungidzira.

Asi, maererano naMiller, Anthony anoita kunge ane mhosva. "[Anthony] aiva neshungu pa[Lopez] kwemakore akawanda uye akatarisa sezvaaiwana rudo munzvimbo dzose dzisina kururama. Paakazoona kuti akakodzera rudo rwake uye rudo rwake, akaziva kuti akanga ari munhu chaiye uye kwete imwe fungidziro, uye zvese zvakaparara."

Tessina anofunga kuti iyi yaive nyaya yekupokana mabasa-uye nehupenyu ". Hazvisi nyore kutonga imba yesimba saJ-Lo. "

Charlie Sheen naBrooke Mueller

Nehurombo, izwi rimwe chete rinouya mupfungwa kana zvasvika kumuchato unoputika uripakati Charlie Sheen uye mukadzi wechitatu Brooke Mueller, Uye zviitiko zvakaitika pamwedzi yakati wandei: Chitima chakapunzika. "Kana vaviri vakapindwa muropa vakaungana, vanosungirwa kupindwa muropa uye vanozvikanganisa nekuda kwerudo," Miller anotsanangura. "Kunotsvedza kunotsvedza kana wangoona kuti uri kungochinjanisa imwe zvinodhaka-zvinodhaka-kune mumwe-mumwe wako."

Ipo Sheen akatambudzwa nerunyerekupe rwekushandisa zvinodhaka, kupemberera uye kupindwa muropa kwemakore asati aroora Brooke, chirwere chepfungwa chakaratidzika kunge chiri mudzi wematambudziko emuchato uyu. "Zano rangu kuna Brooke raizove rekutarisira zvirinani kune hutano hwepamoyo hweumwe wako anotevera," Tessina anoti, "Haugone kuroora mumwe munhu kuti amununure kubva kwaari."

Arnold Schwarzenegger naMaria Shriver

Yaitaridza kunge muchato webhuku renyaya, uchienderera mberi kweinopfuura chikamu chechina chezana ramakore, kusvika mishumo inokatyamadza yazivisa mutambi uye aimbove Gavhuna weCalifornia. Arnold Schwarzenegger akange abereka mwana wepachivande rudo nemusikana wevashandi venguva refu-uye akazvivhara kwemakore gumi. "Ini ndinofunga Maria akapedza makore achitarisa nzira dzaArnold dzekumukadzi kusvikira aona nezve nyaya iri pasi pemhino dzake. Ndiko kwaive kutyora chibvumirano," anodaro Tessina.

Miller anofungidzira kuti kuchengetedza iwo mufananidzo wekuperera kwenguva yakareba zvakangova zvakaoma kubata. "Kukanganisa nekuti uri munhu sezvakaitwa naArnold, asi wobva wazvivharira uye uchienderera mberi nehupenyu hwako sezvisina kumboitika pakupedzisira zvinokonzeresa hwaro hwezvose zvaunomira kuti zvikanganise. Zvishoma nezvishoma unokanganisa uye hukama hunoparara uye hwakakwana façade inouya ichirovera pasi. "

Anowedzera Kriger, "Tinovimba dhiri rake remamirioni gumi nemashanu remadhora richabatsira kudzikamisa mamwe marwadzo. Werudo rudo chidzidzo nhamba yekutanga-kana achinhuwirira semubiridzi, anogona ndizvo munyengeri.

Ashlee Simpson naPete Wentz

Nepo michato ye "rockstar" ichiita kunge iine hupenyu hupfupi pasherefu kupfuura zvimwe zvikamu zveindasitiri yevaraidzo, Ashlee Simpson uye Pete Wentz airatidza kufara uye ari murudo-kusvikira aendesa kurambana makore maviri chete mushure mekuita mwanakomana Bronx.

"Nekuti iwe" mukurumbira hazvireve kuti hausi kuzowira munzvimbo yakajairika yekuparara mushure mekuita mwana, "anodaro Miller. Anowedzera," Zvinoita sekunge vaive muchikamu chehusiku hwehukama hwavo pavaka vanga vaine mwanakomana wavo nemitoro, kutya nematambudziko ekuva vabereki zvakangotora mukana wakawandisa. "

Donaghue anonzwa kuti iyi yaingova nyaya yekutiza kana kuenda kwaoma. "Kupfimbana, vanobvutira vanhu uye kuputika kwevanhu pachena hazviite kuti muve nemuchato unofadza. Ivo vaitoda kumisikidza mimwe miganho vorega kubvuma hunhu hwehuhwana."

Uye kunyangwe kuve amai kwaiita sekurapa Ashlee yenzira dzake dzakaomarara-dzekuparadzanisa, zvaisaratidzika kunge zvakadaro kuna Pete. "Uyu aive murume chaiye wepati vaviri, vasina kuita chakavanzika nezvazvo. Asi mwana paakauya, musikana wepati Ashlee akakura nekukurumidza uye akatanga kutora hupenyu zvakanyanya apo Pete asina kukwira chitima chevakura." Apo chitima ichocho chechirevo chakabuda muchiteshi, Ashlee akasiya Pete shure.

Courteney Cox naDavid Arquette

Hukama uhwu hwakaita kunge hwakavakirwa kuti hurambe huripo, kunyangwe nema showbiz zviyero. Courteney Washington uye David Arquette vangangodaro vakasangana pane imwe bhaisikopo asi hapana aigona kufungidzira yavo yegumi nerimwe mubatanidzwa ungazopedzisira wave bhokisi hofisi flop. Kunyangwe zvakadaro, vaviri ava vanga vari mubereki wemubereki 7-gore-gore Coco uye vakatonzi vari kugadzira TV sitcom pamwechete. "Zvinoita sokuti, munguva yose yewanano, Courteney akakura uye David akaramba ari mubasa remwana. Asi zvino zvavakanga vane mwana chaiye, Courteney akasarudza kuti aisakwanisa kuva amai kune vose, "Miller anoratidza.

Kana kuvapo kwake muvateereri mumwe David makwikwi nokuda Kutamba Nenyeredzi chero chiratidzo, vaviri ava vangangove imwe yeHollywood inonyanya kuwirirana-uye inoyemurika-kupatsanurwa. "Kunogona kunge kwave kuguma kwehurongwa hwemhuri hwakaonekwa neimwe nzira," Miller anoti, "asi izvi hazvina kumbobvira zvave vaviri vari kuda kutarisa chikamu."

Eva Longoria naTony Parker

Apo mutambikadzi akanaka paakaroora mumhanyi akanaka zvakaenzana, munhu wese aive ari kuvamirira. Mushure memuchato wenganano yeParis, vaviri vacho vakasarudza mushure memakore matatu chete, ivo "vaida zvakasiyana" uye vakamhan'arira kurambana. The catalyst? Kuwanikwa kwaLongoria kwemazana emameseji asina kufanira kune mumwe mukadzi-parunhare rwaParker.

"Ini ndinoturikira chirevo chekuti "vanoda zvinhu zvakasiyana" zvinoreva kuti aida hupenyu hwekuroora mumwechete uye aive achiri kuda kuve mutambi, kunze nekunze kwematare," Tessina anodaro. Miller anobvumirana nazvo. "Aida kiti-n-caboodle yese uye zvakajeka aisaida." Nepo Longoria akagamuchira chinzvimbo chaAmai Tony Parker, murume wake airatidzika kunge achichengeta kwake wega. "Kana mumwe munhu akarasikirwa nehukama hwake muhukama, hazvichisiri hukama," anodaro Miller. "Inova murume-mumwe anoratidza."

Asi, Eva aigara aine chivimbo akazvikumbira zvakanyanya uye akaenderera kumberi nemurume mudiki-uye anopisa. "Mukomana anopisa, mutsva ndiye akakwana bhendi-rubatsiro rwemoyo wakaputsika," Pescosolido anodaro.

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