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Melissa Etheridge akaita misoro yenyaya svondo rino paakataura nezve mbanje-achinyatso taurira Yahoo kuti "zviri nani kuputa" nevana vake vakura pane kunwa doro. Nepo chirevo ichi chakakonzera kuchema kukuru uye kumashure, ndinofanira kuva akatendeseka kwauri: Etheridge nevana vake havasirivo vega vanoputa sora pamwechete. Baba vangu neni tanga tichiputa poto pamwe chete kubvira ini ndaive nemakore gumi nemasere, uye zviri nani kwazvo kupfuura chero nguva isu tine girazi rewaini (kana maviri, kana matatu). Ndinoziva toni yenyu ingangove iri kuzunza misoro nekusatenda, asi rega nditsigire uye ndikuudze nyaya yacho.

Ndichikura, ini handina kumbobvira ndakapinda mumabhegi kegi, zvinononoka waini, kana skimings kubva pamusoro wepamusoro weumwe wevabereki 'doro muunganidzwa. Pasinei nechero doro raivepo, ini handina kumbotengeswa pairi. Zvichida zvaive nekuti hwahwa hauna kumbogara zvakanaka neni.

Zvandakaita kuyedza-uye kupedzisira ndaita fan of-yaive mbanje. Melissa Etheridge anoti akatanga kuwana sora paakanga achiputa mbanje yekurapa chemotherapy muna 2004. Uye kunyangwe iye nhasi asina kenza, achiri kuvheneka nguva dzose. "Kwaive kumuka kwandiri," Etheridge akaudza Yahoo. "Pandakaushandisa semushonga, zvakazojekera kwandiri zvekuti wakazvidzwa uye hauna kunzwisiswa, uye ndaida chaizvo kubatsira vanhu vari kutambura." (PS Heino chikonzero nei usingafanire kuenzanisa sora neopioid kupindwa muropa.)

Sezvinobvumwa, ini handina kuwana masora zviri pamutemo saEtheridge (uye handiregerere kutyora mutemo nhasi): Ini ndaive nemakore gumi nematanhatu, pamabiko epamba, uye mumwe munhu akandirongera bong bong. Kunze kwekukosora kwemamwe makumi maviri maminetsi akanangana mumashure (mukutarisisa, bong hit yaive nzira HURU yekutanga hupenyu hwangu semusoro wepoto), iyo isina calori-yakasununguka, yakasununguka vibe yakashambidzwa pamusoro pangu, uye handina kuzombotarisa kumashure kubvira ipapo. Asi aingova makore akati wandei gare gare, pandakagashira shamwari shoma kumba kwangu kwekumuka-uye-kubheka-mangwanani, kwandakawana hafu yemubatanidzwa wekuputa pavharanda redu rakavhenekwa. Ndinoyeuka ndichiisa zvidimbu pamwe chete-namatombo, kuitira rekodhi-uye ndikaziva kuti vaive baba vangu vaive mumwe atema matombo pamba.

Nguva dzose musikana wababa, taiwirirana zvikuru ndichiri kukura. Kana ndikawana giredhi rakashata pabvunzo kana chimwe chinhu chakaipa chakaitika pamukomana, ndaiwanzoudza Baba kutanga. Iye chete got ini uye ndaigara ndichimuwana. Saka pandakava nenguva yekuuya-kuna-Jesu kuti isu tese taiva matombo, zvakapotsa zvagadzira kusagadzikana muhukama hwedu nenzira dzinoshamisa kwazvo. Isu tese taive nechakavanzika chakafanana (uye ini aiziva wake), asi hapana mumwe wedu aigona kutaura nezvazvo. Kune imwe, amai vangu nehanzvadzi yangu vakanga vasiri muchitima chehari. Uyezve, ndakanga ndichiri kuchikoro chesekondari uye mbanje yakanga ichiri pamutemo zvachose munyika yandakakurira, mumishonga kana neimwe nzira.

Zvakatora nguva yekudzidzisa kuti tisvuta pamwe chete: Panguva iyoyo akawana bong rakashandiswa mumota yangu. (Chiverengo: mota yaakanditengera.) Kutakura zvinhu zvezvinodhaka zvakamboshandiswa panguva iyoyo kwaiva kupara mhosva, uye akanyanya kundiitira zvakaipa nekuti ndakanga ndisina basa nazvo. Uye teerera, aitaura chokwadi. Nekuti ini ndichifarira poto yekuputa, trunk yemota yako haisi nzvimbo yakanaka yekuchengetera zvinhu zvako. Asi zvakativhurira kurukurirano pamusoro pekuti isu pese taiputa sei poto, uye iye achindiudza nyaya dzekutakwa nematombo pamusoro pemakore-iwo akanakisa, senge ma1970- uye pakupedzisira, kuchikamu chedu chekutanga pamwe chete. (Nechekuita: Pane Gym Itsva yeVadi veMarijuana Inovhura muCalifornia)

Unyanzvi hwangu hwekumisikidza hwakamufadza; Ndakashamiswa nemaitiro ake ekufemesa. Takaseka zvakanyanya zuva iri, tichichengetawo mupfungwa nguva uye nei uyezve panotonhora kutemwa nematombo uye nguva yausingafanire kuputa. (Senge mumota, semuenzaniso.) Iyo hurukuro ingangove iri yakajeka pane imwe yataimbove nayo mune imwe nguva-mhando yehurukuro isina kumbouya pamwe negirazi rewaini kana doro rine kudya kwemanheru.

Kubva ipapo takapisa pamwe chete senge miriyoni nguva (ikozvino zviri pamutemo, BTW). Uye nanhasi, ini ndinogara ndichingoda kukwira kumusoro uye nditaure zvakanaka nababa vangu pane kuva nemabiko mashomanene uye kupedza maawa anotevera makumi maviri nemanai ndiri pamubhedha ndisingabudirire kuyedza kukanda sangweji yezai-uye-chizi. Ngatitaurei kuti ndingave shamwari yepamoyo yaMary Jane. Kunze kwaBaba, ndiko.

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