Nei Tichida Jesse Pinkman (uye Vamwe Vakaipa Vakomana)

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Chokwadi, Jesse Pinkman ari kusiira chikoro chepamusoro uye aimbova junkie anoshanda mubhizimusi rezvinodhaka uye akauraya murume, asi akabatawo kurumbidzwa kunoonekwa kwemukadzi wese muAmerica ane moyo unorova uye chipepa cheTV kunyoreswa. Kukwezva kune "mukomana akaipa" hachisi chinhu chitsva, asi chimiro ichi, chinotambiswa nevaviri-Emmy anokunda Aaron Paul pamutambo we AMC wekurwisa Kupanduka, ane kugona kumwe chete kuita kuti muoni wepakati wechikadzi anzwe sekunge anga ari muukama husina kugadzikana nemubiki wemeth kubva 2008. (Panga paine makore mashoma asi ndiri kuita mazviri!)

Mukuremekedza kuratidzwa kwakatarisirwa kwazvo kwezvikamu zvisere zvekupedzisira zvezvikamu muna Nyamavhuvhu 11, takafunga kunyatso tarisa kuti chii nezva Jesse chinoita kuti timude tichipesana nemutongo wedu uri nani. Vakadzi, kana iwe uchisarudza kusarudza mukomana asiri iye, cherekedza. Kuongorora uku nekiriniki psychologist uye SHAPE chipangamazano bhodhi nhengo Belisa Vranich, PsyD, uye biological anthropologist uye sainzi chipangamazano kuna Match.com Helen Fisher, Ph.D., inoshanda kune chaicho-hupenyu ne'er-do-matsime zvakanyanya sezvainoita kumukomana wedu wekufungidzira ane maziso eblue. ("Kuputsa Kwakashata" spoiler inonyevera kana iwe usina kubatwa kumusoro!).

Kutanga, zviri pachena: Chiso ichocho! Kumira pa5'8 chete", furemu yaJesse inogona kuita sediki uye diki, yaanowanzovanza pasi pezvipfeko zvakakura uye bhinzi, asi chiso chake chinoratidza imwe nyaya. ) rutsanga rwakakona, rwakasimba 2) mhunza inorema 3) matama marefu 4) miromo mitete, uye 5) huma yakakwirira,” anodaro Fisher, akanyora bhuku racho. Sei Iye? Sei Iye?.

"Chikonzero nei vakadzi vachizowana vasinganzwisisike ichi chinokwezva ndechekuti testosterone chinhu chinokanganisa chinoda immune system yakasimba kwazvo kuti ibvumire huwandu hwehomoni," anotsanangura. "Izvi zvinoreva kuti varume ava vari kushambadza kuburikidza nechiso chavo kuti" immune system yangu yakasimba zvekuti ndinogona kutsungirira huwandu uhwu hwe testosterone. "" Mune mamwe mazwi, murume wake wemurume mug chikwangwani chekufamba chehutano hwakanaka. Pane imwe tsamba inoenderana, iyo yepamusoro testosterone zvakare zvinoreva kuti ane yakakwira bonde dhiraivha, Fisher anowedzera, uye ndiani asingade wekuvata naye anokwanisa kuenderera?

Haatarisike. Kana iwe uchida roller coasters, iwe uchada Jesse, uyo anoita kunge ane zvakanyanya kukwira nekudzika kwechero munhu pane akateedzana. Anogona kunzwa achifara, akaora mwoyo, aine tariro, uye achirwadziwa zvese muchikamu chimwe chete. Kusaziva kuti achaita sei kune mamiriro ezvinhu chikamu chekukumbira. "Vakadzi vanoda ruzivo," anodaro Fisher.

"Inotungamira iyo dopamine system muuropi uye iyo inokupa iwe simba, kutarisa, kukurudzira, tariro, uye kushanduka kwepfungwa," anodaro. Chaizvoizvo, kuve padhuze nemurume asingafungidzirwe, saJese, kunogona kunakidza kwazvo. Panguva imwecheteyo, hunhu hwakadai hunogona kupenga, ndosaka husingazomboshanda.

Anoratidza kupenya kwehunyanzvi. Mazwi matatu madiki: "Ehe, hure! Magineti!" Ipo iye bhizinesi shamwari yake uye aimbove chikoro chepamusoro chemistry mudzidzisi Walter White (akatamba neasinga goneki Bryan Cranston) yakanga yareba-yakagadzwa sehuropi hwekushanda, Jesse anga aine yake inonakidza mwenje-girobhu nguva. Mumwaka wechishanu, zano rake rakajeka rekushandisa magineti kuparadza humbowo husinga tsanangurike pamutyairi wemagetsi weGustavo "Gus" Fring uyo anga akavharirwa kumuzinda wemapurisa wakaaponesa kuti vasabatwe. Testosterone yaJese yakakwirira, sezvakaratidzwa nechiso chake, inogona kunge yakave nechokuita nayo.

"Varume vane testosterone yakakwira vanowanzo kuve vanoongorora, vanonzwisisika, vakananga, vanoita sarudzo, vakaomarara, vanokakavara, uye vane hunyanzvi hwekugadzira, makanika, makomputa, uye, mune iyi kesi, kubika kristal meth," anodaro Fisher. "Kwemamiriyoni emakore, vakadzi vaida murume aigona kurova nyati mumusoro nedombo uye ane nzvimbo yakanaka, unyanzvi hwekuongorora kuti aone izvi. Vakadzi vanokwezvwa nevarume vanogona kuuya kumba nekudya kwemanheru," anodaro.

Iye mweya wakarasika. Hapana mubvunzo kuti Jesse anoda-uye ari kutsvaga zvakanyanya-mumwe munhu anomuponesa. Iye aimbova junkie akaedza kuchenesa chiito chake kanopfuura kamwe mumitambo iyi, kunyanya kubvira mwaka wechitatu paakatanga kufambidzana naamai vasina murume uye achidzora akapindwa muropa Andrea. Zviripachena kuti chikamu chake chinoda kutenda kuti angave iye mukomana akanaka, asi zvese izvi zvinobuda nepahwindo pakupera kwemwaka paanomanikidzwa kuuraya munhu asina mhosva, Gale, kuponesa hupenyu hwaVaWhite. Kuona kuzeza kwake asati aburitsa chikokero kwakaringana kuita chero mukadzi anoda kupinda nekutaura naye kubva mazviri.

"Vamwe vakadzi vanowanzove amai uye vanotenda kuti tinogona kushandura vanhu nekuponesa mweya yavo yakarasika. Inokwezva kugona kwedu kwekurera, kwakabatana neestrogen," anodaro Fisher. Uye woti iwe unobudirira kumuponesa? Inogona kuputika kumeso kwako. "Vakadzi vazhinji vakabatsira murume kuti aone kugona kwake uye kana achinge azviwana, anogona kumusiya nekuti anokwanisa kuwana shamwari iri nani izvozvi," Vranick anoyambira. "Unotozvibvunza kuti support network yake iripi? Sei asina? Panofanira kuva nechikonzero."

Anoshora. Tichifunga nezvesarudzo yake yebasa isina kujairika uye isiri pamutemo, Jesse ari kure nekuenderana. Kuve nesimba rekuva wake ega uye asingateedzere mirawo iyo iyo yakasara nzanga inorarama nayo iri kinda inopisa. "Vakadzi vanofarira kurarama vachihwanda kuburikidza nevarume ava vobva vaenda pakufara, asi aya mapere ane udyire haaite varume vakanaka," anodaro Vranick, munyori webhuku iri. Ane Potential.

Kune rimwe divi, kubuda wega chiratidzo chekushinga, zvinova ndizvo zvaidikanwa nevakadzi kubva kune vavakaroorana navo muzuva rekupihwa zvese kudya nekuchengetedzwa. “Vakadzi vanoda murume asingangounzi kudya kwemanheru kumba chete asiwo kuvadzivirira, uye kazhinji anenge ari munhu ane hasha uye anokwanisa kumira paari,” Fisher anotsanangura kudaro. Mumwaka yese mishanu yadarika, hunhu hwaJese hwakasviba hwakatsungirira kurohwa kwakaipisisa, kufa kwerudo rwake rwekutanga, kupondwa kwemurume asina mhosva-zvokuti akagadzirira kuisa zvese panjodzi, kunyangwe hupenyu hwake, nekuda kwezvaanotenda mazviri. Muenzaniso wakakwana: Nguva yaakasangana nevatengesi vezvinodhaka vaviri vaikwikwidzana nezvekupondwa kwemukoma waAndrea aiva nemakore 11, Tomas.

Ane manzwiro. Haasi Tin Man-ane moyo! Mwaka wekutanga wakakurumidza kuburitsa pachena kuti Jesse akange apinda natete vake vaifa Jenny kuti vamuchengete mumazuva ake ekupedzisira achirwisa cancer. Nenguva yechitatu, akatanga kuvaka hukama hwababa kumwanakomana wemusikana wake Andrea, Brock. Uye kubva pakutanga akataura kuvimbika kunotyisa kuna Mr. White, waakazopedzisira asundira kure mushure mekupondwa kwemukomana mudiki asina mhosva (mwana aive avaona vachiba chitima che methylamine) akaita kuti Jesse ade kubuda. Kunzwa kwake kwakabatana nekuzvidemba ndiye ane ngozi mukomana-mukomana combo, anodaro Vranick.

"Vakadzi vanowanzodya zvimedu zvezvingwa zvinoratidza kuti murume munhu akanaka nekuti tine tariro uye takanaka uye tinofunga kufunga kuti vanhu vakanaka," anodaro. "Vakadzi vanowira mumusungo uyo mukati memukati akanaka netarisiro yekuti achaziva kuti akamuona nekuda kwedhaimondi mune rough yaaive, izvo zvinoita kuti anzwe akakoshawo, asi izvo hazvimboitika."

Zvikamu zvekupedzisira zve Kupanduka kutanga Svondo, Nyamavhuvhu 11, na9 p.m. ET pane AMC. Iwe uchave uchiona here? Tweet kwatiri @shape_magazine uye utiudze zvaunofunga pamusoro pechiratidziro uye vatambi vayo vanotungamira.

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