Hongu, Zvakajairika kuti Uchiri Kutaridzika Pamuviri Mushure meKubereka

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Asati asununguka mwana wake wekutanga, Elise Raquel aive pasi pekufungidzira kuti muviri wake waizodzoka mushure mekunge ave nemwana wake. Nehurombo, akadzidza nenzira yakaoma kuti izvi zvaisazove zvakadaro. Akazviona achingotarisa mazuva ane nhumbu mushure mekusununguka, chinhu chakaitika panhumbu dzake dzese dziri nhatu.

Pavakazoita mwana wavo wechitatu munaChikunguru, amai vekuU. nokusingaperi, yenyaya iyi). (Zvakafanana: Amai ava veIVF Triplets Vanogovana Nei Vachida Muviri Wavo Wepashure)

Maawa mashoma mushure mekuzvara, iye aive nemutori wemifananidzo akabvisa pikicha yake munzvimbo yake yakasvibisa uye yakanyanya kutambura ndokuitumira ku Instagram. "Kunzwa kunoshamisa kutarisa pasi uye uchiri kuona bundu, kunyangwe wakabata mwana wako mumaoko, kunyangwe wazviita katatu," akatsanangura mutsamba iyi. "Hazvisi nyore kuenda kumba nemwana uchiri kupfeka hembe dzekusununguka. Nekutanga kwandakaita, ndakaramba ndakatsikitsira ndichidzokera shure...Asi unozviziva wani, handina, handina kana chandakamboita. ."

Elise akaenderera mberi nekuudza vateveri vake kuti "vafare mushure mekusununguka miviri mukubwinya kwavo kose." Asi mukati memwedzi mishoma yapfuura, vanhu vakanzwa kudiwa kwekutamba amai kuti vatumire pfuti dzakadai "pachedu" pachena. Nekudaro, kutevera, uye kuvhara vanovenga zvachose uye zvachose, Elise akagovana imwe post-nhumbu pikicha svondo rino kuti awedzere kujekesa kuti sei kuona aya marudzi emifananidzo akadaro saka zvakakosha.

Akatsanangura kuti panguva yekuzvitakura kwake kwekutanga, hapana munhu akamuudza kuti muviri wake hauzodzokere muchimiro chawo chepakutanga. “Ndanga ndisingazive kuti uchiri kuita kunge une mimba yakadai kunyangwe wasununguka,” anodaro. "Saka pandakaenda kumba kubva kuchipatara mazuva mana ndasununguka, ndichiri kutarisa nhumbu ine mwedzi mitanhatu, ndakafunga kuti ndinofanira kunge ndakanganisa." (Yakabatana: CrossFit Amai Revie Jane Schulz Anoda Iwe Kuti Uda Wako Postpartum Muviri Seizvo Zvazviri)

“Ndakaisa mufananidzo uya nekuti dai mumwe munhu akaisa mufananidzo wakafanana newangu pandaiva nepamuviri,” akaenderera mberi. "Ndinoshuva kuti dai mumwe munhu akandiudza izvo chaizvo zvinogona kuitika kumuviri wangu nepfungwa dzangu. Iyo yechina trimester inyaya yemusoro wenyaya. Ndinoda kuti vamwe amai vanofambawo mushangu dzangu vazive kuti havasi vega."

Tsika dzenyaya? Amai vose vanofanira kuziva kuti muviri wavo unotozosiyana kana vaita mwana. Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti kushivirira kushoma kwaungazvipa mushure mekutsungirira chiitiko chakaomarara uye chakanaka senge kuzvara mwana. Sokutaura kunoita Elise: "Chero rungave rwendo [rwako] rwekusununguka, zvakanaka, zvakajairika."

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