Nguva yekufamba

Nguva yekuenda inzira yekurera vana kukurudzira vana kuti varege kuita zvinhu zvausingade kuti vaite. Kana mwana wako akasazvibata, unogona kudzikamisa mwana wako pachiitiko ugovaisa munguva yekubuda. Mwana wako kazhinji anomira kuita hunhu kuti arege kupinda munguva yekuenda. Nguva yekubuda inonyanya kushanda nevana, makore maviri kusvika gumi nemaviri ekuberekwa.

Paunoisa vana munguva yekunze, unovaratidza nezviito zvekuti haufarire hunhu hwavo. Inoshanda zvirinani pane kushevedzera, kutyisidzira, kana kurova.

Nguva yekubuda inobvisa mwana wako pane hunhu. Inokupa iwe nemwana wako nguva yekudzikama uye kuzvitonga. Vana mune nguva yekunze vane zvakare nguva yekufunga nezve izvo zvavakaita.

Sarudza imwechete kana maviri maitiro aunonyatsoda kushanda nawo nemwana wako. Shandisa nguva kunze zvakaenzana nemaitiro aya. Chenjerera kuti usanyanya kushandisa nguva kunze. Chingo shandisa icho kuita hunhu iwe hwaunoda kunyatso mira.

Ita kuti vana vazive pamberi penguva kuti unenge uri kushandisa nguva yekubuda. Semuenzaniso, vaudze, "Nguva inotevera paunenge uchirwira matoyi, munhu wese ari kuenda kunotora maminetsi matatu. Ini ndichakuudza kana maminetsi matatu apera."

Sarudza nzvimbo pamberi penguva. Ita shuwa kuti inzvimbo inofinha kure neTV nematoyi. Haifanire kunge iri nzvimbo ine rima kana inotyisa. Kana vana vako vachiri vadiki, ita shuwa kuti unokwanisa kuvaona. Dzimwe nzvimbo dzinogona kushanda dzinosanganisira:

• Chigaro mumugwagwa
• Kona rekamuri
• Imba yekurara
• Chivako

Kana vana vakaita misikanzwa, vape yambiro yekuti varege. Vaudze, "Hapana kurova. Izvo zvinorwadza. Ukasarega kurova, unenge uine nguva yekubuda."

• Apo vana vanorega kusazvibata, varumbidzei nekuda kwekudzora maitiro avo.
• Kana vana vasingamise misikanzwa, vaudze kuti vaende nenguva. Ingotaura kamwe chete: "Kurova kunorwadza. Unoda kumbobuda."

Buda pachena uye dzikama. Usatsamwa. Paunodanidzira uye nekugunun'una, iwe unopa hunhu hwakaipa hwevana vako zvakanyanya kutarisisa.

Vamwe vana vanogona kupinda munguva kunze paunongovaudza. Kana vana vasingaendi vega, vatungamire kana vatakure kuenda navo kunzvimbo yekunze. Usapopote kana kurova munzira yekuenda kunze.

Isa mwana wako mukati mekunze kweminiti imwe pagore rezera, asi kwete kupfuura maminetsi mashanu. Semuenzaniso, kana mwana wako aine makore matatu, nguva yekuenda ndeyemaminitsi matatu.

Vana vakura vanogona kuudzwa kuti vari munguva yekubuda kusvikira vagadzirira kudzoka kune kwavo kuita uye kuzvibata. Nekuti ivo vanosarudza kana vagadzirira, vanodzidza kudzora maitiro avo.

Kana vana vako vasingagare munguva yavo yekushambadzira, vanyatsovabata ipapo. Usataure navo kana kuvapa chero hanya.

Kana iwe ukagadza timer uye mwana wako achiita ruzha kana kusazvibata munguva yekubuda, gadzirisazve iyo timer. Kana iye mwana achidzungaira kure, tungamira iye mwana kudzokera kunzvimbo uye gadzirisa iyo timer. Mwana anofanira kunyarara uye kuzvibata zvakanaka kusvikira nguva yaenda.

Kana nguva yekubuda yakwana, rega vana vadzokere kumabasa avo. Usataure nezvehunhu hwakaipa. Vana vanopedzisira vawana meseji nenguva yekubuda.

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American Academy yePediatrics webhusaiti. Ndeipi nzira yakanaka yekuranga mwana wangu? www.hutano-singard.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/communication-discipline/Pages/Disciplining-Your-Child.aspx. Yakagadziridzwa Mbudzi 11, 2018. Yakasvika muna Chikunguru 23, 2019.

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