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Rude kune server yako? Anotarisa zvinyorwa zvake nguva dzose? Haugone kumira kutaura nezve ex wake? All clear signs he is bad boyfriend material. Asi nyanzvi dzezvekufambidzana dzinobvuma kuti kune akawanda masaini masaini anogona kunge akakura semireza matsvuku-kana iwe uchiziva zvekutarisa. Ramba wakatarisa kune aya anonyengedza manomwe pazuva rako rekutanga uye uzviponese kubva mukushungurudzika kukuru munzira.

Akanyanya Kubata kumeso

Iwe unoziva iwe unotaridzika kupisa, uye kuti iwe "wakanaka" kana pasi-pake-mweya "wow" paunenge uchifamba nemusuwo ndeyechokwadi. Asi kana achigara achitaura kuti ndiwe wakanakisa, wakangwara, mukadzi anonyanya kufadza waakambosangana naye - uye usati watopedza chinwiwa chako chekutanga - chingave chiratidzo chekuti ane hunyanzvi, anoyambira Patti Feinstein, a Chicago based dating coach. Mushure mezvose, iwe unotyisa, asi haasati akuziva iwe zvakakwana kuti azive izvozvo zvakadaro. "Ari kushandisa kurumbidza kuti uite kuti urinde pasi. Anoda kuti iwe ufunge kuti ndiVaRight, izvozvi, kuti usazove nechinangwa chekuti ingangoita zvakakodzera sezvaungadai uri iye kana kwete." d ndanyanya kuderera pasi, "anotsanangura.

Anopfuura-Matipi

Chokwadi, zvinogona kutaridzika kunge zviri nani pane kukanda pasi gumi muzana, asi kana akapenya zvikwereti zvakakura kana kuisa pasi zvinodarika makumi maviri muzana paavhareji sevhisi, hazvina kunaka, anoyambira Feinstein. "Zvinogona kureva kuti iye anonyoresa. Anoda kutaridzika kunge akapfura kwazvo, uye ane hanya zvakanyanya nezvekuti anotaridzika sei pane kubatana chaiko," anotsanangura kudaro Feinstein.

Anoburitsa Bhawa Iro Chivharo Kure neApartment Yake

Angangove akatora bhawa rewaini rinopenya zvishoma, asi antennae yako inofanirwa kukwira kana iri padyo nekwaanogara, anoyambira Mike Goldstein, muvambi weEZ Dating Coach, basa rekufambidzana rekuNew Jersey. Haisi kuti iri zano rake rakakura rekukudzosera kuimba yake (kunyangwe angave aine izvo mukati mepfungwa dzake) ndezvekuti ari kumuitira zvinhu nyore, pasina kufunga nezvako, anotsanangura Goldstein. Icho hachisi chinhu chikuru kana zvikaitika kamwe (hei, iyo bhaa yaive yakanaka batira) asi kana iwe uchigara uriwe unofamba, chiratidzo chekuti anozvifunga zvishoma.

Ndiye Wenguva dzose

Bartender, server, uye tafura padhuze nemi vaviri imi munoziva zita rake. Zvinogona kutaridzika kunge zvinotapira, asi inogona kunge iri nzira yekuzvibata kwake zvine hungwaru. "Haisi nzvimbo isina kwayakarerekera, izvo zvinokuisa pamukana. Zvinogona kureva kuti ichagara ichiita zvinhu nenzira yake," anodaro Feinstein. Kana akadhonza kufamba uku, asi iwe uchiri kumuda, simbirira kuti utore nzvimbo yezuva rechipiri.

Iye Badmouths Boss Wake Wese munhu ane mazuva akaipa, asi nyanzvi dzinobvumirana kuti zvakanaka kungwarira kune mumwe munhu anoshandisa rakawanda rekutanga zuva achinyunyuta. Kunyangwe kana nyaya dzake pamusoro pehofisi yake isingashande dzichiita kuti useke, iye achisarudza kutarisisa pane chisina chiratidzo chiratidzo chekuti ruzhinji rwema convos achadzika sei mune ramangwana, kana ukaramba uchidanana.

Anokurudzira Kupfura

Pamwe chete nekutaura nezve frat yake uye kutaura nyaya nezve mafaro emusango iye neshamwari dzake dzokunwa dzavakave nadzo, kuraira kwepfuti chiratidzo chekuti anogona kunge asina kugadzikana, anoyambira Goldstein. Anogona kuve anonakidza kutandara naye, asi anogona kunge asiri hukama hwehukama parizvino.

Haana Kutya

Inguva yekutanga, uye mikana iri, chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka chichaitika. Asi kana achiratidzika kunge akadzikama zvachose kubva kune yekutanga hello, chingave chiratidzo chekuti ari munzirawo kupinda maari, anoyambira Feinstein. "Nguva shoma dzinonetsa dzinoreva kuti mese makaisa mari; kuti imi mese munoda kuisa rutsoka rwenyu kumberi kune mumwe munhu," anotsanangura Feinstein.

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