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Allyn Rose aingova namakore makumi maviri nematanhatu ekuberekwa paakaitwa kaviri mastectomy uye kuvakwa kwemazamu. Asi haana kusarudza nzira idzi nekuda kwekuongororwa gomarara rezamu. Akavasarudza senzira yekudzivirira mushure mekurasikirwa naamai vake, mbuya, uye tete mukuru kuchirwere. Uku kwaingova kutanga kwerwendo rwake rwekukurudzira gomarara rezamu.

"[Yakatanga muna] Zvita wegore rapfuura," anodaro Allyn Chimiro. "Ndanga ndakagara pamba ndega ndichifunga, 'Ndechipi chimwe chinhu chandingaite kukurudzira chaizvo vechidiki kuti vashande muhutano hwavo?'"

Zvino, pazuva rekutanga remwedzi wega wega, Allyn anotora kuenda ku Instagram aine selfie uye hashtag: #SelfExamGram. Imwe neimwe posvo inoshanda sechiyeuchidzo pamwedzi kumadzimai nezvekukosha kwekuzviongorora mazamu uye kuziva zviri "zvakajairika" kumuviri wako.

Kufarira kwaAllyn kutsigira nezvehutano kunouya muchikamu chikuru kubva kuna amai vake vakafa, kuzvipira kwaJudy pakurarama hupenyu hune simba, hune hutano. Pashure pokunge Judy arasikirwa nekenza yemazamu apo Allyn akanga ava nemakore 16, Allyn akanga akatsunga kupfuuridzira chishuvo chaamai vake.

“Amai vangu vakanga vagara vachishingaira chaizvo nezveutano hwavo,” anodaro Allyn. "[Asati abatwa kenza yemazamu,] akaramba achienda kuna chiremba achiti," Pane chakanganisika. ' Aiva mumhanyi wemarathon, uye ainzwa kupererwa, akanga asiri kupora sezvaaimboita. Uye chiremba akati, 'Uchiri mudiki kuti uve nekenza.Dzoka utione mumwedzi mitanhatu. .'” (Zvakafanana: Unogona Kuwana Kenza Yezamu Muduku Sei?)

Judy paakazodzokera kuna chiremba, akanga ava nebundu muzamu rake. Akaonekwa aine danho-nhatu kenza yemazamu aine makore makumi maviri nemanomwe ekuberekwa.

"Akadzinga boka rake rose rezvokurapa, akaenda kuraibhurari yezvokurapa pachikoro chake chekoroji, akadzidza, uye akadzokera kuna chiremba achiti, 'Ndinoda izvi, izvi, uye izvi. Heino chirongwa changu chekurwisa, "anogovera Allyn. "Uye akarova kenza yemazamu ine hasha."

Sezvineiwo, kenza yezamu yaJudy yakadzoka papera makore Allyn paakanga achiri kuyaruka. "Zvakare, akaita nhanho-nhatu kenza yemazamu. Yakafambira mberi, uye akarasikirwa nehupenyu hwake," anodaro Allyn.

Apo Allyn aive nemakore gumi nemasere, baba vake vakaunza pfungwa yekudzivirira huviri mastectomy. "Ini ndanga ndichangokura kuita muviri wandave nawo. Ndakafunga, 'Sei gehena ndichigona kuita chakadai? Ndine makore gumi nemasere chete.' Asi baba vangu vakanditarisa kumeso chaiko ndokuti, 'Unozoguma wafa saamai vako. Iwe unofanirwa kuve unoita zvakanyanya nezve izvi nekuti haasi munhu mumwe, havazi vanhu vaviri; vanhu vazhinji mumhuri yako , uye ichi ndicho chokwadi chako chinosuruvarisa.'

Kunyangwe Allyn nenhengo dzemhuri yake vakaedza vasina hutachiona hweBCA (chinowanzoitika panjodzi yekenza yemazamu), chiremba wake akamukurudzira kuti afunge nezvekudzivirira kaviri mastectomy. "Chiremba wangu akati, 'Iwe hauna BRCA geni rekuchinja, asi unogona kunge uine chimwe chinhu chatisingakwanise kuyedza izvozvi," anotsanangura Allyn. Akatora makore akati wandei kuti anyatsofunga nezvesarudzo iyi, asi achipa nhoroondo yehutano hwemhuri yake, chokwadi chekuti amai vake vakaonekwa vaine gomarara repazamu vachiri vadiki, uye kurudziro yechiremba wavo, Allyn anoti pakupedzisira akazviitira sarudzo chaiyo. “Ndakavhiyiwa uye handisati ndambocheuka,” anodaro.

Chokwadi, munhu wose akasiyana. Kunyange zvazvo chisarudzo chaAllyn chingave chakamupinza mugwara risingawanzowaniki, nzira yakanakisisa yokuita nayo ndeyokutevera nhungamiro dzokuongororwa kenza yemazamu uye kubvunza chiremba nezvezvakanakisisa zvingasarudzwa.

Allyn, aimbove mukwikwidzi waMiss America, anobvuma kuti akagashirwa nekuda kwesarudzo yake yekuvhiyiwa. “Vanhu [vari munharaunda yemakwikwi etsvarakadenga] vakagumbuka chaizvo kuti ndaizovhiyiwa seizvi,” anodaro. "Uye varume vaindinyorera vachiti, 'Ungatsunga sei kucheka muviri wako?"

Nekudaro, iye anoti izvo zvakanaka zvakapfuura zvakashata. "Zuva rega rega, ndinowana imwe meseji kubva kune mumwe munhu anoti, 'Ini ndiri mudiki, ndaisaziva kuti ndinogona [kuwana mastectomy yekudzivirira],' kana kunyangwe, 'Ini ndakura, uye ndakanga ndisina hushingi kuti uzviite; urikunyatsondipa kurudziro, '"anodaro. "Ndiri kuona sekuti ibasa rangu kugovana meseji iyi."

Mazuva ano, Allyn anoparadzira iwo meseji munzira dzakawanda. Kubudikidza neye #SelfExamGram kufamba, iye anobatsira vakadzi kuti vanzwe kuchengetedzeka pakuita bvunzo dzepazamu nguva dzose pavari. "[Mazamu ekuzviongorora mazamu] anoita kunge akareruka, asi zvakare mubvunzo wakaoma kupindura: Ndinozviongorora sei? Ehe, unobata mazamu ako. Asi hapana anonyatsoziva kuti matanho acho ndeapi, chii tsvaga, uye kana iwe ukawana bundu, unoitei? " anotsanangura. (Zvakafanana: 11 Zviratidzo zveKenza Yezamu Mukadzi Wese Anofanira Kuziva Nezvo)

Pamusoro pezvaakatumira pamwedzi, Allyn zvakare ane Instagram Nyaya inosimbisa ine chipfuva chekuzviongorora wega vhidhiyo dzidziso, pamwe chete nezviratidzo zvevakadzi vazhinji vaakafemerwa kuti vatevere kutungamira kwake uye vagovana yavo yega #SelfExamGram. "Ndine vanhu vanondinyorera sekuti, 'Zvakanaka, ndaona chinyorwa chako kashanu ikozvino, saka ndichazviita, zvakare.' Uye ndizvo chaizvo zvazviri, "anodaro Allyn. (BTW, heino murairidzo wedu pamaitiro ekuzviongorora mazamu.)

Chinangwa chaAllyn ndechekupa vanhukadzi zviwanikwa zvaaishuvira kuve nazvo paaiita mastectomy yake uye kuvaka zamu. "Ndinofunga kune masangano akawanda kunze uko evakadzi [vakuru] vari kurwisa gomarara repazamu," anotsanangura kudaro. "Asi [hapana zviwanikwa zvakawanda] kune mumwe munhu ari kuma20 uye achipfuura napo." (Yakabatana: Zvandaishuvira Kuti Ndizive Nezve Kenza Yezamu Mune Makore makumi maviri)

Kuti azadzise chinangwa ichocho, Allyn parizvino anoshanda neAiRS Foundation, sangano risingabatsiri rinodyidzana nevarapi, varapi vehutano, uye nzvimbo dzehutano kupa vanhu rutsigiro, ruzivo, uye zviwanikwa (zvese zvemari nezvedzidzo) zvepashure- mastectomy kuvakwazve zamu. (Yakabatana: Gomarara Rezamu Nderekutyisidzira Kwemari Hapana Ari Kutaura Nezve)

Allyn achangobva kuvhura webhusaiti inonzi Previvor, sosi yakazara inotsigira vakadzi uye nesarudzo dzekuvakazve zamu ravo. Webhusaiti iyi inopa zvechizvino-zvino, zviwanikwa zvinosvikika zvevakadzi vechidiki vari kutsvaga post-mastectomy mazamu kuvakwazve, kusanganisira infographics inotsanangura mhando dzakasiyana dzemastectomy uye nzira dzekuvakazve mazamu, ruzivo rwunowanikwa nezve BRCA gene mutations uye kuongororwa kwemajini, uye nharaunda hubhu inokurudzira vakadzi "kutsvaga". dzinza ravo "pakati pemamwe masangano ekuzivisa nezvegomarara repazamu.

"Ini ndaida kugadzira Previvor chimwe chinhu chingabatsira vanhu vane icho, 'Ah murume handikwanise kuzviita izvi, izvi zvinokanganisa hupenyu hwangu' kunzwa (nezve mastectomy uye kuvaka zamu)," anogovera Allyn. "Ndiri kuda kuti vaende kunowana ruzivo uye zvishoma nezvishoma vashande nzira yavo muzvinhu zvekuvhiyiwa."

Uye kana iwe uri mumwe munhu anongoda kudzidza kuzviita wega-mazamu bvunzo, Allyn ane meseji kwauri, zvakare: "Usatya kutsvedza mumaDM angu."

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