Zvinorevei Kuva Biromantic?

Zvemukati

• Chii chaizvo chinoreva biromantic?
• Iwe unorevei kana 'kana zvimwe'?
• Chii chiri kuita biromantic kutaridzike mukuita?
• Izvi zvakasiyana papi nekuva panromantic?
• Kuva biromantic kunoenderana sei neako bonde maitiro?
• Saka iwe unogona kuve biromantic uye kwete bisexual?
• Nei izvi zvichikakavara?
• Unoenda sei nekugovana izvi nevanhu muhupenyu hwako?
• Ndekupi kwaunogona kudzidza zvakawanda?

Chii chaizvo chinoreva biromantic?

Biromantic vanhu vanogona kudanana kune vanhu vevaviri kana vanhurume - mune mamwe mazwi, vakawanda vanhurume.

Izvo zvinosiyana kubva kune bisexuality mune kuti kuve biromantic kune zvekudanana, kwete kukwezva pabonde.

Iwe unorevei kana 'kana zvimwe'?

Chivakamberi "bi-" chinoreva "zviviri," asi bisexuality uye biromanticism hazvisi zvevakadzi vaviri chete.

Gender haisi binary - mune mamwe mazwi, "varume" uye "vakadzi" havasi ivo vega varume vaunogona kuziva navo.

Mumwe munhu asiri wekubhinya haazive ega semurume kana mukadzi.

Nonbinary izwi remambura rinobatanidza akawanda mazita ehurume, senge bigender, pangender, chikadzi, uye zera, kungodoma mashoma.

Zvinorehwa ne "bisexual" uye "biromantic" zvinogona kusanganisira vanhu vasina kujaira, ndosaka bisexuality uye biromanticism iri nezve kusangana nekukwezva kune vaviri kana zvimwe vakomana.

Chii chiri kuita biromantic kutaridzike mukuita?

Kuva biromantic kunotaridzika kwakasiyana kune vanhu vakasiyana. Inogona kutaridzika senge:

• kukwezva kwerudo kune varume nevakadzi, asi kwete vanhu vasiri mabhinari
• kukwezva kwerudo kune varume uye vanhu vasina mabhinari, asi kwete vakadzi
• kukwezva kwerudo kune vanhukadzi nevanhu vasingaite, asi kwete varume
• kukwezva kudanana nevarume, vakadzi, uye vanhu vane mamwe mazita asiri emabhinari
• kukwezva kudanana kune vanhu vese mazita echikadzi
• kukwezva kwerudo kune vasina-mabhinari vanhu eakasiyana mazita echikadzi, asi kwete vanhu vebhinari (kureva, vanhu vanozivisa chete sevarume kana vakadzi)

Kana iwe uri biromantic, iwe ungazviwana iwe pachako uine hukama nechimwe kana zvimwe zvezvinotevera zvirevo:

• Iwe unoona kuti murume kana mukadzi hachisi chinhu chakakosha kwauri kana zvasvika pakusarudza waunoda kufambidzana naye uye kuzvipira kwaari.
• Iwe wakashuva kudanana kwehukama nevanhu vanokodzera mune rimwe boka rechikadzi uye vanhu vanokwana mune rimwe boka rechikadzi.
• Paunofungidzira wekudanana naye mune ramangwana, hausi kugara uchifananidzira mumwe munhu wechikadzi.

Rangarira, hapana imwe nzira yekuita biromantic - vese vanhu biromantic vakasarudzika. Nekudaro, iwe unogona kunge uri biromantic pasina zvine hukama nezviri pamusoro.

Izvi zvakasiyana papi nekuva panromantic?

Panromantic zvinoreva kuve nekwanisi yekudanana nevanhu ve zvese vakomana.

Biromantic zvinoreva kuve nekwanisi yekudanana nevanhu ve yakawanda vakomana.

Biromantic yakavhurika-shoma sezvo zvinogona kureva kuti unodanana kune vaviri, vatatu, vana, vashanu, kana ese echikadzi mapoka.

Panromantic, kune rumwe rutivi, iri pamusoro zvese mapoka echikadzi. Mune mamwe mazwi, pane zvishoma zvinopindirana.

Vamwe vanhu vanoona seese biromantic uye panromantic. Dzimwe nguva, vanhu vanoshandisa izwi rekuti biromantic pachinzvimbo chekuvhunduka kutaura kuti ivo havadi kudanana kune ese mapoka evanhurume.

Semuenzaniso, mumwe munhu angangozviwana achikwezvwa nevakadzi nevanhu vasingaite, asi kwete varume. Mune ino kesi, biromantic inovatsanangudza zvakanaka, asi panromantic haina.

Zvinozopedzisira zvave kwauri semunhu wega kuti usarudze kuti ndeapi mavara kana zvinyorwa zvinoenderana newe zvakanyanya.

Kuva biromantic kunoenderana sei neako bonde maitiro?

Izvo zvinokwanisika kuve zvese zviri zviviri biromantic uye bisexual. Izvi zvinoreva kuti imi mose munodanana uye munokwezva pabonde kune vanhukadzi vakawanda.

Nekudaro, vamwe vanhu vanoita biromantic vane zvebonde zvinopesana nevavanoda.

Izvi zvinodaidzwa kuti "kusanganisa maitiro" kana "kuyambuka-kutarisa" - paunenge uchidanana kune rimwe boka revanhu uye kuita zvepabonde kune rimwe boka revanhu.

Heano mienzaniso mishoma ye biromantic vanhu vane maitiro akasanganiswa:

• Biromantic, asexual munhu anodanana nevanhu vevanhukadzi vakawanda, asi anowana zvishoma kusvika pakukwezva pabonde.
• Mukadzi biromantic, mukadzi ungochani anodanana nevanhu vevanhukadzi vazhinji, asi anongokwezva pabonde nevakadzi.
• Biromantic, ngochani murume anodanana nevanhu vevanhukadzi vakawanda, asi anongokwezva pabonde nevarume.
• Mukadzi biromantic, mukadzi ane murume nemukadzi ari kudanana nevanhu vevanhukadzi vakawanda, asi anongokwezva nevarume.
• Biromantic, pansexual munhu anodanana nevanhu vevanhukadzi vakawanda, asi anokwezva pabonde kune vese vakomana. Zvichida vanozviwana vachidanana nevarume uye nevanhu vasina mabhinari, asi kwete vakadzi.

Iyi ingori mienzaniso mishoma yezve maitiro akasanganiswa anogona kutaridzika. Idzi hadzisi nzira dzega dzekuzvitsanangura.

Saka iwe unogona kuve biromantic uye kwete bisexual?

Ehe. Kazhinji, "bisexual" inoshandiswa kutsanangura zvese zvine rudo uye zvebonde.

Nekudaro, sezvambotaurwa, kusanganisa maitiro chinhu uye unogona kuita bondexual usingaite biromantic - uye zvinopesana.

Nei izvi zvichikakavara?

Vanhu vazhinji vanonzwa kuti kukwezvana pabonde uye kudanana chinhu chimwe chete.

Vamwe vanoti izwi rekuti bonde rinoreva kuti unodanana nevarume vaviri kana vanopfuura, pamwe nekukwezvwa nevarume vaviri kana vanopfuura.

Mumakore achangopfuura, isu takadzidza kuti maitiro akasanganiswa chinhu chaicho, uye kuti pane nzira dzakawanda dzekukwezva.

Unoenda sei nekugovana izvi nevanhu muhupenyu hwako?

Saka, iwe wafunga kuti iwe uri biromantic. Zvikuru! Panguva ino, ungangoda kuudza vanhu muhupenyu hwako.

Kune vamwe vanhu, kubuda kunogona kunzwa kunonoka. Kune vamwe, zvinowanzoitika. Kubuda kunze kunogona kuita kunge:

• kuunganidza shamwari dzako uye mhuri pachako uye kuvaudza uri biromantic
• kutaura mumwe-on-one nevako vaunoda uye kuvaudza muri biromantic
• kugadzira pasocial media post uko kwaunotsanangudza kwako kudanana maitiro
• uchiona Netflix neshamwari yako uye uchingoti, "Nenzira, ndiri biromantic!"

Iyo poindi ndeyekuti hapana "nzira kwayo" yekubuda senge biromantic - zvese zviri kwauri kuti usarudze izvo zvinonzwa kugadzikana.

Kana uchibuda senge biromantic, iwe ungangoda kushandisa anotevera ekutaura mapoinzi:

• Tanga nekutaura kuti pane chimwe chinhu chaunoda kugovana navo. Vaudze kuti uri biromantic.
• Tsanangura zvazvinoreva. Iwe unogona kuti, "Izvi zvinoreva kuti ndinokwanisa kukwezva kudanana nevanhu vevanhukadzi vazhinji." Zvichida tsanangura kuti ndeupi mukomana waunofarira.
• Kana iwe uchida, tsanangura yako yepabonde maitiro, zvakare, uye musiyano uripo wekudanana uye wepabonde kukwezva.
• Vaudze kuti rudzii rutsigiro rwaunoda. Semuenzaniso, iwe unogona kuti, "Ndinoda kutaura nezve manzwiro andinayo. Ndingakuzivisai here? ” kana "Unogona kundibatsira kuudza vabereki vangu?" kana "Ini ndanga ndichida kukuzivisa iwe nekuti zvakakosha kwandiri."

Kana iwe uri kubuda kune mumwe munhu iwe pachako uye iwe uchitya nezve maitiro avo, zvingave zvakanaka kuunza shamwari inotsigira pamwe chete.

Haasi fan of in-munhu hurukuro? Funga nezvekubuda pamusoro pemeseji kana kufona. Vanhu vazhinji vanobuda kuburikidza nevezvenhau, izvo zvinovabatsira kuti vaudze vanhu vazhinji panguva imwechete uye vanowana rudo nerutsigiro kubva kune avo vakavakomberedza.

Ndekupi kwaunogona kudzidza zvakawanda?

Kuti udzidze zvakawanda nezve biromanticism, tarisa zvinotevera online zviwanikwa.

• Asexual Visibility uye Dzidzo Network, kwaunogona kutsvaga tsananguro dzemazwi akasiyana ane chekuita nezvebonde uye maitiro
• Bisexual Resource Center uye BiNet USA, ayo ari maviri akanaka ruzivo uye rutsigiro rwevanhu vanoita biromantic uye bisexual vanhu.
• GLAAD, ine zviwanikwa zvakawanda uye zvinyorwa pane yavo saiti

Iwe unogona zvakare kuda kujoina yemuno LGBTIQA + mapoka, kana iwe uchida kuve nekutarisana kumeso. Facebook mapoka uye maforamu eReddit anogona zvakare kuve anobatsira sosi yeruzivo uye rutsigiro.

Rangarira kuti iwo mazita (a) aunosarudza kutsanangura zvawakaona - kana paine - zviri kwauri. Hapana mumwe munhu anogona kuraira maitiro aunozivisa kana kuratidza maitiro ako.

Sian Ferguson munyori wekuzvimiririra uye mupepeti anogara muCape Town, South Africa. Zvinyorwa zvake zvinofukidza nyaya dzine chekuita nerunyararo, cannabis, uye hutano. Unogona kusvika kwaari zvichienda mberi Twitter.