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Muviri-wakanaka modhi uye muratidziri Ashley Luther, anonyanya kuzivikanwa saElly Mayday, akashaya aine makore makumi matatu mushure mekurwa negomarara reovari.

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"Ashley aive musikana wepanyika nemoyo aive nechido chehupenyu izvo zvaisarambika," vakanyora mune ino posvo. "Aishuvira kuita shanduko muupenyu hwevanhu. Izvi akazviita kuburikidza nekusikwa kwaElly Mayday izvo zvakamubvumira kuti abatane nemi mose. Kutsigira kwake nguva dzose uye rudo kubva kuvateveri vake zvakabata nzvimbo inokosha mumoyo make."

Nepo Luther ainyanya kuzivikanwa semuratidziri wekusimudzira muviri, basa iroro semutsigiri rakapfuura kuzvitarisisa. Anga ari pachena nezve kuti vanachiremba vakafuratira sei zviratidzo zvake kwemakore vasati vamuvheneka zviri pamutemo negomarara, saka akatanga kutsigira zvine simba hutano hwevakadzi. Akataura kuti aifunga kuti kudai mumwe munhu akamuteerera, angadai akakurumidza kubata kenza yake.

Rwendo rwaLuther rwakatanga muna 2013 paakaenda kukamuri yekukurumidzira mushure mekunzwa kurwadziwa kwakanyanya kuzasi kwake. Vanachiremba vakadzora kurwadziwa kwake, vachiti iye aifanira kudzikira huremu uye zvese zvichave zvakanaka, sekureva Vanhu. (Wanga uchiziva here kuti vanachiremba vechikadzi vari nani kupfuura madhodhi evarume?)

"Chiremba vanditi shanda moyo wangu," akadaro Vanhu muna 2015. "Tiri kukanganiswa kuve vadiki, kuva vakadzi. Ndakatanga kuona kuti hapana munhu achazondibatsira kunze kwekunge ini ndazvibatsira."

Dzimwe nhatu dzimwe nzendo dzeEER gare gare, Luther anoudza mag kuti aiziva kuti chimwe chinhu hachina kumira zvakanaka, saka akakumbira kuti vanachiremba vake vayedze. Makore matatu mushure mekushanya kwake kwekutanga kuchipatara, CT scan yakaratidza kuti aive neovarian cyst-uye mushure mekuvhenekwa, akaonekwa zviri pamutemo aine chirwere chechitatu chegomarara.

Luther akaenderera mberi nekuenzanisira apo airwisa kenza yeovari uye akatomboonekwa mumishandirapamwe mushure mekurasikirwa nevhudzi rake kuenda kuchipatara chemotherapy uye nekuvhiiwa kwakasiya muviri wake nemavanga.

Kunyangwe asati abatwa chirwere, Luther akaisa mukana wekupokana nemafungidziro. Aionekwa semumwe wekutanga mamodheru mamodheru kuti apinde munzvimbo inoonekera uye akatanga basa rakabudirira kunyangwe achiudzwa kuti aisazove chinhu chinopfuura pini-up modhi nekuda kwehukuru hwake nekureba. Akashandisa chiitiko ichocho kukurudzira vakadzi kuti vagamuchire miviri yavo sezvavari uye varege kuteerera vavengi.

Luther akavhiyiwa akati wandei uye chemo. Uye kwechinguva, gomarara rake raiita kunge rave kuregererwa. Asi muna 2017, yakadzoka uye mushure meimwe hondo yakareba, yakaoma, yakazotora hupenyu hwake.

Nehurombo, chiitiko chaLuther hachisi chiitiko chega-chega. Iko kune, hongu, maitiro emazana emakore ekare pamusoro pevakadzi vari "kusagadzikana" kana "kushamisa" kana zvasvika pakurwadziwa-asi mamwe emafungiro asina kururama achiri echokwadi nhasi, kunyange muzvipatara nemakiriniki.

Nyaya iripo: Tsvagiridzo inoratidza kuti vakadzi vane mukana wakakura kupfuura varume kuti vaudzwe marwadzo avo ari psychosomatic, kana kufurirwa neimwe mhando yedambudziko repfungwa. Kwete izvozvo chete, asi vese vanachiremba uye vanamukoti vanopa mishonga isinganyanyi kurwadziwa kune vakadzi kupfuura varume mushure mekuvhiyiwa, kunyangwe vakadzi vachitaura marwadzo akawandisa uye anorwadza zvakanyanya.

Nguva pfupi yapfuura, mutambi Selma Blair, ane multiple sclerosis (MS), akataura kuti vanachiremba havana kukoshesa zviratidzo zvake kwemakore akazoita kuti avhenekwe. Akachema misodzi yemufaro pavakazomuudza kuti chii chaimunetsa.

Ndosaka zvaive zvakakosha kuti Luther akurudzire madzimai kuti vave vamiriri vehutano hwavo uye vataure kana vachinge vaziva kuti pane zvisina kumira zvakanaka pamiviri yavo.

Mutsamba yake yekupedzisira asati afa, anoti "agara achitsvaga mukana iwoyo wekubatsira vanhu," uye zvakazoitika kuti mukana wake wekuita izvi waive wekugovana hondo yake yegomarara uye zviitiko zvinotungamira.

"Sarudzo yangu yekuve pachena uye kuyedza uye kugovera simba rangu yanga yave pedyo," akanyora kudaro. "Kubatsira ndiko kuti ndinopembedza nguva yangu pano yakashandiswa zvakanaka. Ndine rombo rakanaka kuti ndakakwanisa kubatanidza basa rinonakidza rekumodeling, nekuti iniwo zvakanyanya (hah hazvishamisi). Ndinotenda munhu wese anondizivisa ini. "Ndakaita mutsauko, nemazano angu, kugovana kwangu, mapikicha angu uye maitiro angu chaiwo kune mamiriro akaoma chaiwo."

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