Claire Holt Akagovera "Kufara Kwakawanda uye Kuzvifungira" Kunouya naAmai.
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Mutambi weAustralia Claire Holt akazova amai kekutanga mwedzi wapera mushure mekubereka mwanakomana wake, James Holt Joblon. Nepo 30-gore-rekare ari pamusoro pemwedzi nezvekuva amai venguva yekutanga, achangobva kuenda ku Instagram kuti agovane nezvekuti kunetseka kuve amai.
Mune selfie selfie, Holt anoonekwa akabata mwana wake nemisodzi mumaziso ake. Mune chinyorwa, akatsanangura kuti aisakwanisa kubatsira asi kunzwa "kukundwa" mushure mekutambudzika kuyamwisa mwana wake. (Related: Kureurura Kwemukadzi Uyu Zvinorwadza Nezvekuyamwisa Ndeye #SoReal)
"Ndakave nenguva zhinji dzakadai kubva pakauya mwanakomana wangu," akaenderera mberi. "Chandinongonetsekana chete kuona kuti zvaari kuda zvasangana, asi ini ndinowanzo funga kuti ndiri kutadza kuita basa. Unhu mubatanidzwa mukuru wekufara uye kusava nechokwadi."
Holt akawedzera kuti anoedza nepese paanogona napo kutora nhanho kumashure uye kuenda nyore paari panguva dzino dzakaoma. "Ndinoedza kuzviyeuchidza kuti handikwanise kuva akakwana," akanyora kudaro. "I can't be everything for everyone. I just have to do my best to take it one hour at a time... Mamas out there, tell me handisi ndega??" (Yakabatana: 6 Vakadzi Vanogovana Maitiro Avanotakurira Umhu uye Maitiro Avo Okudzidzira)
Kuva amai kunogona kuva kunopa mubayiro unoshamisa, asi izvozvo hazvirevi kuti zviri nyore kana kuti kufamba zvakanaka. Vamwe vanototenda kuti kune "rima divi" pakubata uye kuva amai, iyo vanhu vazhinji vasina kugadzikana kukurukura kana kubvuma.
Asi vana mama vazhinji vanga vari mushangu dzaHolt uye vanoziva chaizvo manzwiro aari kuita.Muchokwadi, vanaamai vakati wandei vane mukurumbira vakagovana tsigiro yavo kumutambi muchikamu chekutaura cheiyo IG post.
"Ndakazvipa mazuva maviri ekuzorora musvondo rekutanga kuti ndisatya nekusuwa pese paaimuka kuti adye," Amanda Seyfried akadaro. "Uye zvakabatsira zvakanyanya. Hapana mhosva. Ingori pombi nebhodhoro. Uye wozozviita zvese mukati. Kudzvinyirira kushoma. Hausi wega."
"Hang imomo mama! Basa rakaomesesa uye rinopa mubayiro," akanyora Jamie-Lynn Sigler. "Uye usakanganwa kuti mahomoni ari kutamba nemoyo wako nemusoro. Iwe hausi wega. Icho chikamu cheiyi inoshamisa yakaoma maitiro. Kukutumira iwe rudo rwose."
Kunyangwe aimbove weVictoria's Chakavanzika modhi, Miranda Kerr, akasvetukira mukati: "Zvachose kwete woga! Zvakazara zvakajairika kunzwa nenzira iyi. Kutumira rudo."
Achinzwa kuonga, Holt akabva agovana imwe posvo, achiratidza kutenda kwaanoita nemhinduro dzese kubva kunharaunda yake ye Instagram.
"Ndiri kufadzwa nerudo rwese rwandakawana zvichitevera post yangu yekupedzisira," akanyora kudaro. "Ini ndinoyeuchidzwa nezverutsigiro runoshamisa rwunouya nekugovana nguva dzisina njodzi."
"Ndinoona sekuti ndiri chikamu cherudzi rwakanaka-isu tiri mune izvi pamwe chete," akaenderera mberi. "Maita basa nekundibatsira kunzwa zviri normal. Zvekugovana nyaya dzenyu. Zvakandipa nyaradzo huru." (Zvakafanana: Kuchinja Kwakaita Amai Maitiro Anoita Hilary Duff)
SaHolt akanyora mune yake yekutanga posvo, kuve amai kunogona kuva kunofadza nekugumbura. Kune rimwe zuva rakaipa rinouya nekuva amai, zuva rakanaka rinenge riri rechokwadi kuve rakatenderedza kona. Zvese ndezvekutsvaga chiyero pakati pezviviri, uye chinyorwa chaHolt chinoshanda sechiyeuchidzo kune vese vanaamai kuti ivo. vari munzira kwayo, kunyangwe zviite sedombo sei panguva yacho.