Nei Zvisinganetsi Kutora Mavhidhiyo Evakaremara Vanhu Pasina Mvumo Yavo

Zvemukati

• Iyi tsika yekurekodha mavhidhiyo uye kutora mifananidzo yevakaremara vasina mvumo yavo chimwe chinhu chatinofanira kurega kuita
• Asi chero chinhu chinobata munhu akaremara netsitsi uye nenyadzi zvinotideredza isu. Izvo zvinotideredza isu kune yakamanikana seti yekufungidzira panzvimbo pevanhu vakazara-zvizere.
• Kunyangwe yakadzika midzi mukunzwira tsitsi kana kufemerwa, kugovana mavhidhiyo uye mafoto emunhu akaremara pasina mvumo zvinotinyima isu kodzero yekutaura zvedu nyaya
• Mhinduro iri nyore ndeiyi: Usatore mafoto uye mavhidhiyo emumwe munhu uye ugogovana navo pasina mvumo yavo

Vakaremara vanoda uye vanofanirwa kuve pakati penyaya dzedu pachedu.

Maitiro atinoona maumbirwo epasi rose atinosarudza kuva - {textend} uye kugovana zviitiko zvinomanikidza zvinogona kuumba nzira yatinoitirana nayo, kuti ive nani. Aya maonero akasimba.

Pamwe izvi zvinoita sekunge zvakajairika: Vhidhiyo yemukadzi akamira kubva pawiricheya yake kuti asvike pasherufu refu, ine chinyorwa chinoburitsa manzwiro aanozviita nenzira yakajeka uye anongo "simbe."

Kana kuti pamwe pikicha yakasangana neako Facebook feed, iine "promposal" mumwe munhu waakaitira waanodzidza naye autistic, ine misoro yenyaya pamusoro pekuti inofadza sei iyo iyo autistic wechidiki anosvika pakuenda "prom chero munhu."

Mavhidhiyo nemifananidzo yakaita seiyi, iine vanhu vakaremara, zviri kuramba zvichingowanda. Dzimwe nguva vanoitirwa kukurudzira manzwiro akanaka - {textend} dzimwe nguva kutsamwa uye tsitsi.

Kazhinji, aya mavhidhiyo uye mafoto ndeemunhu akaremara achiita chimwe chinhu chinoitwa nevanhu vane simba nguva dzese - {textend} sekufamba mumugwagwa, kushambadza kupisa imba yekurovedza muviri, kana kukumbirwa kutamba.

Uye kazhinji kazhinji kwete? Idzo nguva dzepedyo dzinotorwa pasina mvumo yemunhu iyeye.

Iyi tsika yekurekodha mavhidhiyo uye kutora mifananidzo yevakaremara vasina mvumo yavo chimwe chinhu chatinofanira kurega kuita

Vakaremara - {textend} kunyanya kana hurema hwedu huchizivikanwa kana kuoneka neimwe nzira - {textend} kazhinji vanofanirwa kubata nemhando idzi dzekutyorwa neruzhinji kwekuvanzika kwedu.

Ndagara ndichingwarira nenzira idzo nyaya yangu inogona kurukwa nevanhu vasingandizive, ndichifunga kuti mumwe munhu anganditorere vhidhiyo ndichifamba nechikomba changu, ndakamubata ruoko ndichishandisa tsvimbo yangu.

Vangamupemberera nekuve muhukama ne 'munhu akaremara,' kana ini nekungorarama hupenyu hwangu sezvandinowanzoita?

Kazhinji mifananidzo nemavhidhiyo zvinogoverwa pasocial media mushure mekutorwa, uye dzimwe nguva vanoenda hutachiona.

Mazhinji emavhidhiyo nemifananidzo zvinobva kune imwe nzvimbo yekunzwira tsitsi ("Tarisa izvo munhu uyu zvaasingakwanise! Handigoni kufungidzira ndiri mune ino mamiriro") kana kurudziro ("Tarisa uone izvo munhu uyu zvaanogona kuita kunyangwe kuremara kwavo! Unechikonzero chipi? ”).

Asi chero chinhu chinobata munhu akaremara netsitsi uye nenyadzi zvinotideredza isu. Izvo zvinotideredza isu kune yakamanikana seti yekufungidzira panzvimbo pevanhu vakazara-zvizere.

Mazhinji emapepanhau enhau anokodzera kufemerwa nekuona zvinonyadzisira, sezvo zvakagadzirwa naStella Mudiki muna2017 - {textend} iyo inoshora vakaremara uye inotishandura kuita nyaya yakagadzirirwa kuti vanhu vasina kugadzikana vanzwe zvakanaka.

Iwe unogona kazhinji kutaura nyaya ndeye kufemerwa porn nekuti zvaisazove zvine musoro kana mumwe munhu asina hurema akachinjirwa mukati.

Nhau pamusoro pemumwe munhu ane Down syndrome kana mushandisi wewiricheya ari kubvunzwa kuti prom, semienzaniso, ndeyekukurudzira porn nekuti hapana munhu anonyora nezvevechidiki vasingakwanise kubvunzwa kuvhomesa (kunze kwekunge iye akumbira achinyanya kugadzira).

Vakaremara havapo kuti "vakurudzire", kunyanya patinenge tichingoita nezvehupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva. Uye semunhu akaremara ini, zvinorwadza kuona vanhu munharaunda medu vachishandiswa nenzira iyi.

Kunyangwe yakadzika midzi mukunzwira tsitsi kana kufemerwa, kugovana mavhidhiyo uye mafoto emunhu akaremara pasina mvumo zvinotinyima isu kodzero yekutaura zvedu nyaya

Paunorekodha chimwe chinhu chiri kuitika uye uchichigovana pasina mamiriro, urikutora kubva pamunhu kugona kupa mazita avo, kunyangwe iwe uchifunga kuti uri kubatsira.

Inosimbisawo simba rekuti vanhu vasina kugadzikana vave "izwi" revanhu vakaremara, izvo zvisina simba, kutaura zvishoma. Vakaremara vanhu vanoda uye ndinofanira iva pakati penyaya dzedu pachedu.

Ini ndanyora pamusoro pezviitiko zvangu nehurema pese pauzima uye kubva pakuona kwakapamhama nezvekodzero dzekuremara, kudada, uye nharaunda. Ndingashungurudzika kana mumwe munhu akatora mukana iwoyo kubva pandiri nekuti vaida kutaura nyaya yangu vasina kana kuwana mvumo yangu, uye handisi ndoga ndinonzwa nenzira iyi.

Kunyangwe mune dzimwe nguva apo mumwe munhu anogona kunge achirekodha nekuti anoona kusaruramisira - {textend} munhu anoshandisa wiricheya ari kukwidzwa pamatanho nekuti pane masitepisi, kana bofu riri kuramba basa - {textend} zvichakakosha kubvunza munhu iyeye kana ivo vanoda izvi zvakagovaniswa pachena.

Kana vakadaro, kuwana maonero avo nekuzviudza nenzira yavanoda kuti zviudzwe chikamu chakakosha chekukudza ruzivo rwavo uye kuva mubatsiri, pane kusimudzira marwadzo avo.

Mhinduro iri nyore ndeiyi: Usatore mafoto uye mavhidhiyo emumwe munhu uye ugogovana navo pasina mvumo yavo

Tanga kutaura navo. Vabvunze kana izvi zvakanaka.

Tsvaga zvimwe pamusoro penyaya yavo, nekuti panogona kunge paine yakawanda mamiriro ariko auri kushaya (ehe, kunyangwe iwe uri nyanzvi mutapi venhau kana wezve media media maneja).

Hapana munhu anoda kutarisa vezvenhau kuti aone kuti vaenda nehutachiona vasina kana kutarisira (kana kuziva kuti vakanyorwa).

Isu tese tinofanirwa kutaura nyaya zvedu isu mumashoko edu pachedu, pane kudzikisirwa memes kana zvinyoronyorwa zvemukati zvemumwe munhu.

Vakaremara havasi zvinhu - {textend} tiri vanhu vane moyo, hupenyu huzere, uye tine zvakawanda zvekugovana nenyika.

Alaina Leary mupepeti, manejimendi midhiya maneja, uye munyori anobva kuBoston, Massachusetts. Parizvino ndiye mubatsiri mupepeti weEqually Wed Magazini uye midhiya enhau midhiya yeasina purofiti Tinoda Mabhuku Akasiyana.