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Zvemukati

• Nzira itsva yekuona zvinhu
• Pfungwa nyowani yekuzvimirira
• Tora woenda nazvo

Kunzwa uchikwezva kana uine hurema kunogona kuva dambudziko, anotsanangura mutsigiri Annie Elainey, kunyanya paunoshandisa zvinobatsira zvekufamba.

Yake yekutanga yaive tsvimbo. Kunyangwe kwaive kugadziridza, akanzwa kuti aive nechimiro chakanaka chekutarisa kwachiri. Mushure mezvose, kune akawanda mavara ane tsvimbo mune vezvenhau vanoonekwa sevanokwezva, saDr.Imba kubva ku "Imba" - uye tsvimbo dzinowanzo kuratidzwa mune yefashoni, dapper nzira.

“Ndanzwa zvakanaka. Ndainzwa, chokwadi, sekunge zvakandipa 'oomph' diki, "anoyeuka achiseka.

Asi Annie paakatanga kushandisa wiricheya, zvaitove zvakaoma kuti unzwe uri mufashoni kana unokwezva.

Pamusoro pezvemweya, kune vanhu vane mamiriro ekufambira mberi, kurasikirwa kwehumwe hunyanzvi kunogona kutungamira kunguva yekuchema. Annie anoti ndeyekuchema chimwe chinhu chaikosha kwazvo kwauri. "Mano edu anowanzove anokosha kwazvo kwatiri - kunyangwe tikatorerutsa," anodaro.

Nzira itsva yekuona zvinhu

Pakutanga, Annie ainetseka kuti akataridzika sei muwiricheya yake nyowani. Uye anga asina kugadzirira shanduko yekukwirira, zvinova zvakavhundutsa. Akamira, akayera mamita mashanu masendimita masere - asi akagara, aive akapfupika tsoka.

Semunhu anga akajaira kuve murefu, zvakanzwa kushamisika kugara wakatarisana nekutarisa vamwe. Uye kazhinji munzvimbo dzeveruzhinji, vanhu vaimutarisa nekumupoteredza, pane kumutarisa.

Zvaive pachena kuna Annie kuti maonero aaiita aisiyana zvakanyanya nemaonerwo aaiitwa nevamwe. Ipo iye achizviona semunhu akasimba ari kuenda kunze kwenyika, vazhinji vaingoona wiricheya yake.

“Kune vanhu vaisadaro tarisa kwandiri. Vaitarisa munhu aindisunda, asi vaisatarisa ini. Uye kuzviremekedza kwangu kwakanyanya. ”

Annie akasangana nedysmorphic disorder yemuviri uye akatanga kuve nepfungwa dzakashata senge: "Wow, ndaifunga kuti ndakanga ndakaipa kare. Ndiwo mutambo chaiwo zvino. Hapana munhu achazombondida izvozvi. "

Akanga asinganzwi "akanaka" kana anodikanwa, asi aive akatsunga kusarega zvichitora hupenyu hwake.

Pfungwa nyowani yekuzvimirira

Annie akatanga kutsvaga online uye akawana nharaunda yevamwe vakaremara vachigovana mafoto avo nema hashtag senge #spoonies, #hospitalglam, #cripplepunk, kana #cpunk (kune vanhu vaisada kushandisa slur).

Mifananidzo iyi, anodaro, yaive yekudzosa izwi rekuti "chirema," nezvevanhu vakaremara vaidada nekuremara uye vaizviratidza zvine chiremerera. Kwaive kupa simba uye kubatsira Annie kuwana izwi rake uye kuzivikanwa kwake zvakare, saka aigona kuzviona kupfuura kungoona kwakaita vamwe chigaro chake.

“Ndanga ndakafanana: Wow, murume, vakaremara vanhu vakanaka se heka. Uye kana vachigona kuzviita, ndinogona kuzviita. Enda musikana, enda! Pfeka dzimwe dzembatya dzawaimbopfeka usati waremara! ”

Annie anoti mune dzimwe nzira, kuremara uye chirwere chisingaperi chinogona kuva sefa yakanaka. Kana mumwe munhu achingoona iwe nezvehurema hwako uye asingakwanise kukuona iwe zvauri - kana vasingakwanise kuona hunhu hwako - saka pamwe haudi chero chinhu chekuita navo kutanga nacho.

Tora woenda nazvo

Annie atanga kuona mabhaisikopo ake se "zvishongedzo" - sechikwama kana bhachi kana sikafu - izvo zvinoitika zvakare kuvandudza hupenyu hwake.

Annie paanotarisa mugirazi izvozvi, anozvida sezvaari. Iye anotarisira kuti nekuwedzera kuoneka, vamwe vanogona kutanga kuzviona ivo pachavo muchiedza chakafanana.

“Handinzwe ndichikwezva nekuti vanhu vanokwezva kwandiri. Ndine chokwadi chekuti kune vanhu vanokwezva kwandiri. Naizvozvo, ndine chokwadi chezana muzana kuti kune vanhu vanokwezva kwandiri nekuti ini handina kuenda ndisina zvirevo nevateveri ... Chinhu chakakosha ndechekuti ndakawana chitupa changu zvekare. Kuti pandinotarisa mugirazi, ndinoona ini pachangu. Uye ndinoda ini pachangu.”

Alaina Leary mupepeti, manejimendi midhiya maneja, uye munyori anobva kuBoston, Massachusetts. Iye parizvino mubatsiri mupepeti weEqually Wed Magazine uye midhiya yemagariro edhisheni yeasina purofiti Tinoda Mabhuku Akasiyana.