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Paige Spiranac akaenda kuhutachiwana makore maviri apfuura ari gorofu anoyevedza aine nyanzvi yekugezera. Uye zvino ari mumwe wevakadzi makumi matatu nevatanhatu mu2018 Mitambo Yakaratidzwa Swimsuit nyaya, padhuze nezvinodiwa naKate Upton naAshley Graham. Mune imwe SI foto, Spiranac inodonhedza chitarisiko chinoyeuchidza Mukadzi Wonder, exuding simba uye simba. Izvo iwe zvausingakwanise kutaura kubva pamufananidzo ndezvekuti mugwagwa wake wekupa simba iro waive wakasviba chaizvo.
Nevateveri vanosvika miriyoni imwe nemazana matatu "vachifarira" mapikicha ake uye mazana ezviuru achimuona ari paYouTube chiteshi chegorofu, Spiranac yakava chiratidzo chegakava sezvo vatori venhau nevamwe vaitamba gorofu vakakanda mumvuri pamusoro pezvipfeko zvake zveSpandex uye vakanangidzira zvakaipa tsika dzake, tarenda remitambo, uye kunyangwe iye. mhuri. Kunyangwe kukura kweruvengo urwu kwaive kutsva kwaari, Spiranac anodaro Chimiro, "kwenguva yakareba sendinogona kurangarira, ndanetswa."
“Mukukura kwangu, vhudzi rangu raiita kudonha nyore, uye ndaiva neasthma yakaipa,” anodaro. "Vana vakafunga kuti ndaishamisika, kana kufunga kuti ndine zvirwere, saka vanosvipa zvinwiwa zvangu ndokukanda matombo kwandiri, vachiti 'mira tsoka gumi kubva kwaari nguva dzese."
Kushungurudzwa uku kwakaita kuti vabereki vaSpiranac vaende kudzimba dzekuchikoro kumwanasikana wavo kuburikidza nechikoro chepamusoro, uye kushungurudzwa kwacho kwakaramba kuchienderera kukoreji, anodaro. Mushure mekupedza chikoro, basa rake regorofu rakatanga kusimukira uye kuvepo kwake pamhepo zvakakonzera kushungurudzwa kwakanyanya kwepamhepo kwemakore maviri apfuura.
"Ini ndinosundira izvo zvandinogona kupfeka, ndinopfeka semumhanyi [ndisati ndavhura gorufu aive gymnast], uye vanhu vanotaura zvakaipa," anodaro. "Ndakanyadziswa, ndakashungurudzwa, ndakatumirwa nhema, uye ndakatumirwa kutyisidzirwa nerufu nekupfeka matangi eteki kana masiketi ekuumbisa fomu. Hapana anotarisa munhu wandiri."
Kudheerera kweCyberber kwakatora mutero panguva yeSiranac yekutanga European Tour. Akakokwa kunotamba muDubai mwedzi mitanhatu mushure mekunge chamupupuri online chanyatso kuputika, akasvika pamutambo achifunga kuti zviroto zvake zvegorofu zvaizoitika. Akasangana nevezvenhau vachishoropodza tsika dzake, hunhu, uye kurerwa kwake-zvese zvinoita kuti munhu ave munhu chaiye. Vezera rake vaairemekedza mugorofu vakabatanawo pakuseka nekushusha. "Ndainzwa kusurukirwa chaizvo," anobvuma. "Ini ndaive ndakagara muchimbuzi ndichitarisa mukati mezvese zvinhu uye ndakave nekuputsika kukuru. Ndakatadza kufema, handina kugona kumira kuchema. Ndakatarisa kubhavhu uye panguva iyoyo ndakafunga kuti nzira chete yekubuda yaive yekusagara . Hanzvadzi yangu yanga iripo uye yakandibatsira kuburikidza nazvo, akafonera mumwe munhu kuti abatsirwe. (Ziva chokwadi: Uhwu uropi hwako pakudheerera.)
Yaive iyo panguva, panguva yake yepazasi, apo Spiranac akaita sarudzo yekuti arege kubatwa, asi pachinzvimbo chemhinduro. Akave mumiriri wesangano rinorwisa-kudheerera Cybersmile. "Ndine rombo rakanaka rekuva nerutsigiro, asi kana wava nemakore gumi nemaviri kana gumi nematatu uye uine manzwiro akadaro, uchizarirwa nenyika dzekunze, unofunga nzira chete yekubuda nayo kuzviuraya," anodaro.
Imwe yeongororo huru yakaitwa pamusoro pekushungurudzwa kwepamhepo muvadzidzi vekuchikoro chepakati nesekondari, yakaburitswa gore rapfuura, inoratidza kuti zvikamu makumi manomwe kubva muzana zvevadzidzi vaive nerunyerekupe rwakatekeshera pamusoro pavo padandemutande, vasikana vachinyanya kushungurudzwa padandemutande. Zvichakadaro, muchiitiko chazvino muFlorida, vadzidzi vaviri vepakati pekusekondari vakapomedzerwa mhosva yekudyira cyber mushure mekunge mumwe mudzidzi azviuraya. Mapurisa anoti nhubu idzi dzakatanga makuhwa pamusoro pemunhu abatwa nechirwere chepabonde, kuita zvekunyomba, uye kutyisidzira kuti achafumura zvakavanzika. (Zvakabatana: Iyi Chrome Kuwedzerwa Inogona Kumisa Kuvengi VeInternet)
"Iri idambudziko chairo," anodzokorora Spiranac.Kubva zvaakasarudza kumiririra vamwe vari kushungurudzwa, anoti awana izwi rake, uye ari kuzviratidza nekurova kwake maoko achitsiva kune vanomuvenga.
Aimbove mutori wenhau wechikadzi weESPN achangobva kudheerera 2018 SI Vakadzi veSwimsuit, vachiti kukumbira mapikicha asina kupfeka hakusi kupa simba kuvakadzi, zvichireva kunyadziswa nekusemeswa. Spiranac akakurumidza kupindura kunyora achiti, "Vakadzi vakasiyana vanonzwa kugoneswa nenzira dzakasiyana, uye hazvina kunaka kuudza mumwe munhu zvavanogona uye zvavanogona kuita."
Kuvimba kutsva uku kunobva mukusimudzira vibes kweiyo SI kupfura, anodaro Spiranac. “Ini hapana chandaikwanisa kuvanda uye zvaindipa simba,” anodaro. "Iyi nyaya yese inopa simba kudzoka kuvakadzi. Zvakaomera vakadzi mazuva ese, isu tinofanirwa kuve vakanaka, asi kwete." zvakare akanaka, anoda chinzvimbo, asi kwete zvakare ambitious. Zvinoisa simba rakawanda pane zvatinofanira uye zvatinogona kuva. "
Uye muduramazwi raSpiranac, "kugonesa" hakutsanangurwi nechidimbu chembatya. Iko kunzwa.
"Anenge mukadzi wese wandasangana naye akasangana nekushungurudzwa," anodaro. "Mienzaniso kuburikidza SI vaionga kwazvo ndakataura nezvazvo, nekuti vanogara vachishungurudzwa zvakare-nekuda kwekutetepa, kunyatso zara, chero chinhu nezvechitarisiko chavo. Chinangwa chikuru ndechekuti mukadzi azvitarise mugirazi uye anzwe kushamisika nezvake. "Paunonzwa kugoneswa, zvinonzwa uye zvinoshamisa, uye ndinoda kuti munhu wese anzwe simba iri."