Maitiro Ekuchengetedza Kwako Hukama Hwehukama

Zvemukati

• Hukama 101
• Matanho ehukama
• Kukosha kwehukama
• Kugadziriswa kwehukama
• Kutaurisa
• Tora woenda nazvo

Hukama 101

Hukama hwehukama hunoumba hukama hwese hunozadzikisa huwandu hwezvido zvemuviri nezvepamoyo kwauri. Ava ndivo vanhu vauri pedyo navo muhupenyu hwako.

Nepo hukama hwehukama huri hwehukama, nhengo dzemhuri uye shamwari dzepedyo vari, futi. Kune zvakare chinhu chakadai sehukama hwechipiri hwehukama. Izvi zvinosanganisira vaunoziva, vavakidzani, uye nevamwe vaunosangana navo nguva dzose.

Muchidimbu, iwe une imwe mhando yehukama hwehukama neese munhu waunoziva.

Tichifunga nezve kukosha kwehukama kuhupenyu hwedu hwepamoyo uye hwepanyama, zvakakosha kuti udzidze maitiro ekukudziridza nekuachengetedza.

Matanho ehukama

Hukama haukure kamwe kamwe. Mumwe chiremba wezvepfungwa, George Levinger, akaona matanho mashanu ehukama hwehukama muongororo yakaitwa muna 1980. Akadaidza iyi nhanho dzidziso, iyo inosanganisira:

• kuzivana
• vaka
• kuenderera
• kudzikira
• kupera (kugumisa)

Hukama hwehukama hwakabudirira hunongopfuura nemumatanho ekutanga matatu. Hukama hunoguma pakurambana neshamwari kana mudiwa mudiwa uchaenda kuburikidza ese mashanu eaya matanho.

Hasi hukama hwese huchaita kuti hupfuure danho rekutanga rekuzivana, chero. Chikamu chekukosha kwedzidziso yaLevinger kuratidza kuti hukama hwehukama hwakangofanana sezvo hwakasiyana.

Kukosha kwehukama

Hukama hwehukama hwakakosha kune wako wese wepanyama uye wepamoyo mufaro. Hukama hunobatsira kurwisa kusurukirwa uku uchikupawo pfungwa yechinangwa muhupenyu.

Semuenzaniso, hukama hwepedyo hwaunonzwa nemhuri uye neshamwari chinhu chakakosha pakutsigira kwako munharaunda. Hukama mune zvimwe zvinhu zvehupenyu hwako kunze kwekudanana uye hwemhuri hunogona zvakare kuve nemhedzisiro pauri, sekuungana pamwe nevanozivana navo kufarira zvakafanana kana kuita hobby.

Hukama hwese hwehukama hwakavakirwa pakuvimbika, kutsigirwa, uye kuvimba. Hukama hwepedyo hunogona zvakare kuvakwa parudo. Kuremekedzana uye kudzokerana kwehunhu hwakakosha mukuchengetedza hukama hwako hwese. Zvikasadaro, hukama hunogona kuve hwedivi rimwe.

Kugadziriswa kwehukama

Kuchengetedza hushamwari uye humwe hukama zvinotora basa. Chinhu chekutanga uye chakakosha kutaurirana. Izvi zvinoda kukurukurirana mukati mevanhu pamusoro pemanzwiro ako. Kunyangwe kutumira mameseji nekutumira mameseji pamhepo kunogona kuzadzikisa zvakanyanya dzimwe nguva, ivo kazhinji havape zvakafanana mhedzisiro.

Pane imwe nguva muhukama, kukakavara kunomuka. Maitiro aunoita nazvo anoona kuti kupokana kunosimbisa hukama here kana kuti kwete. Panzvimbo pekudzivirira poindi yekukakavara, zvakakosha kuti utaure nayo uye uteerere kune kwavo maonero.

Kana paine chiri kukunetsa kubasa kana kuchikoro, taura. Kana iwe uine dzimwe nyaya neshamwari, nhengo yemhuri, kana mudiwa, ita shuwa yekuvaudza. Ndinovimba vachadzosera neruremekedzo uye kuvimbika.

Kunze kwekuvimbika uye kutaurirana pachena, zvakakoshawo kuti:

• Gadza miganhu.
• Iva muteereri anoshingaira.
• Ratidza mumwe munhu rukudzo nguva dzose.
• Chengetedza mafungiro akanaka.
• Iva wakavhurika pakushoropodzwa kunovaka uye nerevo pasina kurega manzwiro ako achitora nzvimbo.

Kutaurisa

Hasi hukama hwese hupenyu hwese. Muchokwadi, vamwe vanogona kusambopfuura kupfuura wekuzivana. Uye izvi zvakanaka. Zvakajairika kune humwe hukama kusvika kumagumo. Pane zvinhu zvinokanganisa mafambiro ehukama hwako hwehukama.

Paunofunga nezvehukama hwehukama hunoguma, iwe unogona kufunga nezve kurambana newaunodanana naye. Asi humwe hukama hwehukama hunogona kupera, zvakare.

Semuenzaniso, paunopedza chikoro, unogona kusaramba uchikurukura nevadzidzisi vako vese nevamwe vaunodzidza navo. Izvo zvinoitika kana iwe uchisiya basa uye woenda kune rimwe.

Hazvigoneke kuchengetedza hukama hwese muhupenyu hwako zvachose. Izvi zvinonyanya kuitika kuhukama hwechipiri.

Tora woenda nazvo

Hukama hwehukama hunobata zvese zvehupenyu hwedu, kusanganisira kumba, basa, uye zviitiko zvekuzorora. Pasina hukama hwakasimba, zvinokwanisika kuti usurukirwe uye usakoshesa semunhu. Iwe unogona zvakare kunzwa kuti uri kushaya rutsigiro rwemagariro.

Nhasi, zviri nyore kupfuura nakare kose kurasikirwa nehukama hwehukama nekuda kwetekinoroji inokurudzira kutaurirana kwedigital. Vanhu vanoshanda kubva kumba vanorasikirwa ne-mu-munhu kutaurirana nevavanoshanda navo. Shamwari uye mhuri vanogona kusarudza kutumira mameseji pane kuungana pamwe chete kuti vadye pamwe nekukurukura.

Ita poindi yekuona yako mhuri uye shamwari mumunhu, kana tarisa ako emuno kusangana uye zvimwe zvepamhepo zviwanikwa nzira dzekuita mune inodikanwa-kudyidzana kwevanhu.

Chekupedzisira, haugone kuvaka hukama hwehukama kana iwe usina hukama hwakanaka newe.

Tora nguva yekuzviziva iwe uye zvakare investa iwe-kuzvitarisira. Kana dzimwe nyaya dziri kukutadzisa kupedza nguva uine vamwe, funga kutaura nachiremba wekutsigira nekutungamirwa.