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Shasha yeKickboxing Tiffany Van Soest akashata chose mumhete nekeji. Nembiri mbiri dzemutambo kickboxing makwikwi epasi rose uye mashanu Muay Thai World Champion anohwina pasi pebhandi rake, ane makore makumi maviri nemasere akawana zita remadunhurirwa rekuti "Nguva Bhomba" nekuda kwekugona kwake kuhwina nekugogodza kweminiti yekupedzisira. (Usasiye kurwa kwese kuna Tiffany. Heino chikonzero nei uchifanira kuedza MMA iwe pachako.)
Zvakadaro, Van Soest akapedza hupenyu hwake hwese achinetseka nekushushikana munharaunda uye nenyaya dzemuviri-chimwe chinhu chaari kuvhura nezvacho kekutanga.
"Ini ndaive mwana anonyara chaizvo," Van Soest anoudza Chimiro. "Ndaigara ndichifunga kuti chimwe chinhu chandichakura asi handina kumboita. Mamiriro emagariro evanhu aramba achindishungurudza, asi handina kutomboziva kuti ndainetseka ne'social kufunganya' kusvikira vanhu vatanga kutaura nezvepfungwa. hutano pachena. " (Heino nzira yekuziva kana iwe uchigona kubatsirwa nekurapa.)
Haisi chakavanzika chekuti kwemakumi emakore (hazvo, mazana emakore, chaizvo), hutano hwepfungwa hwakashurwa. "Nyaya dzehutano hwepfungwa dzinowanzobatanidzwa nekupenga uye kupenga," Van Soest anodaro. "Asi nyaya idzi dzine chekuita nekusaenzana kwemakemikari muhuropi hwako, sekumwe kusaenzana kuri mumuviri wako izvo zvinogona kuita kuti unzwe kurwara. Kana vanhu vakataura nezve zvinhu izvi pachena, zvinogona kuvabatsira kuti vaone kuti chii chaizvo chiri kutadza navo." Ndiani anoziva? Zvavanonzwa vanogona kunge vane zita. Kwandiri, kwaive kushungurudzika munharaunda. "
Kusvikira makore mana apfuura, Van Soest anga asingazive kuti iyo yekuremara uye inonetesa manzwiro aaive nawo paakange akakomberedzwa nechaunga chikuru kana kusiiwa ega achitaura nevasingazive aive chaiwo echiratidzo ehukama hwevanhu. "Mwoyo wangu waizotanga kurova uchibuda muchipfuva changu, uye ndaizoona zvichinetsa kuramba ndichikurukura-kazhinji ndichikakama uye ndichinyudza mazwi angu uye ndisingazive zvekuita nemaoko angu. Pamusoro pezvo ndakanzwa kubatwa-bata, ndichida zvakanyanya kubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu uye kugara ndega zvakare, "Van Soest anodaro.
Yakanga iri kusvika iye atanga kutaura aya manzwiro paakakwanisa kuwana rubatsiro rwaaida. “Kubva pandakaongororwa zviri pamutemo, ndakadzidza kurarama nazvo zviri nani,” anodaro. (Zvakabatana: Maitiro Ekuita Nekushushikana Kwemagariro Pasina Doro)
Van Soest akagadzira akatevedzana maitiro anomubatsira kuti apfuure nekukonzeresa mamiriro emagariro. "Ndakaona kuti handizokwanisi kudzivisa mamiriro ezvinhu ose anowedzera kuzvidya mwoyo kwangu, saka ndauya nenzira dzangu dzekutarisana nazvo: kuisa pfungwa pakufema kwangu panguva yekukurukurirana nevasingazivi kana kutora zororo nekutsika. kunze uye kuzvitarisa zvakare, "anodaro. "Kubvuma kuti pane dambudziko kuri nani pane kuedza kuvanza kana kuramba."
Pakutanga, Van Soest aishandisa karati senzira yekuti atsungirire. Zvakamupa chikonzero chekutiza munyika yake. “Zvinondibatsira kuti ndisafunga nezvekutambudzika kwangu uku ndichipa pekutangira,” anodaro. "Pandinenge ndichidzidzira kana kurwa, ndiri munzvimbo. Asi magariro enzvimbo pamberi nepashure achiri masimba ane simba andinofanira kushanda nguva dzose." (Kana iwe uri kushandisa zvakare kurovedzwa se "kurapa" kwako, unofanirwa kuverenga izvi.)
Munguva pfupi yapfuura, akapinda mukutaura, chimiro chenhetembo chakagadzirirwa kuita. "Ndakagara ndiri munhetembo, hip-hop, rap, uye chiitiko ichocho," Van Soest anodaro. "Ndakachengeta magazini ndichiri mwana kwandainyora nhetembo, asi nekuda kwemaziso angu chete."
Asi haana kumbobvira azvipfura iye kusvika aenda kumusangano wevanokurudzira muAustin munaGunyana apfuura.
“Mumwe wevakurukuri ane mukurumbira aive muimbi aiimba uye zvakabva zvatungidza chimwe chinhu mandiri, saka ndakafunga kukoshesa kunyora kwangu uye nditarise kuita zvekutamba ini,” anodaro. "Yakave nzira yangu yekutaura, kwandakazowana nzira yekutaura zvandainzwa. Kurapa. Chero pandinenge ndichinzwa chero nzira, ndinogona kungonyora chinyoreso kubepa ndonyora mitsara mishoma kana kudzokorora mutinhimira kunze." zvine ruzha, ndakagara mumota mangu, munzira dzandinonzwa ivo. "
Parizvino, Van Soest akaita mashoma eakavhurika mic husiku imomo. “Ndisati ndapedza kutamba, mwoyo wangu unotanga kumhanya uye ndiri kunetseka uye kunetseka sezvandakamboita tisati tarwa,” anodaro. "Asi yechipiri ini ndinotanga kudzokorora, zvese zvinoenda uye ndinokwanisa kurega zvese zvakaiswa mukati mangu, senge pandinenge ndiri muchizarira kana mhete. Inonzwa seyakasikwa uye yakachena."
Vanotaurwa naVan Soest vanonyanya kutaura nezvekushushikana kwavo uye nekunetseka kwavanonzwa kunyangwe vachionekwa sevasingakundike.Asi chimiro chemuviri ndeimwewo nyaya yaanowanzobata, achigovana nemasikirwo ake emitambo agara ari nyaya yekukurukurirana.
"Handina kumbobvira ndanetseka nechitarisiko chemuviri kusvika ndave pazera rekuyaruka uye vanhu vakatanga kutaura pamusoro pezvidya zvangu," Van Soest anodaro. "Vanhu vakatanga kuratidza kuti vaive sei 'zvakare mhasuru,' izvo zvakandipa ese marudzi ezvekuzviremekedza nyaya." (Zvakabatana: Iyo UFC Yakawedzera Chikamu Chitsva Chehuremu kune Vakadzi. Heino Chikonzero Nei Yakakosha)
"Ini handichaisa huremu hwakanyanya mune zvinotaurwa nevamwe vanhu nezvangu nemuviri wangu," Van Soest anodaro. "Ndino tarisa pakutenda kugara muchizvarwa chine simba chinoonekwa sevasikana vakanaka uye vadiki vari kukura vachiziva kuti miviri yavo yakasikwa yakaenzana, zvisinei nechimiro, saizi, kana ruvara."
Tarisa Tiffany achiita chidimbu chemanzwiro ezwi rakataurwa muvhidhiyo iri pazasi.