Zvepabonde Zvakawanda Hazvifananidzi Kufara Kwakawanda, inodaro New Study

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Kunyangwe zvingaite senge zviri pachena kuti kungoita kubatikana kazhinji neako SO hazvireve hazvo kuti hunhu hwehukama hwakakura (dai chete hwaive hwakapusa!), zvidzidzo zvakawana kwenguva refu bonde rakaenzana mufaro wakawanda. Asi ikozvino, nekuda kwekutsvagisa kutsva, pane imwe huru yekuchengetera: Paunenge uchitsvaga frisky kazhinji zvinoita kukuita kuti ufare, iwe unenge uchingofara mushure meimwe bonde sesh pavhiki sezvaungaita mushure memana. (Tichiri pazviri, ona 10 Zvikanganiso Zvepabonde Zvinokukwenya Musaga.)

Yakabudiswa mumagazini Social Psychological uye Personality Sayenzi, chidzidzo ichi chakavakirwa pakuferefetwa kwevanopfuura makumi matatu emurume nemukadzi vari muU.S., uye ndiyo yekutanga kuona kuti kamwechete pasvondo ndizvo zvaungade kuti uwane mibairo yemufaro iyi! Zvinotoshamisa kuti pakanga pasina musiyano mune zvakawanikwa zvinoenderana nehunhu, zera, kana kuti vaviri ava vanga varoora zvakadii, akatsanangura anotungamira mutsvagiri uye wezvemagariro epfungwa, Amy Muise, Ph.D, mukuburitswa kwenhau. (Saka varume usadaro vanoda bonde kupfuura vakadzi? Pfungwa dzakapeputswa.)

Nekudaro, iyi link yaibata chete kune avo vane hukama hwepamoyo. Nei zvingadaro? Huye, kune vanhu vasina kuroora, kubatana pakati pebonde uye mufaro kunoenderana nematani ezvinhu, senge mamiriro ehukama mune iyo bonde inoitika (uri shamwari nemabhenefiti? Husiku humwe kumira?) Uye kugadzikana kwaunenge uine bonde kunze kwehukama. Chaizvoizvo, semunhu chero asina kuroorwa anogona kukuudza: Zvakaoma, uye nekudaro zvakanakisa kuita chero mhedziso kana zvasvika kune huwandu hwepabonde uye kugara zvakanaka.

Kutora? Ehe, bonde rakakosha mukuchengetedza hukama hwepedyo nemumwe wako, asi haufanire kuzviita mazuva ese chero bedzi uchiita chiito kamwe pasvondo. Uye, hongu, kutaurirana kunogara kuchikosha, saka bhucha murume uyu usati waenderera mberi: 7 Kutaurirana Kwaunofanirwa Kuva Nehupenyu Hwehutano Hwepabonde.

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