Madzimai Ava Vari Kumbundira Chimiro Chavo Mukufamba kwe "More Than My Height".

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Amy Rosenthal naAlli Black ihanzvadzi mbiri dzinonzwisisa mabheti ese anogona kuuya nekuve mukadzi "akareba". Alli ndeye 5 tsoka 10 inches uye agara achinetseka kuwana fashoni, zvipfeko zvinonyatsokodzera. Iye zvakare haana kumbobvira akwanisa kushopota kune akareba hunyanzvi zvitoro nekuti izvo sarudzo dzaida kuve zvakare refu.

Amy, kune rimwe divi, ane yake seti yekutambudzika. "Ndiri kunyara chete 6 tsoka 4 inches, saka kutenga kwagara kuri kundiomera," anodaro Chimiro. "Kutendeseka, hupenyu hwangu hwese mukukura hwanga hwakazara nendangariro dzinorwadza izvo zvakaita kuti ndinzwe kuzvifunga nekureba, senge nguva yepuraimari pandakaziva kuti ndaifanira kupfeka makaki evarume kukonzati yebhendi rangu nekuti hapana chimwe chaizokwana "Ndakanga ndanyunguduka zvakakwana muimba yekupfekedza uye ndinorangarira ndichinzwa kusagadzikana muganda rangu."

Zvavakasangana nazvo, pamwe nekuziva kuti fashoni yenyika yakanga isinga chengetedze vakadzi vehurefu hwakasiyana, zvakaita kuti hanzvadzi idzi dzitangire yavo yekutengesa inonzi Amalli Talli muna 2014. nekureba uye inouya nemhando dzakasiyana, saizi, uye huwandu, "anodaro Alli. "Saka taida kushanda pamwe chete kuti tivhare musiyano uripo pakati pemasaizi marefu anowanikwa muzvitoro zvemazuva ese uye zvinounzwa patafura nezvitoro zvirefu zvehunyanzvi." (Yakabatana: Nei Muviri-Wakanaka Kushambadzira Hakusi Izvo Zvese Zvinoita Sezvinoonekwa)

Mumakore mana apfuura, bhizinesi raAlli naAmy rakabudirira, asi vachiri kuyedza kuve vanosanganisira vakadzi vakareba munzvimbo yezvipfeko, vakanzwa kuda kuita zvakawanda mushure mekunyadzisa chiitiko chemuviri. “Gore rakapera, ndichishanda muNew York, mumwe murume akauya kwandiri naAmy pamusangano wenyanzvi ndokuti, ‘Makaita seiko pakureba kwamafiti manomwe? zvinonzwika zvekuti munhu wese anzwe panguva imwe chete achitiseka," anodaro Alli. "Chinhu chaakaita kakawanda, zvichiita kuti tinzwe kusagadzikana zvakanyanya uye nekunyara."

Nekudaro, hanzvadzi dzakasarudza kunyora blog blog nezve chiitiko pane webhusaiti yaAmalli Talli kuti vagoverane kuti kunyangwe ivo vakagarika uye vachivimba nehurefu hwavo, zviitiko zvakadaro zvinogona kunyatso tora kuzvidzora kwako.

"Kune zvakawanda zvekufungidzira zvinosanganiswa nevakadzi varefu," Amy anodaro. "Kune vanotanga, inofungidzirwa kuve chinhu chevanhurume. Vakomana vanorerwa kuti vave vakuru uye vakasimba, nepo vasikana vachifanirwa kuve vakanaka uye vadiki. Ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero nei vakadzi varefu vachizviwana vachiwana kutaridzika, kutarisa, uye kutaura. Kureba zvakanyanya semukadzi kunowanzo fungwa sekusina kujairika."

Chakashamisa ndechekuti madzimai aibva kumativi mana enyika akatanga kutaura nasisi, vachiudzana matauriro avaiita nezvavakasangana nazvo uye vaitarisira kuti vaizotaura zvakawanda pamusoro penyaya idzi dzinosangana nevakadzi varefu. Ndozvakaita kuberekwa kweKupfuura Hurefu Hwangu.

"Tichipa mhinduro inoshamisa yatakatambira, tainzwa kunge ichi chinhu chaida kuve chinhu chayo," anodaro Alli. "Saka vakadzi vakawanda varefu vanonetseka kuti vanzwe sevakadzi uye takanzwa kuti kutanga sangano rakavabatsira kunzwa vachitsigirwa kunogona kuvabatsira kukunda manzwiro iwayo."

Kunyangwe mhino hombe, mafuta emuhapwa, uye ganda rakasununguka zvese zvakaonekwa sechikamu chekuzvida, muviri-kusundidzira kwakanaka, Alli naAmy vakaziva kuti kureba kwanga kusati kwave nenzvimbo yayo yakakodzera mukuonekwa. "Kune akawanda mabloggi kunze uko akagadzirirwa mafashoni marefu," anodaro Amy. "Asi pakanga pasina kana chinhu kunze uko nezvekukwirira kunogona kuita sosi yekuzviziva kwevakadzi uye kuti vamwe vanhu havafunge kangani vasati vataura nezvayo kana kuinongedzera, izvo zvinogona kukuvadza chimiro chemuviri."

Alli akaratidzira aya mafungiro. "Zvizhinji zvezvinhu zvandakaverenga nezvazvo kana zvasvika pakusimba kwemuviri zvakanangana nehuremu-icho chakakosha chose uye chiri chinhu vakadzi vazhinji vanorondedzera nacho-asi kureba kwako chinhu chausingatombo shandure," anodaro. "Chero uchaita sei unogara uri murefu.Saka kune vakadzi avo vari kusagadzikana nekureba, isu taida kugadzira nzvimbo inoita kuti vazive kuti havasi vega uye kuti kune zvakawanda kwazvo kwavari kupfuura hurefu hwavo. " Me)

Pamwe nekugadzira nharaunda inotsigira yevakadzi varefu, Alli naAmy vanodawo kudzidzisa vanhu nezve, sehuremu, kukwirira kwemumwe munhu hachisi chinhu chaunofanirwa kutaura nezvacho. "Zvakakosha kuti isu tidzidze kufunga nezvatinotaura," anodaro Amy. "Iwe haugone kuziva kuti mumwe munhu haana kuchengetedzeka nezvei. Nekuvadaidza uye nekutarisisa kwavari, unogona kuvaita kuti vanzwe kunyanyisa kuzvifunga kupfuura zvavatoita."

Pakupera kwezuva, More Than My Height ndeyekubatsira vakadzi kuti vaone kuti ivo vakanyanya kupfuura zvavanoona mugirazi. “Kunyangwe tichida kubatsira vanhukadzi kuti varemekedze kureba kwavo uye kuti vanzwe vaine chivimbo, tinodawo kuvabatsira kuti vaone kuti vane zvakawanda zvavanoda kupa,” anodaro Alli. "Kune hunhu hwakawanda kwazvo hunotiita isu zvatiri, asi ndihwo hunyanzvi hwaunofanirwa kupa nyika iyo inonyatsotsanangura iwe-uye ndizvo zvaunofanira kushandisa kuyera kukosha kwako."

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