Kucherekedza Rudo Dambudziko

Zvemukati

• Ndezvipi zviratidzo zvekunyanyisa rudo kusagadzikana?
• Chii chinokonzeresa kuti munhu awedzere kusaona rudo nyonganiso?
• Kushungurudzika kwekubatanidza
• Borderline hunhu kusagadzikana
• Godo rekunyepedzera
• Erotomania
• Kucherekedza-kumanikidza kusagadzikana (OCD)
• Godo rekutarisa
• Kurwara kwerudo kunoonekwa sei?
• Kurwara kwerudo kunoonekwa sei?
• Ndeapi maonero emunhu ane obsessive rudo kusagadzikana?

Chii chinonzi obsessive rudo kusagadzikana?

"Obsessive love disorder" (OLD) inoreva mamiriro ekuti iwe unokoshesa mumwe munhu waunofunga kuti ungangodaro uchidanana naye. Iwe unganzwa kuda kwekudzivirira mudiwa wako zvakanyanya, kana kutombova kudzora kwavo sekunge chava chinhu.

Kunyangwe pasina chakaparadzaniswa chekurapa kana chepfungwa kuripo kune OLD, inogona kuperekedza dzimwe mhando dzehutano hwepfungwa. Taura nachiremba wako kana iwe uchifunga kuti iwe kana mudiwa angave aine chirwere. Kurapa kunogona kubatsira kudzikisa zviratidzo uku uchidzivirira kunetseka nehukama.

Ndezvipi zviratidzo zvekunyanyisa rudo kusagadzikana?

Zviratidzo zve OLD zvinogona kusanganisira:

• kukwezva kunotyisa kumunhu mumwe chete
• kufunga kwakanyanya pamusoro pemunhu
• kunzwa kudiwa kwe "kudzivirira" munhu wauri kudanana naye
• kufunga uye nezviito
• godo rakanyanya pamusoro pehumwe hukama hwevamwe
• kuzvitarisira pasi

Vanhu vane OLD vanogona zvakare kusatora kurambwa zviri nyore. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, zviratidzo zvinogona kuwedzera pakupera kwehukama kana kana mumwe munhu akakuramba. Kune zvimwe zviratidzo zveichi chirwere, senge:

• akadzokororwa zvinyorwa, maemail, uye kufona kumunhu wavanofarira
• kudikanwa kwekusimbiswa nguva dzose
• kunetsekana kuve nehukama kana kuchengetedza kusangana nevemumhuri nekuda kwekunyanyisa pamusoro pemunhu mumwe
• kuongorora zviito zvemumwe munhu
• kudzora kunoenda mumwe munhu uye zviitiko zvavanoita

Chii chinokonzeresa kuti munhu awedzere kusaona rudo nyonganiso?

Iko hakuna kana chimwe chete chikonzero che OLD. Pane kudaro, inogona kuve yakabatana nemamwe marudzi ehurema hwepfungwa hwepfungwa senge:

Kushungurudzika kwekubatanidza

Iri boka rekushushikana rinoreva kune vanhu vane nyaya dzekubatanidza pamoyo, sekushayikwa kwekunzwira tsitsi kana kupenga kune mumwe munhu.

Mhando dzekunetsekana kwekubatanidza dzinosanganisira disinhibited yemagariro kusangana kusagadzikana (DSED) uye yekuita yekubatanidza chinetso (RAD), uye ivo vese vanokura panguva yehucheche kubva kune zvakashata zvakasangana nevabereki kana vamwe vakuru vakuru vanochengeta.

MuDSED, unogona kunge uine hushamwari hwakanyanya uye usatora matanho ekudzivirira vanhu vausingazive. NeRAD, unogona kunzwa kunetseka uye kuva nezvinetso kufambidzana nevamwe.

Borderline hunhu kusagadzikana

Uku kusagadzikana kwehutano hwepfungwa kunoonekwa nekukanganisa neako-wega mufananidzo pamwe nekuchinja kwakanyanya kwemamiriro. Borderline hunhu kusagadzikana kunogona kukukonzera iwe kuti uve wakatsamwa zvakanyanya kuti ufare zvakanyanya mukati meiyi maminetsi kana maawa.

Zvikamu zvinoshungurudza uye zvinoshungurudza zvinoitika. Paunenge uchifunga nezvekuratidzika kwerudo kusagadzikana, kusagadzikana kwehunhu kunogona kukonzeresa kushanduka pakati pekuda zvakanyanya munhu kuzvidza kwakanyanya.

Godo rekunyepedzera

Kubva pane zvekunyepedzera (zviitiko kana chokwadi chaunotenda kuti ichokwadi), kusagadzikana uku kunoratidzwa nekuomerera pazvinhu zvakatoratidzwa kuti ndezvechokwadi. Kana zvasvika parudo rwekunyanyisa, godo rekunyepedzera rinogona kukonzera kuti utende kuti mumwe munhu akadzorera manzwiro avo kwauri, kunyangwe kana vakakujekesa ichi hachisi chokwadi.

Sekureva, godo rekunyepedzera rinogona kuve rakabatanidzwa nekudhakwa muvarume.

Erotomania

Dambudziko iri mharadzano pakati pekunyengera uye obsessive rudo kusagadzikana. Neerotomania, iwe unotenda kuti mumwe munhu ane mukurumbira kana wepamusoro chinzvimbo chemagariro ari murudo newe. Izvi zvinogona kutungamira mukushungurudzwa kwemumwe munhu, sekuratidza kumba kwavo kana kubasa.

Sekureva kweComprehensive Psychiatry, vanhu vane erotomania vanowanzo sarudzika neshamwari shoma, uye vangatove vasina basa.

Kucherekedza-kumanikidza kusagadzikana (OCD)

Kucherekedza-kumanikidza kusagadzikana (OCD) mubatanidzwa wemafungiro akasarudzika uye tsika dzekumanikidza. Izvi zvakakomba zvakakwana kuti zvipindire nehupenyu hwako hwezuva nezuva. OCD inogona zvakare kukonzera iwe kuti ude kugara uchivimbiswa, izvo zvinogona kukanganisa hukama hwako.

Vamwe vanhu vanonzi vane hukama OCD, uko kushushikana uye kumanikidzwa kunoitirwa mukati mehukama. Zvisinei, iyi haisi subtype inozivikanwa inozivikanwa yeOCD.

Godo rekutarisa

Kusiyana negodo rekunyepedzera, godo rekutarisa ndere kungofungira zvisina basa nekuona kweumwe kusavimbika. Uku kubatikana kunogona kutungamira mukudzokorora uye nekumanikidza maitiro mukupindura kusatendeka kunetsekana. Aya maitiro akafanana neOCD zvakanyanya kupfuura godo rekunyepedzera. Izvi zvinogona kukonzera kushushikana kwakanyanya kana kukanganisa kushanda kwemazuva ese.

Kurwara kwerudo kunoonekwa sei?

OLD inoonekwa ichinyatso kuongororwa kubva kunachiremba wepfungwa kana mumwe nyanzvi yehutano hwepfungwa. Kutanga, ivo vachakubvunzurudza nekukubvunza mibvunzo nezve zviratidzo zvako, pamwe nehukama hwako. Ivo zvakare vachakubvunza iwe nezve yako mhuri uye kana paine anozivikanwa hutano hwepfungwa huripo huripo.

Kuongororwa kwekurapa kubva kuna chiremba wako wekutanga kunogona kudiwa kuti utonge zvimwe zvikonzero. Sezvo obsessive rudo kusagadzikana rwunosangana nemamwe marudzi ehutano hwepfungwa hurema, haina kuiswa muAmerican Psychological Association's Diagnostic uye Statistical Manual yeMental Disorders (DSM).

Nezvikonzero zvisingazivikanwe, OLD vakadzi vakawanda kupfuura varume.

Kurwara kwerudo kunoonekwa sei?

Iyo chaiyo yekurapa chirongwa cheichi chirwere chinoenderana nechakakonzera chikonzero. Nekudaro, zvinowanzo sanganisira musanganiswa wemishonga uye psychotherapy.

Mishonga inogona kushandiswa kugadzirisa makemikari ehuropi. Nekudaro, izvi zvinogona kudzikisa zviratidzo zvechirwere. Chiremba wako anogona kukurudzira chimwe cheanotevera:

• anti-kunetseka mishonga, yakadai saValium uye Xanax
• mishonga yekudzvinyirira, senge Prozac, Paxil, kana Zoloft
• antipsychotic
• mafungiro ekugadzirisa

Zvinogona kutora mavhiki akati kuti mushonga wako ushande. Unogona zvakare kuda kuyedza mhando dzakasiyana kusvikira wawana iyo inoshanda zvakanyanya kwauri. Taura nachiremba wako nezvezvinogona kuitika mhedzisiro, senge:

• nzara inoshanduka
• muromo wakaoma
• kuneta
• kutemwa nemusoro
• kushaya hope
• kurasikirwa kwe libido
• kusvotwa
• kurema kuwedzera
• kuwedzera zviratidzo

Therapy inobatsirawo kune ese mafomu eOLD. Dzimwe nguva zvinobatsira kuti mhuri dzibatanidzwe nezvirongwa zvekurapa, kunyanya kana kukanganisika kwerudo kwakakonzerwa nenyaya kubva paudiki. Zvichienderana nehukuru hwechisimba uye zvaunofarira iwe, unogona kuita kurapa kwemunhu kana weboka. Dzimwe nguva nyanzvi yehutano hwepfungwa inokurudzira ese maviri marudzi.

Therapy sarudzo dzinosanganisira:

• kugadzirisa maitiro ekurapa
• dialectical maitiro ekurapa
• tamba kurapa (kwevana)
• taura kurapwa

Ndeapi maonero emunhu ane obsessive rudo kusagadzikana?

Nepo OLD iri kuwana kutariswa kwakawanda, iri shoma. Zvinofungidzirwa kuti vashoma pane vanhu vane kusagadzikana.

Kana iwe kana munhu waunoda uine zviratidzo zvekunyanyisa rudo kusagadzikana, iwe unofanirwa kuona chiremba. Ivo vanogona kukuendesa iwe kuna chiremba wepfungwa kuti ubatsire kuona kana iwe uine zvechokwadi OLD. Iwe unogona zvakare kuve nechimwe chirwere chehutano hwepfungwa.

Kana uchionekwa nekurapwa, OLD inogona kuve nemhedzisiro. Iko kiyi, zvisinei, ndeyekurega kurega kurapwa kana kurapwa kana iwe uchifunga kuti uri kunzwa zviri nani. Kamwe kamwe kumisa kurapwa kwako kunogona kuwedzera zviratidzo, kana kuita kuti vadzoke.