Kuronga Imba Yangu Yakachengetedza Hutano Hwangu Panguva Yedenda reCoronavirus

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Zvinhu hazvina kumbonzwa zvichinetsa kupfuura mugore rese re2020 apo sezviri pachena zvese zvakafunga kurova fan nguva imwe chete. Ini ndinobudirira kana ndiine simba pamusoro penguva yangu, kalendari yangu yemagariro, iyo remote control… Uye kamwe kamwe ndiri kushanda, ndichigara, uye ndichirara mufurati rangu diki apo nyika yekunze iri mumhirizhonga. Hazvina maturo kutaura, kwave kurota kwekutya kwekutonga freak seni.

Mamwe mazuva ari nani pane mamwe. Ndinoda kushanda ndiri kumba nembwanana yangu yeBrussels Griffon yakabatwa padivi pangu. Asi mamwe mazuva akaoma, uye kuzvidya mwoyo kwangu kunowedzerwa kubva mukubhomba nguva dzose kwezvakaipa uyezve nhau dzakaipa uye kusakwanisa kuona mhuri yangu. Uye kana mamiriro angu epfungwa aenda kure-pakati, ndozvinoitawo zvakandikomberedza. Chaizvoizvo, kusanzwisisika kwangu kwepfungwa kunowanzo kuratidza panyama muchimiro chemubatanidzwa ... kwese kwese.

Chero ani anopinda mumba mangu anogona kutaura zviri kuitika mumusoro mangu. Madhiri aitwa? Counters yakachena? Zvinhu zvakanaka. Ini ndakaputira basa rangu nenguva, ndaive nekudya kwakanaka, uye ndichine nguva yekutarisa episode yazvino yeicho chaiyo show irikufamba ndichigeza kicheni panguva dzekutengesa.

Asi kana risiri zuva rakanaka kudaro, imba yangu inoita seyakanzi naamai vangu "nzvimbo ine njodzi." Hazvisizvo tsvina, Sega, asi hapana chakanyatsonaka. Pamwe tsamba dzisina kuvhurwa dzakaunganidzwa kumwe kunhu uye bhutsu dzangu dzese dzakarasirwa pasi pane kunyatsoiswa kure. Zvinotaridza sekunge zuva rega rega rinoshandiswa mukusarudzika kure nevanhu kunovhura mukana wekunetseka kwakanyanya kunokonzerwa nekushushikana.

"Kana vanhu vakasangana nekushushikana, hurongwa hwavo hwemitsipa hunenge hwanyanya," anotsanangura kudaro Kate Balestrieri, Psy.D, CSAT-S, chiremba ane ruzivo uye chiremba wezvepfungwa. "Izvi zvinoreva kuti unogona kunzwa mukati wakabatikana nepfungwa dzinogona kunge dzakanyanya kana dzinopenya. Uye kana zvirizvo, mabasa epamba kana ehutsanana anogona kuwira munzira. ”

Iyo yekupedzisira bit haigone kuva yechokwadi kwandiri, uye nepo zvakanyatsonaka kurega pasi richienda risina kutsvairwa (pane zvirokwazvo hove hombe kufashaira izvozvi), kana ichinge yasvika kune imwe nhanho yekusachena, inotokonzeresa kunyanya kunetseka. "Kune vanhu vakachena, nzvimbo yekugara isina kurongeka inogona kuwedzera imwe yekuremerwa kupfungwa iri kutonzwa kunetseka," anotsanangura kudaro Balestrieri. "Chinhu chakakurumbira chekuzvidya mwoyo kunzwa kushaya simba, kushaya zvekuita, kudzivirirwa, kana kudzora." (Nechekuita: Kuchenesa uye Kuronga Kunogona Kuvandudza Hutano Hwako Hwemuviri nePfungwa)

Mhinduro (zvirinani, kwandiri) yaive yekubuda mumusoro mangu uye kutora matanho kuitira kuti ndigone kungonzwa zvirinani asi kutangazve pfungwa diki yekudzora - chimwe chinhu munhu wese chaanotoda zvakanyanya izvozvi.

Ndakatanga newadhiropu yangu. Ndaingozvirega zvichipfachukira, uye zvino zvakanga zvava kundinetsa zvokuti ndaiedza kusateerera pese pandaisundira zvinhu mukati. Ndakaronga kutanga kuronga wadhiropu yangu imwe weekend apo ndaiziva kuti mudiwa wangu aizobuda. imba, kuti ndive nenguva yekuva ndega nebasa riripo.

Nhanho yangu yekutanga: ndakadhonza Marie Kondo ndikaburitsa zvese kubva muwadhiropu yangu ndokuzviisa pamubhedha wangu. Stress yekungoona yazara panze yainge yatonyanya kuwanda asi pakanga pasisina kudzoka zvino. Ndakatamba mwaka wekutanga Iwo Amadzimai Edzimba eNew York City kumashure kuti andibatsire kutonhora, ndokuzoparadzanisa mbatya dzangu mumirwi mitatu: chengeta, upe, uye edza ku - uchitevera stylist Anna DeSouza nyanzvi dzesangano matanho.

Iyo yakakura murwi wemupiro wakawana, zvirinani zvandainzwa. Sezvo ndanga ndanyanya kupfeka masweatshirts nemaleggings gore rino, ndakambomira, ndichifunga kuti ndaizowana mukana wekupfeka jean kana rokwe zvakare. Ini handina kurega pfungwa dzakashata dzichikwira, zvakadaro, saka ndakaita sarudzo dzangu ndikaramba ndichienderera.

Chidimbu chega chega chandakafunga kuchengeta chakadzokera muwadhiropu yangu nekungwarira uye nekurongwa nechikamu - chimwe chinhu chandakatorawo kubva kuDeSouza. Ndakaenderera mberi nemupfekeri wangu nemabhini ekuchengetera pasi pemubhedha wangu aifashukira neshangu. Ndisati ndaziva, ndakanga ndava mukicheni ndichipukuta makabati uye ndichikanda zvinhu zvemumagaba zvakanga zvapera basa nezvinonhuwira.

Kwevhiki rinotevera kana zvakadaro, iyo yekuchengetera yunifomu yangu yepamberi, mushonga wangu kabhineti… yega yega yakazara, isina kuchengetwa nzvimbo yekuchengetera yakatwasuka, uye humwe huremu hwekushushikana kwandanga ndakatakura hwakatanga kupera. (Yakabatana: Khloé Kardashian Akagadzirisazve Her Fridge, Uye Ndicho Chinyorwa cheType-A Zviroto)

Zvino, nzvimbo yandinomuka, kudya, kushanda, kurovedza muviri, kushamwaridzana, uye kurara - bhudzi rangu diki uko mukomana wangu, imbwa, uye ini izvozvi zvandinopedza ingangoita nguva yega yega zvangoerekana zvadzoka mukutonga kwangu. Ndinogona kufema nyore. Iko kuvapo kwekutya kuchiri kusimudza musoro wayo wakashata nguva nenguva (hei, isu tichiri mugore resarudzo nedenda), asi ini handina masweatshirt anodonha kubva kumusoro kwemusoro wangu pese pandinovhura kabhodhi rangu, saka iri kukunda! Pakupedzisira, ndine zvinhu zvidiki zvishoma, uye nekudaro zvinhu zvishoma zvekundimanikidza kunze, kunyangwe ndichiri kunzwa sekunge ndine hutongi hudiki hwezvinoitika kunze kwemusuwo wemba yangu.

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