Chii chinonzi Mhete Gender Bvunzo - uye Inoshanda?

Zvemukati

• Chii chinonzi mhete yechikadzi bvunzo?
• Unozviita sei?
• Shanduro yekutanga: pamusoro pemimba yemunhu ane nhumbu
• Shanduro yechipiri: pamusoro poruoko rwemubatanidzwa
• Mhedzisiro yacho ndeyechokwadi here?
• Ngano dzevakadzi vakuru uye bvunzo dzekurapa
• Tora woenda nazvo

Iwe kuda kuziva. Iwe kudiwa kuziva. Mukomana kana musikana here?

Uyu mubvunzo unokachidza kuda kuziva uko kunogona kuita kuti usarudze iwo wakakwana pendi ruvara rwecherechere unzwe seimwe mwenje mutsvuku kana iwe watononoka.

zvinoratidza kuti 75 kusvika 81 muzana yevakadzi vanoshuvira kuziva bonde remwana wavo asati aberekwa. Kunyangwe avo vakagona hunyanzvi hwekutarisa kure panguva yeTelltale ultrasound vachida kumirira kusvika pakuzvarwa kuti vawane bonde remwana kazhinji vane fungidziro yakavakirwa pamanzwiro, intuition, kana zviroto.

Kwakajairika kuzivisa kwevakadzi bvunzo kunoenda kubva kune akavimbika kusvika kune anonyatsopokana uye anosanganisira macloundound, kuongororwa kweropa, folkloric mafirosofi, fetal moyo rate, iyo Chinese kalendari chati, amai vezinyoro ruvara, kubheka soda, pamusoro-pe-the-counter vanofanotaura, uye - hezvino zvinouya - iyo mhete yechikadzi bvunzo.

Chii chinonzi mhete yechikadzi bvunzo?

Ringi ginge bvunzo ndiyo imwe yenzira dzakawanda vanhu dzavakaedza kufungidzira bonde remwana wavo asati azvarwa. Chinoita kuti bvunzo iyi ive yakasarudzika ndechekuti vhezheni imwe zvakare inoti inokwanisa kufanotaura nhamba uye bonde ra zvese vana vako ramangwana.

Bvunzo yechikadzi yechikadzi inogona kuitwa nenzira mbiri, zvese izvi zvinosanganisira kusunga tambo kuburikidza nemhete.

Unozviita sei?

Pane mavhezheni maviri ebvunzo. Ose anoshandisa zvakafanana zvinhu:

• ringi (kazhinji mhete yemuchato wamai, kana imwe rin'i yakakosha zvakafanana)
• tambo kana tambo yebvudzi
• mutori wechikamu anogona kana kusave nemimba

Shanduro yekutanga: pamusoro pemimba yemunhu ane nhumbu

Nhema kumusana kwako uye uine mumwe wako, nhengo yemhuri, kana shamwari yakaturika mhete yakamisikidzwa pamusoro peguvhu rako.

Mirira kuti ifambe yega. Pfungwa iyi ndeyekuti inofanirwa kunge ichizungunuka ichidzoka uye mberi nenzira yakatwasuka (musikana) kana denderedzwa (mukomana).

Shanduro yechipiri: pamusoro poruoko rwemubatanidzwa

Iyi vhezheni inofanirwa zvakare kukuzivisa iwe kuti uchave nevana vangani, uye inogona kuitwa pamunhu ane nhumbu kana asiri-ane pamuviri.

Isa ruoko rwako rweruboshwe panzvimbo yakati sandara. Kubata mhete yakamisikidzwa pamusoro peruoko rwako rweruboshwe, isa mhete kuti igare pamusoro pe ruoko rwako.

Wadaro, chiisimudze uye zvinyoro nyoro ringi iri pakati peimwe yeminwe yako, uchitsvaga ruoko rwako sezvaungaita paunenge uchigadzira turkey ruoko, kubva pa pinky yako kusvika pachigunwe chako. Pakarepo tarisa kumashure, chigunwe kune pinky, uchiguma pawakatanga uye uchiibata pamusoro pepakati peruoko rwako.

Iyo rin'i inofanira kutanga kutenderera ichidzoka neshure nenzira yakatwasuka (musikana), kana mudenderedzwa (mukomana). Iyi ndiyo bonde remwana wako wedangwe.

Kana bonde rako rematangwe raziviswa, isa mhete kuti igare pamusoro pe ruoko rwako zvakare. Wobva wadzokorora maitiro ekutsvaga!

Kana iyo mhete ichizungunuka mumutsara kana denderedzwa, uku ndiko kuita bonde kwemwana wako wechipiri.

Ramba uchidzokorora bvunzo kusvikira rin'i yasvika pakafa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti bvunzo yakwana, uye hapachina vacheche venguva yemberi kufanotaura.

Mhedzisiro yacho ndeyechokwadi here?

Vanhu vazhinji vachashambadzira nemufaro uyu muedzo kuti wakarurama. Vachakuudza kuti kudzokorora bvunzo iyi kwaunza fungidziro dzakafanana. Kune vanhu vazhinji vanonyatsofunga kuti ndiHarry-Potter-maitiro mashiripiti.

Zvese zvekuuka padivi, ngatiburukei kuzvokwadi.

Ichokwadi ndechekuti ngano dzechembere dzakafanirwa kufungidzira bonde remwana wako hadzina kuvimbika kupfuura kungofungidzira. Hapana humbowo hunoratidza kuti bvunzo yechikadzi yechikadzi hapana chimwe chinopfuura mutambo unonakidza.

Ngano dzevakadzi vakuru uye bvunzo dzekurapa

Sezvambotaurwa, pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvakaitwa nevanhu kufanotaura hunhu hwemwana wavo.

Vamwe vanotarisa ku fetal heart rate (inopfuura 140 bpm zvinoreva kuti musikana; asingasviki 140 bpm zvinoreva kuti mukomana), uye vamwe vanotenda chimiro kana saizi yedumbu ravo inogona kufanotaura bonde remwana. Nepo izvi zvingave zvinounza varaidzo, hapana humbowo hwekuti vanofanotaura nenzira kwayo chero chinhu.

Sezvineiwo, ongororo yechinyakare kubva muna 2001 yakawana kuti vakadzi vane nhumbu vane makore anopfuura gumi nemaviri edzidzo vari pachokwadi mukufungidzira kwavo kwevanhurume nezve 71 muzana yenguva, nepo avo vane makore mashoma ekudzidzira vari vangangoita 43 muzana chete.

Chidzidzo ichi chakacherekedza kuti vakadzi vanovakira fungidziro yavo pamanzwiro, zviroto, uye intuition vaive nemwero wepamusoro wekururamisa kupfuura vakadzi vanoita bvunzo zvichibva mungano yevakadzi vekare.

Zvakare, mumwe muvakadzi makumi mana nevatanhatu vakaona kuti vakadzi vakafanotaura nenzira kwayo vakadzi vevacheche vavo nezve makumi mashanu neshanu muzana yenguva, senge flip yemari.

Kune rimwe divi, kuyedzwa kwekurapa, kusanganisira chisingaperi villus sampling (CVS), isina-invasive prenatal test (NIPT), amniocentesis, uye ultrasound, inogona kupa ruzivo nezve bonde remwana wako asati azvarwa.

Iyi bvunzo inowanzoitirwa zvimwe zvinangwa, sekusarudza kuti mwana wako ane mamaki eDown syndrome, kuongorora nzvimbo yemwana, uye kuziva kunetseka kwekukura kwemwana, asi zvinongoitika kuti zvinoratidzira bonde remwana.

Tora woenda nazvo

Kunyangwe pasina humbowo hwekuti bvunzo yechikadzi inoshanda, hazvikuvadze kutsemura tambo yebvudzi kubva mumusoro wako, shinda mhete, uye kurota. Hazvina mhosva kuti mugumisiro weiyi "bvunzo" unoratidzei, iwe uchazosangana nemwana wako wenguva yemberi uye nekuziva zvechokwadi munguva pfupi.

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