Kuverenga 'Mabhuku Akasviba' Kunogona Kukupa Iwe Zvimwe Zvekuita?

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• Mira, chii chaizvo chinyadzo mabhuku?
• Commons maitiro erotica
  
• 3 ngano pamusoro peerotica
• Nhema 1: Vakadzi vanofarira erotica kupfuura varume
• Nhema 2: Erotica inokuvadza hukama
• Nhema 3: Vaverengi vanozoda kuedzesera nyaya dzavanofarira dzekunze
• Yako erotica starter kit
• Kutanga ne raibhurari yako erotica

Isu tinosanganisira zvigadzirwa zvatinofunga zvinobatsira kuvaverengi vedu. Kana iwe ukatenga kuburikidza nehukama pane ino peji, isu tinogona kuwana diki komisheni. Heano maitiro edu.

Kushaikwa kwekusangana pabonde uye chishuwo ndiko kunyunyuta kunowanzoitika kwevakadzi muhofisi yechiremba. Uye kunyangwe mushure mepiritsi rekutanga re "mukadzi Viagra" raputika makore maviri apfuura, vakadzi vachiri kutsvaga nzira dzakakundikana, dzakasainwa nesainzi dzekuwedzera yavo libido uye mufaro - kungave kutamba wega kana nemumwe.

Nepo vamwe vachiti echisikigo aphrodisiacs senge chokoreti uye maoysters ane maitiro kune avo pabonde mahormone mazinga uye yekurara maitiro, hapana hwakawanda hwakasimba humbowo hwekuti ivo vanoita dent mune yako zuva nezuva-zuva bonde dhiraivha. Asi ongororo ichangoburwa yakaratidza kuti kunwa sexy mabhuku kunogona kubatsira zvese kubva ku libido rako kusvika kusimba reyegasm yako.

Chidzidzo che2016, icho chakaburitswa mumagazini Bonde uye Ukama Therapy, chakanyora kushanda pabonde kwevakadzi makumi maviri neshanu kwemavhiki matanhatu. Hafu verenga mabhuku ekuzvibatsira, uye imwe hafu verenga fungidziro inokanganisa. Mhedzisiro yacho? Mapoka ese ari maviri akaita zvakaenzana, zvakaenzana zvakakosha kuwana kana zvasvika kune:

• kuda bonde
• kumutsa zvepabonde
• lubrication
• kugutsikana
• orgasms
• kurwadziwa kunoderedza
• kushanda pabonde kwese

"Bibliotherapy," sekudanwa kwayakaitwa neichi chidzidzo, haina kumbonzwika seinonakidza uye inopa mubayiro.

Mira, chii chaizvo chinyadzo mabhuku?

Kazhinji, erotica inotsanangurwa sechero mhando yehunyanzvi iyo inokonzereswa kukonzera kufunga kwepabonde kana kumutsa. Pane musiyano mudiki pakati peerotica uye pachena ol 'zvinonyadzisira: Erotica inoonekwa seunyanzvi hune hukama hwepabonde, nepo zvinonyadzisira zvichionekwa semazwi nemifananidzo izvo zvinongowanikwa zvekunakidza pabonde, pasina hunyanzvi hwakawanda hwekupa.

Nhasi, izwi rekuti erotica rinowanzo shandiswa chaizvo kutsanangura mazwi akanyorwa anomutsa nekufadza.

Commons maitiro erotica

• ngano, kubva panhau pfupi kusvika kumanoveli
• zvinyorwa zvisiri zvekufungidzira uye kudzokororwa kwezviitiko zvechokwadi
• nyaya dzerudo
• fan yekunyepedzera
• Zvemukati mewebhu uye e-mabhuku

3 ngano pamusoro peerotica

Iko kune akati wandei ekufunga zvisirizvo zvakakomberedza erotica. Dzimwe dzengano idzi mhedzisiro yemapoka asina bonde anovavarira kunyadzisa nekudzora vakadzi. Zvimwe zvinongobva mukufungidzira uye kusanzwisiswa. Ngatitarisei pane makuru uye akajairika matatu.

Nhema 1: Vakadzi vanofarira erotica kupfuura varume

Icho chiyeuchidzo chakakura chekuti varume vanosarudza mifananidzo inoonekwa yebonde (zvinonyadzisira), nepo vakadzi vachisarudza kuverenga "bodice-rippers" nekuda kwekunyarara kwavo, zvakanyanya cerebral sex drive. Zvizhinji zvezvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuti varume vanoenzaniswazve neshoko rakanyorwa sevakadzi, uye kuti vakadzi vanoshandisa zvinoonekwa zvakanyanya kupfuura zvaunogona kufunga. Uye kumashure muna 1966, Masters naJohnson vakaona kuti huwandu hwepanyama hwekuita bonde mune varume nevakadzi hwakafanana chaizvo.

Nhema 2: Erotica inokuvadza hukama

Mamwe mapoka anofarira kuyambira kuti erotica inokonzeresa vadyidzani kuti vatizire kufantasyland iyo inoshatisa chero tariro yekuti vanogona kumutswa newavo anomhanyisa-mukwikwidzi mubhedha ravo rekumhanya.

Asi zvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuti kuverenga erotica kunoita kuti iwe ugone kuwana pakati pemashiti nemumwe wako kana kuzvifadza iwe mumaawa makumi maviri nemana mushure mekuverenga. Uyezve, chidzidzo chekutanga chatambotaura pamusoro apa chinoratidza kuti erotica inogona kuwedzera zvakanyanya hutachiwana hwepabonde uye kunakidzwa kwepabonde kwemukadzi ari kuiverenga.

Nhema 3: Vaverengi vanozoda kuedzesera nyaya dzavanofarira dzekunze

Vatsva vekutsvaga vanogona kunetseka kuti vanovhurwa neBDSM inoratidzwa mu "Makumi mashanu eShadha yeGrey" kana nehukama hweungochani kana vasina kumbonzwa kukwezva-kwehumwe-bonde. Asi Linda Garnets, PhD, muongorori paYunivhesiti yeCalifornia kuLos Angeles, anogona kuisa kunetseka kwako kuzorora. Anoti hunhu hwedu hwakasarudzika semasaini ezvigunwe, uye kuti hunhu hwedu hwepabonde, zvinokwezva pabonde, uye fungidziro dzebonde hadzifanirwe kunge dzakabatana pamwechete musoni (uye zvakare dzinogona kuchinja nekufamba kwenguva).

Semuenzaniso, zvakajairika kutenderedzwa neyakaipisa bonde-bonde kunyangwe iwe usinga zive seengochani, kana nechero fungidziro iwe yaunogona kufunga nezvayo. Izvo zvinonyatso gadzirisa chakavanzika chekuti nei mamwe eakakurumbira erotica zvirongwa zvisingapedzisi zvichiratidzwa muhupenyu chaihwo - ivo vari kungopisa kuverenga nezve uye kufunga nezvazvo, hapana chimwezve.

Ehezve, erotica inogona zvakare kukupa iwe mazano ekunakidzwa, zvinhu zvitsva zvekuyedza mukamuri yekurara, kubva kunzvimbo nyowani kusvika pakuita-kutamba.

Yako erotica starter kit

Kana iwe uchifarira kutsvaga erotica, kutanga kunogona kuve kwakanyanya. Sekureva kwechitoro chevakuru Adam & Eve, iyo yerudo uye erotica genres inoita $ 1.44 bhiriyoni gore rega. Uye pane zvakawanda zvekusarudza kubva.

Heano matipi mashoma ekudonha mu:

• Tsvaga zvaunoda. Zvinogona kuve zvakaoma kuziva kuti chii chinokutenderedza kusvika iwe waverenga. Imwe nzvimbo huru yekutanga ndeye anthology ine yakafara nzira yekunyora masitayera, zviitiko, uye vanyori. Imwe nzira ndeyekutarisa e-mabhuku kuAmazon. Mazhinji acho anopa sneak peak yemapeji mashoma emahara.
• Edza kuverenga kweumwe-ruoko. Iko hakuna nzira isiriyo yekuverenga eerotica. Vamwe vanhu vanofarira kuinakidzwa senge chero rimwe bhuku vobva vafunga nezvayo gare gare, vachiri nemumwe wako kana kuita bonhora. Vamwe vanoishandisa zvakananga sechishandiso muimba yekurara. Tsvaga zvakakunakira iwe.
• Edza kubatanidza mumwe wako. Kungofanana nekuona zvinonyadzisira, erotica haisi yekungotamba wega. Unogona kuedza kuverenga zvinonzwika kune mumwe wako, kana kuti vakuverengere. Kana iwe unogona kukumbira mumwe wako kuti averenge nyaya uye wozozviita pamwe newe.
• Edza kunyora mapeji mashoma iwe pachako. Erotica haisi yekuverenga chete. Mamirioni evakadzi nevarume vanofarira kuinyora zvakatowandisa (kana kupfuura) ivo vanofarira kuiverenga. Nyora nyaya iwe pachako, edza ruoko rwako pane fan fan, kana kunyange funga kuzvishambadzira-rako basa.

Kutanga ne raibhurari yako erotica

Heano mashoma mabhuku uye mawebhusaiti kuti utange, kubva kune zvekare kusvika kune anthologies:

• "The Sexy Librarian's Big Book of Erotica," rakagadziriswa naRose Caraway. Iyi anthology ine zvishoma zvishoma zvemhando dzakasiyana, kubva kune zvinotyisa kuenda kune zverudo kusvika sci-fi, zvese nekutungamira manzwi munyika yekunyora kusevha.
• "Delta yeVenus," naAnaïs Nin. Ichi chidimbu chechinyakare erotica inogona kunge yakanyorwa makumi emakore apfuura, asi ichiri senge kupisa sezvayakamboita. Iyi sarudzo huru yekunyora kune mumwe munhu anofarira zvekupenga zviitiko.
• "Iyo Crossfire Series," naSylvia Day. Iyi yemazuva ano erotica / yerudo akateedzana anotevera vaviri kuburikidza nehukama hwavo hunopisa, kunyangwe mutambo uye akaviga madhimoni.
• Vakuru fan fan. Mawebhusaiti akazara neyemahara fan fikisi muzviuru zvemafomu, kubva "Harry Potter" kusvika "L.A. Mutemo. ” Pane zvakawanda zvekutanga zvekunyora kunze uko, pamwe nemikana yekuyedza kunyora eotica iwe pachako.

Paunenge iwe watanga, iwe unogona zvakare kutevera mabhuku uye akarongedzwa zvinyorwa paGoodreads kuti uwane nyaya dzenyaya dzaunofarira. Erotica inogona kuwana fomula pane dzimwe nguva, asi kugona kutarisira iwo ma-turn-ons anouya nenzira yako zvakare ndeimwe yemakomborero mazhinji eunyanzvi.