Nei Kukakavadzana Pamusoro peiyo U.S. Vakadzi Nhabvu Chikwata Chekukunda Mhemberero Ndiyo Yakazara BS

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Handisi mutsigiri wenhabvu mukuru. Ndine ruremekedzo rukuru kune hupengo huwandu hwekudzidzira hunodiwa nemutambo, asi kutarisa mutambo hakuiti chaizvo kwandiri. Asi, pandakanzwa nezvekukakavadzana kwakanangana nemhemberero dzechikwata cheU.SA cheNational Soccer panguva yemutambo wavo wekutanga weFIFA Women's World Cup neThailand, kufarira kwangu kwakakwira.

ICYMI, timu yakaita mafungu neayo 13-0 kukunda. Ndiro raive timu rekutanga (varume kana vakadzi) kunwisa zvibodzwa gumi nezvitatu mumutambo weWorld Cup, vachigadzira nhoroondo nemahombe mahombe, sekureva Iyo New York Times. Asi handizvo chete zvibodzwa zvaiita kuti minhenga—ndiyo nzira yavaikunda nayo, zvakare. Vatambi vacho vaifara nechinangwa chega chega, vachipemberera pamwe chete bhora parakarova mambure zvichikonzera vatsoropodzi vazhinji (ahem, vanovenga) kuzvidza maitiro avo, vachizviti hazvina hunhu.

"Kwandiri, kusaremekedza," akadaro aimbove mutambi wenhabvu weCanada uye muongorori weTSN World Cup, Kaylyn Kyle mushure memutambo. "Hats kuThailand nekusimudza musoro wavo kumusoro." Kyle akatiwo kunyange hazvo Mukombe wePasirose uriyo nzvimbo yekutora nzira yekutora-vasina-musungwa yekukwikwidza, timu yeUS yaifanira kunge yakamisa mhemberero dzavo dzerudo kana vasvika 8-0. (Zvakabatana: Alex Morgan Anoda Kutamba SeMusikana)

Hazvina maturo kutaura, izvi zvinogaya magiya angu.

Kutanga, seaimbova mutambi, Kyle wevanhu vose anoziva nezvekushanda nesimba uye kuzvipira kunodiwa kune mutambi wepro kuti asvike kumusoro kwemakwikwi. Izvi zvega zvakakoshera kukudzwa uye kutenderwa kunyangwe ukasamboita kuti ipfuure round rekutanga. Chechipiri, zhinji timu yeVakadzi yeU.SA ine chekuita nemhosva yeruzhinji inopokana neUS Soccer Federation nekuda kwekusarurwa kwevanhukadzi, ichinyanya kutarisa mutsauko wakakura mukubhadhara zvikwata zvevarume nevakadzi.

Chinangwa chega chega chaive chimwe chichemo chekukosha kwavo nekukodzera kusangano iro rakasvibisa kugona kwavo, zvisinei nenzvimbo dzepamusoro uye menduru dzeOlympic. Uye pamwe, chii chinowedzera kutuka mukukuvara, timu yenyika yevakadzi yanga iri misoro nemapfudzi pamusoro pevamwe vavo vechirume. Sekureva kwaVox, nhengo dzechikwata chevakadzi dzinogona kuita zvikamu makumi mana kubva muzana zvezvinowanikwa nevatambi vechirume - ivo vanowanzo dhonza mari inosvika zviuru zvitatu nemazana matanhatu emadhora pamutambo kana zvichienzaniswa nevatambi vechirume vanotambira mari inosvika zviuru zvishanu zvemadhora. Muna 2015, Vox inoshuma, timu yevakadzi vekuUS yakapihwa $1.7 miriyoni yekuhwina mukombe weWorld Cup-chikwata chevarume vekuUS chakawana bhonasi yemadhora miriyoni mashanu-mushure mekukundwa mumutambo wechigumi nenhanhatu we2014 World Cup.

Asi, chii chinonyanya kunditsamwisa: Ndeupi rudzi rwemeseji urwo kutuka kwemhemberero uye iyo US Soccer Federation's dysmorphic pay inotumira kuchizvarwa chinotevera chevamhanyi vechikadzi? Kana chaizvo, vasikana vanofarira chero chinhu, kungave kuri kupenda, fizikiki, kana bhizinesi?

"Zvakanaka kuva mutambi wehunyanzvi uye unzwe kuzadzikiswa, asi panguva imwe chete, ndeipi nhaka yaunoda kusiya?" akadaro Alex Morgan, mumwe weenyeredzi dzechikwata chenhabvu chevakadzi chenyika yeU.S., ku Iyo New York Times. Morgan akarova zvibodzwa zvishanu pagumi nematatu zvinopesana neThailand. "Ndaive nechiroto chekuva mutambi wenhabvu ane hunyanzvi, uye handina kumboziva kuti zvinosanganisira kuve muenzaniso, kurudziro, kumiririra zvinhu zvandinotenda, kumiririra kuenzana kwevakadzi."

Mumitambo, mubhodhi mukamuri, kana mukirasi, vasikana- nevashoma - vakaudzwa kuti vazviite vadiki kuitira kuti vabvumidze vamwe (kureva, vakomana vachena nevarume) kuti vanzwe kugona uye kukura. Kupa vamwe nzvimbo yekuvandudza kwega uye kukura, nepo vachikanganisa avo vega mukuita. Mhosva uye zvishuwo zvechikwata zvisina tsarukano zvinotumira meseji inokanganisa chimiro chinotanga apo vasikana, vakadzi, uye vashoma vanotanga- uye kazhinji, vachitamba mutambo wese - zvisina kunaka. Kana isu tichiedza kuunza kutarisa kune chero kupi kwekusaenzana uku, tinogadziriswa kuburikidza nekunyadzisa, kushoropodza, kana kunyangwe chisimba mune zvakaipisisa zviitiko. Kunyangwe Kyle anonzi akatyisidzirwa nerufu mushure mekutaura kwake pamusoro pemaitiro echikwata cheU.S. (Yakabatana: Vanokanganisa Vari Kutsigira Sarudzo yaNike yekuisa Yakawedzera-Saizi Mannequins Mushure mekudzokera shure)

Seye "wekare" Millennial, echinyakare echikadzi basa rezvidzidzo akasimbiswa muchikoro. Ini ndakadzidza kuti kuve mukadzi zvinoda kuramba wakanyarara, kuzvininipisa, uye demure: yambuka makumbo ako, usashevedze, uye udzikise hunyanzvi hwako. Zvichakadaro, mune dzakawanda zviitiko, vasikana vaitevera mitemo uye vachisimudza maoko avo vakamirira kuti vagovane mhinduro dzavo vakafukidzirwa nevakomana vane mutsindo avo vakadzvinyirira nekukanganisa kirasi.

Neraki, kumba, vabereki vangu vakarumbidza matarenda ayo ini nasisi vangu (tenzi wake, kushambira ini) nekusimudzira kukura munzvimbo dzaive dzakaomarara. Taigara tichiudzwa kuti zvakanaka kuve nehunyanzvi pane chimwe chinhu uye kwete kunaka pane chimwe. Kuti hatina kungotsanangurwa nesimba redu chete asi kazhinji kazhinji kwete, hutera hwedu- uye nemabatiro atinoita kukundikana. Isu takarererwa kuzorota hombe uye vabereki vangu vakakotama vachidzokera kumashure kuyedza kuita kuti zviroto zvikuru zviitike. (Ndatenda nekundirovera ini kune eselll iyo yekushambira maitiro, kunyanya mune vakafa yechando, vakomana).

Iyi haisi ropafadzo musikana wese ane. Kunze kwechikoro uye mhuri dziri pedyo, nzanga hombe inoshanda semubereki amorphous izvo zvakaoma kupinha pasi, asi zviri pese pese zvakadaro. Isu tinodzidziswa netsika dzedu, kunyanya nevezvenhau, uye kunyanya ikozvino. Vazhinji varikugadzirira kufukidza shasha yemutambo wavanoda kungonzwa kuti haufanire kupemberera zvinangwa zvako mushure mekurova imwe nhamba. Dudziro: Nyamudza zvishuwo zvako uye hunyanzvi hwako kuti utevedzere chiyero chemadzitateguru cheizvo mukadzi anofanira kubvumidzwa kuita. Spoiler yambiro: Vakadzi vane tarenda rakanyanya uye inguva yekumira kukumbira ruregerero nezvayo. Chero chinhu chaunogona kuita, ini ndinogona kuita ndichibuda ropa.

Sekureva kweBleacher Report, Jill Ellis, murairidzi wenhabvu wevakadzi vekuAmerica, akataura muchidimbu, "Kana iyi yanga iri 10-0 muWorld Cup yevarume, tiri kuwana mibvunzo yakafanana here?"

Kupupurira mukadzi achibudirira uye kunakidzwa neicho chakawanikwa zvakaoma-kusagadzikana, kune vazhinji. Iyo yakashata uye isinganetsi- haina kukodzera mubhokisi rakagara ratemerwa. Inonzwa kunge hunhu hwechirume. Kutenda kune vechikadzi nevanodzivirira avo vakagadzira nzira, tinonzwa kunge tingave chero chinhu chatinoda, asi nzanga inodzokera kumashure, ichitiudza zvinangwa zvedu zvinofanirwa kuchengetwa mukati mekufunga. Unogona kutsemura siringi yegirazi, asi hauputse. Ehezve, pane zvisipo kumutemo, uye nekutenda kunaka kwavo. Pamusoro paMorgan nevamwe vaaishanda navo, Cardi B, Serena Williams, Simone Biles, naAmy Schumer pakati pevamwe vakaratidza kuti nekukasira uye kutyaira, unogona kuzadzisa chiroto chako- uye kumhanya nhanho yekukunda kana wangoita.

Asi kunyangwe paine iyi mienzaniso inokurudzira, kuchine huwandu hwakawanda hwezvinhu zvinokwevera vamwe vakadzi pasi.

Pakave nezvakawanda kutenderera zvine chekuita nevakadzi uye nebasa ravo mumitambo nguva pfupi yadarika. Olympian nevese-vakatenderedza badass Alysia Montaño akanyora op-ed yeNew York Times, achiputika mabatiro anoita mamwe mabhureki eshangu (kana chaizvo, haabatike) zororo rekuzvara kwevatambi vavo vechikadzi, zvichiita kuti nguva zhinji vakwikwidze panguva yavo yese. nhumbu uye kudzoka kunodzidziswa pamberi pane zvinokurudzirwa navanachiremba.

Uyezve, International Association of Athletics Federation (IAAF yakanzi top track and field organisation) yakaedza kurambidza shasha yekumhanya, Caster Semenya kukwikwidza kunze kwekunge atora mahormone ekudzikisa chiyero chake che testosterone. Ndiani akaisa muyero weakakodzera matunhu e testosterone mumitambo yevakadzi? Izvo hazvinganzi izvo mukana kana "chipo" chevatambi vechirume? (Yakabatana: Aly Raisman Anogovana Tsamba Yaakange Asina Kubvumidzwa Kuverenga paKutongwa kwaLarry Nassar)

Izvi zvinodzokera kumhemberero dzechikwata chenhabvu chevakadzi cheU.S.- uye pakupedzisira, zvakataurwa naKyle. Haasi iye zvake ane mhosva, hongu-Kyle ane kodzero kune yake maonero. Kana paine, tinoda dzimwe hurukuro dzakatenderedza misoro iyi kuti tiongorore chokwadi chiripo uye shanduko yemoto.

Mubvunzo wangu ndouyu: Kyle akadzidza kupi kuti "hunhu hwakanaka" hunoda kuwira mune rimwe bhaketi? Iye, sevamwe vakadzi vazhinji, akabata iwo mameseji mamwechete akazadza psyche yedu yekuziva yevakadzi kubva pakutanga kwehupenyu. Kana iwe ukadzidziswa kutenda kuti kubudirira kwedu kunogona kusvika chete kusvika zvino – uye mhemberero dzako dzadzo dzinogona kuratidzwa nenzira imwe chete - iwe pakupedzisira uchapfupisa hunyanzvi hwako, zvaunotarisira, uye kukanganisa maonero ako evaya vanopokana nazvo. IMO, zvaakataura zvine mweya wehupenyu hwese wekudzidziswa kuti pane nzira yakasungirirwa yenjiva yekunzwa kudada nezvako.

Zvidzidzo zviri shure kwekuita zvemitambo zvakakosha. Iwe unodzidza kuhwina uye kurasikirwa nenyasha uye kuombera muvengi wako zvisinei nemhedzisiro yemutambo. Morgan akaita izvo chaizvo. Mushure mekuita kwake kunoshamisa, akanyaradza mutambi weThai pakupera kwemutambo. Dzimwe nhengo dzechikwata chenyika cheU.S. dzakakorokotedza vatambi veThai.

Inguva inonakidza kuve mukadzi. Pakupedzisira tave kuwana tarisiro yakafanira nokuda kwekupa kwedu kukuru kunharaunda, uye nekuedza kusingaonekwe kwatinoita pasina rukudzo kana rukudzo. Kunyangwe timu yeUS Women's National Soccer timu yaida kuve mienzaniso, vari kuita rakanakisa basa rakanaka IMHO. Rambai makadaro madzimai, ndinenge ndichikufarirai!

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