Nei Ndisingazofi Ndakanwa Piritsi Zvakare

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Ndakawana tsamba yangu yekutanga yekudzivirira kubereka pazera remakore 22. Kwemakore manomwe andaive paPiritsi, ndakaida. Zvakaita kuti ganda rangu rive rakajeka, nguva dzangu dzenguva dzose, dzakaita kuti ndisave nePMS, uye ndaigona kusvetuka nguva pese pazvaienderana nezororo kana chiitiko chakakosha. Uye zvechokwadi, zvaitadzisa kubata nhumbu.

Asi zvino, pazera ramakore 29, ini nemurume wangu takasarudza kutanga mhuri. Semunyori anonyanya kugadzirisa hutano hwevakadzi, ndakafunga kuti ndaive nechinhu ichi pasi: Sungira Piritsi, pinda wakabatikana nguva isati yasvika uye panguva yekuzvimba, uye zvaizoitika pasina nguva. Kunze kwekuti hazvina kudaro. Ndakatora Piritsi rangu rekupedzisira munaGumiguru 2013. Uye ipapo ndakamirira. Pakanga pasina zviratidzo zveovulation-pasina tembiricha dip kana spike, hapana ovulation predictor kit smiley face, hapana zai jena cervical mucus, hapana mittelschmerz (kurovera padivi apo ovary inoburitsa zai). Zvakadaro, takaipa pfuti yedu yepamoyo.

Nezuva makumi maviri nemasere-kureba kweyakajairika nguva yekutevera - nguva yangu payakange isingaratidze, ndakafunga zvechokwadi kuti taive isu vanhu vane rombo rakanaka vakaita nhumbu pakuedza kwavo kwekutanga. Imwe isina kunaka nhumbu bvunzo mushure meimwe, zvisinei, yakasimbisa iyi yakanga isiri iyo nyaya. Pakupedzisira, mazuva makumi mana mushure mekupedzisira kwePiritsi-inosimudzira kutenderera, ndakawana nguva yangu. Ndakafara (isu taigona kuyedza zvekare mwedzi uno!) Uye ndakaparadzwa (ini ndakanga ndisina pamuviri;

Iyi nhevedzano yezviitiko yakadzokororwa yadzokororwazve nematanho eanosiyana makumi mana-uyezve kureba kwezuva. Pakazopera January, ndakashanyira chiremba wangu wevakadzi. Ndipo paakadonhedza bhomba iri pamwoyo wangu waive nefivha mucheche: Mafambiro angu marefu aireva kuti pamwe ndakanga ndisiri kubuda ovulation uye kunyangwe dai ndaiva, iro zai rezai ringave risiri rakanaka zvekuti rigone kuberekeswa panguva yarakatiza ovary yangu. Muchidimbu, isu pamwe hatingakwanise kutora nhumbu pasina kurapwa. Ndakamusiya muhofisi yake aine mushonga weprogesterone kuti akonzerese kutenderera, tsamba yeClomid kuti iite ovulation, uye hope dzakaparara. Asingasviki mwedzi mina mukuyedza, takanga tave kutorapwa kushaya mbereko.

Kwemwedzi mitatu yakatevera, pose pandakamedza rimwe remapiritsi iwayo, pfungwa iyi yakandidya: “Dai ndisina kumbonwa Piritsi racho kana kuti dai ndakarega kurinwa kwenguva refu ndisati ndaedza kuva nepamuviri, ndingadai ndakava nemamwe mashoko. nezvemafambiro angu. Ndaizoziva kuti chii chaiitika kwandiri." Pane kudaro, mwedzi wega wega waive mutambo wekufungidzira. Izvo zvisingazivikanwe zvaingozivikanwa nekuti ini ndakatora Piritsi. Kwemakore manomwe, Piritsi rakabvuta mahormone angu uye ndokuvhara ovulation saka ndakabviswa zvachose kubva pamabatiro aiita muviri wangu.

Semunyori wezvehutano, ndaisakwanisa kubatsira asi kubvunza Dr.Google, aigara akatsimbirirwa pamusoro pe iPhone yangu pakati pehusiku pandakatadza kurara. Ini ndaida kuziva kuti marefu angu mairi aive angu "akajairika" kana mhedzisiro yekubva paPiritsi. Kunyangwe kutsvagisa kuchiratidzika kunge kuchisimbisa kuti kunyangwe kushandisa kwenguva refu kwekudzivirira kubata pamuviri hakukuvadze kubereka, zvidzidzo zvakati wandei zvinoratidza kuti munguva pfupi, zvingave zvakaoma kubata pamuviri. Chimwe chidzidzo chakawana kuti mwedzi gumi nemiviri mushure mekumisa nzira yekudzivirira (semakondomu) 54 muzana yevakadzi vakabereka vachienzaniswa ne32 muzana yevakadzi vakarega kutora Piritsi. Uye, vakadzi vakamboshandisa nzira dzekudzivirira nemuromo kwemakore maviri kana anopfuura vasati vaedza kubata pamuviri vakatora avhareji yemwedzi ingangoita mipfumbamwe kubata pamuviri zvichienzaniswa nemwedzi mitatu, paavhareji, kuvakadzi vakamboshandisa makondomu, vaongorori vekuU.

Neraki, nyaya yedu ine magumo anofadza. Kana, sekuda kwangu kutaura, kutanga kunofadza. Ndine pamuviri pevhiki gumi nesere uye ndinofanirwa munaKurume. Mushure memwedzi mitatu isina kubudirira yaComomid nekurara nenguva uye mwedzi mumwe wejekiseni reFollistim neOvidrel mudumbu mangu uye kumashure-kumashure kwakakundikana IUI (insemination yekuisira), takatora chirimo nezhizha kubva pakurapwa. Uyu Chikumi, kumwe pakati peGeneva neMilan ndiri pazororo, ndakabata pamuviri. Yakanga iri panguva yeimwe super-refu kutenderera. Asi, nenzira inoshamisa, ndakabudisa mazai uye mwana wedu muduku akaitwa.

Kunyangwe iye kana iye asiri kana pano, ini ndatoziva masiyano atichaita nezve kuita kwekuita kwevana nguva inotevera kutenderera. Chinonyanya kukosha, handimbofi ndakatora Piritsi-kana chero rudzi rwehomoni yekudzivirira kubata-zvakare. Ini handisati ndaziva kuti nei maekisheni angu aive akareba kudaro (vanachiremba vakabvisa mamiriro akaita sePCOS), asi kunyangwe zvaive nekuda kwePiritsi kana kwete, ini ndoda kuziva kuti muviri wangu unoshanda wega wega kuti ndigadzirire zvirinani. Uye iyo mwedzi yekurapa? Kunyangwe dzaingova kuravira chete zvichienzaniswa neizvo vanhu vazhinji vane kushaya mbereko vanotsungirira, ivo vaidya mumuviri uye nemupfungwa uye zvinodhura zvakanyanya. Zvakaipa, ndine chokwadi chekuti vaive vasingakodzeri.

Kwemakore manomwe andakatora Piritsi, ndaida kuti raindipa simba pamusoro pemuviri wangu. Ini zvino ndave kuziva kwemakore manomwe, ndakabvumira makemikari ari muPiritsi kudzora muviri wangu. Mwedzi mishanu kubva ikozvino pandakabata chishamiso chedu chidiki mumaoko angu, hupenyu hwedu huchachinja-kusanganisira asingaverengeke marwendo kuenda kuChivaviso chatichatora. Ikoko, ndichachengeta manapukeni, zvipukupu, machira anoputika, uye, kubva zvino zvichienda mberi, makondomu.

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