"Kubata Pamuviri" Chaicho-uye Icho Chinhu Chakanaka

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Unoshamisika kuti amai vako vanongoita kunge vanoziva sei paunenge uine zuva rakaipa uye uchiziva chinhu chakakwana kutaura kuti iwe unzwe zvirinani? Zvakanaka, iwe unogona kuve nemhosva yekuverenga kwake kwepfungwa simba-kana kuti nhumbu yake newe yaive. Kubata kunoshandura chimiro chemuviri chehuropi hwemukadzi, kuchiita kuti ave nani pane hunyanzvi hunodiwa pakuva amai, sekureva kwechidzidzo chitsva chakaburitswa mu Zvisikwa

Vatsvagiri vakatevera vakadzi makumi maviri neshanu, vachiongorora hura hwavo vasati vabata, mushure mekunge mwana azvarwa, uyezvezve makore maviri gare gare. Vakaona kuti grey yevakadzi-chikamu cheuropi chinodzora manzwiro uye ndangariro pakati pezvimwe zvinhu-chakaderedzwa zvakanyanya panguva yekuzvitakura uye chakaramba chiri chidiki kunyange makore maviri gare gare. Vakagumisa kuti mwero wakakwira wemimba yekuzvitakura wakadzora hura hwevakadzi hwehuropi, zvichichinja hura hwevakadzi zvachose.

Yep, "nhumbu yepamuviri," chinhu icho vakadzi vanotaura vachiseka vanoita kuti vakanganwe uye kuchema, ichokwadi chesainzi. Asi nepo kushomeka kwehuropi uye kutadza kuichengeta pamwe chete panguva inonakidza yekushambadzira manapukeni ingangonzwika sechinhu chakaipa, shanduko idzi dzinowanzoitika uye dzinogona kuita chinangwa chakakosha kumadzimai, anodaro Elseline Hoekzema, mukuru wezveuropiology kuLeiden University muNetherlands, uyo akatungamira kudzidza kuUniversitat Autonoma de Barcelona kuSpain.

Shanduko idzi dzinobvumira huropi kuti huwedzere kutariswa uye kuve nehunyanzvi, zvichida kugadzirira mukadzi kune mamwe mabasa ehuamai, Hoekzema anotsanangura. (Ndiyo muitiro mumwe chetewo unoitika mukati mokuyaruka, anowedzera kudaro, achibvumira uropi kuti huve nyanzvi muunyanzvi hwavakuru.) Unyanzvi hupi hwaunorodza mukati memimba? Zvinhu zvakadai sekukwanisa kunzwisisa zviri nani zvinonzwa vamwe uye kutarisira zviri nani zvavanoda-unyanzvi hwakakosha kune chero amai vatsva (kana vakuru).

"Izvi zvinogona kuratidza sekuvandudza mukugona kwaamai kuziva zvinodiwa nemwana wavo kana kugona kwavo kuona kutyisidzirwa munharaunda," anodaro Hoekzema.

Uye nepo Hoekzema achisimbisa kuti vatsvakurudzi havagoni kutora mhedziso dzakananga pamusoro pekuti izvi zvinoshandura sei maitiro, kuchekerera uku nekurodza kwaizonyatsotsanangura zvakawanda pamusoro pekuzvitakura, se "pfungwa yekugara" iyo inotora pfungwa dzemukadzi ane pamuviri panguva yekupedzisira kwake. nhumbu. Saka kana paine munhu arikubvunza kuti sei uchifunga pamusoro pekuti ndeipi crib ndiyo yakachengeteka kana kutsvaga akakwana rosi goridhe accent marambi ekireshi, unogona kungovaudza kuti uri kutarisira zvirinani zvinodiwa neMwana.

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