Heino Chikonzero Tose Takatariswa Zvikuru naMeghan Markle

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Muchato wehumambo, umo Meghan Markle acharoora Prince Harry (kana iwe wanga usingazive!), Kwasara mazuva matatu. Asi TBH, vanhu vakaroora vanonzwa kunge muchato weshamwari yedu yepamwoyo pane chiitiko chepasi rese - kwemwedzi, nyika yanga ichingofunga nezvese zvese, ichiita fungidziro dzesango uye kubvunzurudza zvakapfuura izvo mutambi akapa kune ese runako uye kugwinya matipi aakambopa. (Kana iwe uchida kuziva, heino mashandiro ari kuita Meghan Markle pamberi pemuchato wehumambo).

Asi ndizvo kwete muchato weshamwari yako yepamoyo mushure mezvose-saka sei uchiri kubatikana zvakanyanya?

Zvakanaka, nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinoitumidza "celebrity worship syndrome" uye maererano nekutsvakurudza, hazvisi zvose zvisingawanzoitiki. Mune chidzidzo chakaburitswa mu British Zvinyorwa zvePsychology, vaongorori vakaronga kunamatwa kwevanhu vakakurumbira pamutambo. Pamazinga akaderera, anosanganisira maitiro ako ekutanga ekuverenga nezvemukurumbira, kupuruzira kuburikidza neIG yavo yekudya, kana kuvatarisa (kana muchato wavo) paTV. Asi pamatanho epamusoro, kunamatwa kwevakakurumbira kunotora hunhu hwemunhu-unotarisisa pamusoro pehupenyu hwavo uye uzvibatanidze nemukurumbira. Unogutsikana nekubudirira kwavo uye nekukuvadzwa nekutadza kweceleb sekunge kwaive kwako. Panyaya yaMeghan Markle, zvinoita sekunge nyika yese ine nyaya yakakomba yevakakurumbira vanonamata chirwere.

Sekureva kwevanodzidza nezvepfungwa, kusanganisa kwedu kusanganisa kungangoitika nekuda kwezvinhu zvishoma. "Anomiririra fungidziro yekuti vanhu vazhinji vanofanirwa kukukurwa nePrince Charming," anotsanangura kudaro Brandy Engler, Psy.D., murapi wevakaroora muLA. Varapi vanowanzopedza nguva yakawanda vachibatsira iwe kurega izvo zvisina musoro fungidziro kuitira kuti iwe ugone kuona mumwe wako semunhu chaiye- kwete semhinduro yemashiripiti kune zvese zvinokunetsa uye kusagadzikana, anodaro. "Panyaya iyi, Megan Markle anowana kuzadzikiswa kwekuda [kweye Prince Charming fantasy] uye isu tese tinosvika kuzvipupurira nekugara zvakasarudzika," anodaro Engler.

Icho chokwadi chekuti Meghan Markle chinoratidzika semumwe munhu waunombove ushamwari naye pamwe chinowedzera kuchinhu ichi. "Meghan haana kuzvarirwa muupfumi kana rombo rakanaka," anotsanangura kudaro Rebecca Hendrix, chiremba wepfungwa akazara muNew York. "Ndiye muenzaniso wekurota kweAmerica mukuti akashanda achipesana nemamiriro ezvinhu erudzi, murume kana mukadzi uye hupfumi kuti abudirire." Ane basa rinobudirira, rekodhi yekukurudzira kusimudzirwa kwevakadzi uye nyaya dzehutano hwevakadzi pasi rese. Uye anopfeka shangu dzinotyisa, dzinodhura. (Ona: Ndekupi Kwokutenga Meghan Markle Anodikanwa White Sneakers) "Ndiani asingamudzire iye?" Anobvunza Hendrix. Mupfungwa dzako, kuburitsa midzi kune mumwe munhu ane hunhu uhwu kunogona kunzwa kunge uri kunyatsozvitemera wega, anodaro.

Chekupedzisira, pane zano rekuti ramangwana duchess mucherechedzo wetariro uye shanduko-chimwe chinhu chaunofungidzirwa mupfungwa kuti ukwezve. "Nekuti zvingave zvakatarisirwa kuti Harry aroore mumwe munhu ari padyo nepamba pamatanho mazhinji, midzi yeruzhinji yengano iyi yemazuva ano uye vaviri vemarudzi vakaroorana zvakanyanya sezvo zvichitipa tariro yekuchinja," anodaro Hendrix. Rudzi urwu rwetariro yepasi kune simba zvakanyanya kupfuura iwe ungafungidzira. "Izvi zvakakosha kuAmerican psyche-tinoda izvi," anodaro Engler. "Zvinotikurudzira uye zvinotibatsira kuti tide kuva kwedu pachedu-kunyangwe zvese zviri zvekunyepedzera."

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