Tess Holliday Anogovana Nei Asisiri Kure Kutumira Kwake Kushanda PaSocial Media

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Tess Holliday isimba rinofanirwa kuverengerwa kana zvasvika pakunetsa zvisingaite zvinotarisirwa zvekunaka. Kubva zvaakatanga kufamba #EffYourBeautyStandards kufamba muna 2013, modhi uyu akashevedzera asingatyi zviitiko zvekunyadzisa muviri (kungave kuhotera kana muUber), anga achitaura nezvekuti nei amai vehukuru hwese vakakodzera kunzwa seksiketi, uye akatogadzirwa kesi yekuti nei kuvhiya kwepurasitiki kunogona kuve muviri wakanaka. Iye zvino, Holliday ari kutora ku Instagram zvakare, ino nguva yekugovana maonero ake nezve kugwinya tsika nemagariro enhau.

Mune yake yekutanga Instagram posvo ya2021, Holliday akagovana vhidhiyo nezvekuti sei achizenge asiri kutumira kwake kunoshanda pasocial media mugore idzva.

"Ini handisi kuzogovana kuti ndiri kushanda kana kufambisa muviri wangu kuratidza kuti ndiri kushanda," akadaro muvhidhiyo, achitaura nevateveri vake. (Yakabatana: Sei Tess Holliday Anosimudzira Muviri Wake Kuvimba Pamazuva Akaipa)

“Semunhu akafuta mumuviri uyu, ndaneta kuti vanhu vanoshandisa muviri wangu, kushandisa miviri yevanhu vakafuta, sechombo chekuvarwisa kuti vaenderere mberi nerondedzero yekuti vanhu vakafuta vakashata uye kuti tiri “ngozi” uye kuti tiri vanhu vakakora. 'kutyisidzira nzanga,' 'akaenderera mberi.

Panzvimbo pekutumira maekisesaizi ake, Holliday akafunga kuti achaisa simba rake pakuita maekisesaizi chete nekuti anonakidzwa nazvo. "Ini ndoda kuzviita, uye ini ndinogovana kuti ndikupei imi varume tarisai muhupenyu hwangu, kwete nekuti ndine chero chinhu chandingaratidza," akadaro muvhidhiyo. "Ini handisi kuzove mutevedzeri wekuti vanhu vatyisidzire vamwe kubva pakurarama hupenyu hwavo hwechokwadi nekuti haikodzeri mune iyi nhete, inopenga mold." (Yakabatana: Tess Holliday Yakabatanidzwa kumusoro neFashoni kuMufananidzo we #EffYourBeautyStandards Unganidzo)

Sezvo isu tinorira mugore idzva, Holliday akati anoda kutungamira nemuenzaniso mukubatsira vanhu kuti vaone kuti miviri yese inokodzera kugamuchirwa nekutendwa, zvisinei nechimiro kana saizi. "Hapana anofanirwa kudiwa uye kugamuchirwa nekuda kwekuti ivo vanoshanda kunze kana vane muviri wakagadzikana," akanyora mumusoro wenyaya yake. "Basa rangu pano repasi ndere kungobatsira vamwe kuti vauye kunzvimbo yekubvuma uye netarisiro yekuda miviri yavo izvozvi, ndizvozvo."

Ino haisi nguva yekutanga Holliday kujekesa kuti nei kutumira mapikicha ekudzidzira basa pa Instagram kungave kunetsa. Mune posvo ya2019, akabuda pachena nezvekuti matomu ehutano anombopinza sei mutsika yekushanda zvakapfurikidza kana kudiwa kwekuratidzika kunge "wakabatikana" uye "hustling" nguva dzese.

"Kuve 'wakabatikana' kwakakura, asi tsika yedu yekushanda zvakanyanya kuoma nenzira dzakawanda," akanyora panguva iyoyo. "Handina kugovana zvakawanda nezverwendo rwangu rwekusimba parizvino [nekuti] kune ruzvidzo rwevanhu vane mafuta vari kushanda. Kunyangwe zvichinzwa kupusa kutaura, zvechokwadi rwendo." (Yakabatana: Tess Holliday Anogovana Maitiro Emuviri Wake Chimiro Akashanduka Munguva Yekuva Amai)

Pazasi mutsara: Holliday inoda kuti zvizivikanwe kuti zvinoitwa nevanhu nemitumbi yavo ibhizimusi ravo uye hapana mumwe munhu uye kuti kungosimbiswa chete kwaunoda kunobva kwauri - kwete vateveri vako ve Instagram (kana chero mumwe munhu, izvozvi). Sezvo Holliday akagovana muvhidhiyo yake: "Shanda kunze kana uchida [kana] kusashanda. Izvo hazvina basa, chero bedzi iwe uchifara uye sekureba sekunge moyo wako nezvinangwa zvako zvakachena, . "

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