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Kushambira ndeimwe yaKenlie Tiggeman anofarira kurovedza muviri. Pane chimwe chinhu chinozorora pamusoro pekuve uri mumvura, zvakadaro ichiri mhondi izere-muviri kurovedza muviri. Asi rimwe zuva, apo murume ane makore makumi matatu nemashanu okukura anobva kuNew Orleans achishambira paimba yekurovedza muviri, zen yake yakarohwa nehana paakaona mumwe mukadzi akamira padivi pedziva, achimuseka akabata foni yake.

"Akasheedzera kuti aive 'whale achiona,'" anodaro Tiggeman. "Uye anga achinditora mifananidzo."

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Kuita kuti mutorwa atore snaps kwauri mukushambira pasina mvumo yako idambudziko remukadzi wese, asi kunyomba kwakashata kwakatonyanya hutsinye (kana zvichibvira) nekuti Tiggeman (uyo anorema anenge makirogiramu mazana matatu) akachengetedza uremu hunodarika makirogiramu zana. kubvira paakadonha makore akati wandei apfuura, akavhunika tsoka, uye aida rubatsiro rwevarume vana kusimuka pamatanho ekurapwa nekuti airema anodarika mazana mana emapaunzi. Izvo, akafunga, yaive yekupedzisira nguva yaaizoshaya simba, uye, kubvira ipapo, akaitwa kurovedza muviri uye kudya chaiko kukosha. Kunyange zvazvo asiri "mutete," Tiggeman arasikirwa nehuremu, anonzwa kufara, ane hutano hwakanyanya, uye-chinonyanya kukosha-akasimba zvakakwana kuita chero chaanoda. (Waizviziva here Fat Shaming Inogona Kuparadza Muviri Wako?)

Uye Tiggeman aisazorega mumwe mukadzi asina kurongeka achimuwisira pasi, kunyanya kwete mushure mekunge atuhwina mamaira-nehafu-mutambo waizobvisa vazhinji vanoenda kumitambo yekurovedza muviri. Saka akashambira akananga kumukadzi uya ndokudzorera, "Ehe, mumwe wedu arikugadzira dhongi, uye mumwe wedu ari kungova dhongi!"

Zvakaringana kuti chero munhu asimuke uye afare, asi sezvaakaenderera mberi nemakumbo ake, akafunga zvekare kudzoka kwake akatsamwa. “Mushure mekunge marwadzo angu apera, ndakamunzwira tsitsi nekuti handifungi kuti ndakamboshaya mufaro zvokusvika pakuparadza munhu ari kushanda nesimba kuti ave nani,” anodaro Tiggeman.

"Ini handidi kuti zviite kunge zvaisakuvadza nekuti zvakakuvadza, asi, zvinosuwisa, panguva ino ndakanga ndawana ruzivo rwakawanda nekunyadzisa kwemafuta zvekuti ndakadzidza kumira kurega kuchinditsanangudza," anotsanangura. (Psst ... Kunyangwe vakakurumbira vakaita saKhloé Kardashian Haakwanise Kutora Kuzorora kubva kune Body Image Haters.)

Uku hakusi kupera kwenyaya, zvakadaro. Mwedzi mishoma mushure mechiitiko che "whale sighting", Tiggeman akamhanyira kumukadzi mumwechete mukirasi yeZumba. Zvino panguva iyi mukadzi ndiye akabatwa nemweya wekufema. Waive mukana wakakwana wekutsiva-asi haana kuutora. Panzvimbo pezvo, akapa mutsa nokunzwisisa.

"Pataive tese tichitandara uye tichitaridzika kunge mapenzi, aizvitsamwira nekuda kwekusazvibata," anodaro. "Saka ndakataura naye mushure mekirasi iyoyo ndikati," Ani nani akakuudza kuti hauna kukwana akazara neupenzi. "

Mukadzi akaeredza misodzi uye akapa Tiggeman kukumbira ruregerero kwenguva refu. Tiggeman haana kutora chero mufaro mukusuwa kwemumwe mukadzi. Asi "zvinobatsira kunzwisisa kuti sei vanhu vane hutsinye zvakadaro, kunyangwe ivo vasingafanire kudaro," anodaro.

"Ndine shamwari zhinji dzinogara dzakatsamwira nzanga nekuda kwenzira yavanobata nayo vanhu vakaita seni. Uye ndakanga ndatsamwa kwenguva yakareba zvakare, asi zvese zvakatungamira kwaive kuwedzera uremu uye kusafara," anowedzera. "Chirevo chinoti 'Kukuvadza vanhu vanokuvadza vanhu' ichokwadi. Uye ikozvino ndinoita sarudzo kuti ndisadaro."

Uye kana aigona kupa chidimbu chimwe chezano kumukadzi iyeye? “Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha chandakadzidza ndechokuzvida zvakakwana kuti ndirambe ndichiedza kuita zviri nani,” anodaro. Ndosaka uchizomuona adzokera mudziva nhasi uye zuva rinotevera uye rinotevera-zvisinei nekuti ndiani arikuona. (Akafuridzirwa? Verenga "Ndine mazana maviri emapaundi uye akagwinya kupfuura kare.")

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