Masviriro-Anoita Muviri Mumwe Munhu Zvimwe Akazondidzidzisa Kurega Kutonga Mitumbi Yevakadzi

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Ndinokweva bhasikoro rangu kubva munzira yepasi pevhu yemangwanani yazara vanhu ndichienda pachikuva ndonanga kunokwidza. Ndichiri kukwanisa kutakura bhasikoro rangu kukwira maseti mashanu ematanho, erevheta iri nyore-chimwe chezvinhu zvandakadzidza kana ndichienda pabhasikoro rangu. Kana ndangosvika padanho remugwagwa, ini ndichafambisa nzira yangu yasara kuenda kukirasi yeSpanish. (Ini nemurume wangu taigara kuMadrid kwegore paaidzidzisa Chirungu uye ndakawedzera mazwi angu kupfuura "queso" uye "café.")

Sezvandinoenda kukirifiti, ndinoona vakadzi vatatu vakamirira kusimudzwa. Maziso angu anotenderera mumiviri yavo. Vanoratidzika kunge vane huremu hushoma uye vasina chimiro kwandiri. Pamwe vanofanira kutora masitepisi, Ndinofunga ndega. Ivo vanogona pamwe kubatsirwa kubva kune imwe cardio. Ndakamira ipapo, ndinogadzira kurudziro yekusimba kwevakadzi ava mumusoro mangu uye ndinovhiringidzika, ndichifunga kuti ndingatofanira kumirira imwe lifti nekuti vakadzi ava vane nungo dzekukwira masitepisi.

Zvave zvinenge zvakasikwa kutonga mumwe munhu - kunyanya mukadzi-zvichienderana nekuti muviri wavo unoonekwa sei. Pasina ruzivo rupi zvarwo pamusoro pomumwe munhu, unoita zvisungo pamusoro poutano hwavo, runako, uye kunyange ukoshi hwavo munzanga.

Kwenguva yakareba sezvandinogona kuyeuka, muviri mutete wakaonekwa sea nani muviri. Mutete wakanaka, uye imwe neimwe mhando yemuviri inokodzera kutaura kana kutonga. (Kunyangwe, kana iwe uchifunga kuti mumwe munhu ari zvakare mutete, pamwe unotonga izvozvo, futi.) Pane mukana wakanaka wekuti iwe nokusaziva unoshandisa mazwi akadai se "mafuta" uye "akaonda" uye "kuwandisa" sezviyeuchidzo zvevamwe vanhu. Pakarepo kunyora muviri wemukadzi rave simba retsika. Heck, iwe ungatozvinyorera iwe pachako: Ndiri flat. ndiri curvy. Ndine mboro hombe. Chiuno changu chakafara. Pasina chirevo kune, unozvidzikisira iwe nevamwe kune mamwe mabhokisi erudzi. Iwe unozvideredza kune imwe nhengo yemuviri chaiyo.Iwe unogumira maonero ako iwe pachako, hanzvadzi dzako, amai vako, shamwari dzako, uye kunyangwe vakadzi vasina kujairika muchiteshi chepasi pevhu. Iwe unorega chimiro chemuviri chichiraira kuti unoona sei munhu.

Elevator inosvika pasi pedu uye madzimai anopindira. Pavanocheuka, vanoona kuti ndine bhasikoro. Vakadzi vacho vanongoziva kuti bhasikoro rangu harikwane nevanhu vagara vari mucabin, saka vanokasira kubuda muelevator. Nekunyemwerera kwoushamwari uye zviito zvoushamwari, vanondikoka kutanga kumonera bhasikoro rangu. Ini ndinokona furemu diagonally uye ndinosvina matai kuti akwane. Kana ndangopinzwa mukati, vakadzi vanodzokera kumashure. Wow, izvo zvaive zvakafunga nezvavo, Ndofunga.

Sezvatiri kukwira nhurikidzwa nhatu pamwe chete, ndaisakwanisa kubatsira asi kunyara nemabatiro andaive ndaita uye kuvanyadzisa muviri (kunyangwe dai yaive mumusoro mangu chete). Vakanga vane mutsa uye vane tsika kwandiri. Vakatora nguva vachindibatsira kutakura bhasikoro rangu. Ivo vaive vakadzi vakanaka, uye ini hapana chandaiziva nezve maitiro avo ehutano.

Tinosvika padanho remugwagwa, uye vakadzi vanobva pasifiti - asi kwete vasina kumira kuti vandibatire madhoo pandiri kubhaiza bhasikoro rangu. Vanondishuvira zuva rakanaka uye musoro munzira yavo.

Ndingadai ndakafunga sei chimwe chinhu chakaipa kwazvo pamusoro pevakadzi vandakanga ndisati ndamboona? Sei ndaive ndichiisa mumwe mukadzi pasi pekuti akataridzika sei asingazive chero chinhu nezve ake mararamire kana hunhu?

Ndakakamhina nemibvunzo iyoyo sezvandaichovha bhasikoro ndichikwira gomo ndichienda kuchikoro chechikoro chemutauro. Pamwe nekuti ndinochovha bhasikoro rangu kuenda kukirasi kana kuti chiuno chinotaridzika chidiki, ndainzwa kuti ndiri nani kana kuti ndine hutano kupfuura mumwe munhu. Pamwe nekuti miviri yavo yakanga yakasiyana neyangu, ndakaona kuti vanofanira kunge vasina hutano.

Asi zvese izvo zvaive zvisirizvo. Vakadzi ava vakanga vasina kunaka chete nokuda kwounyoro hwavo, asi vakanga vakanaka zvikuru kupfuura zvandaive ndiri panguva idzodzo. Kungoti nekuti ini ndinogona kutaridzika kuve mutete kana kuoneka ndine hutano hazvireve kuti ini chaizvo am. Muchokwadi, huremu hwemuviri hachisi chiratidzo chakanaka chehutano-nguva.

Ehe, ndinogona kuchovha kuenda kukirasi, asi ndinonakidzwawo nemugove wangu wakanaka wemaswiti uye nemazuva ane husimbe apo ini ndisingatomborovedza muviri zvachose. Kunyangwe pandinoedza kuva neutano, handina kukwana. Uye muviri wangu chokwadi hauna kukwana, kana. Pane dzimwe nguva ndinotarisira pasi muviri wangu uye kuzvinyadzisa nokuda kwekutarisa kwandinoita. Dzimwe nguva ndinozvinyadzisa muviri ndisingambozvizivi.

Asi zuva irori muelevheti rakandidzidzisa kurwisa kupfuura iwo ekutanga kutonga. Zvisinei nesaizi yako kana chimiro kana kusimba kwemafitness, kuzvitongesa nevamwe vakadzi hakuna basa uye hakubereke. Kunyora mhando dzemiviri uye kuvhiringa kuzivikanwa kwemumwe munhu nechimiro chake zvinova chipingamupinyi pakuona vanhu sezvavari chaizvo. Chitarisiko chemuviri wako hachitsananguri hutano hwako. Muchokwadi, haifanirwe kukutsanangura iwe zvachose. Iwe uri zvauri nekuda kwezvauri mukati muviri wako-ndicho chikonzero chaicho matauriro anoita munhu wese nezvemiviri yevakadzi achida kuchinja.

Kubva pandakasangana nevakadzi ava zuva iri, ndinonyatsoziva pfungwa dzangu pandinoona mukadzi ane mumwe muviri wakasiyana newangu. Ndinoedza kuyeuka kuti muviri wavo hapana chaunondiudza nezvavo. Ndinozviyeuchidza kuti hapana chandinoziva nezvemararamiro avo kana kuti utano hwavo kana kuti majini, izvo zvinoita kuti ndinyatsoona kunaka kwavo chaiko. Ini ndinoedzawo kuona moyo wavo wakanaka uye zvese zvezvipo zvavanounza munyika ino. Pandinofungidzira zvese izvi, handina nguva yekufunganya nezvemuviri wavo. Handife ndakakanganwa zvandakaratidzwa nevakadzi vaya musi uyu. Mutsa nerudo zvinogara zvichikunda kutonga uye kunyara-zvese paunenge uchitarisa kune vamwe uye kana iwe uchizvitarisa.

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