Kutsvaga kweiyo Yakakwana V: Nei Vazhinji Vakadzi Vari Kutsvaga Vaginal Rejuvenation?

Zvemukati

• Nyika yekuvandudzwa kwemukadzi
• Sei vakadzi vachitsvaga maitiro akadaro?
• Ko hwaro hwe'kunaka 'hunobva kupi?
• Zvisinei, kunewo humwe uchapupu hunoratidza kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinogona kunge zvisina mhosva.
• Dzimwe dzidzo dzinogona kukurudzira muviri positivity
• Kutsvaga chiyero pakati pekumanikidza kwekunze nekunze

"Varwere vangu havawanzo kuva nezano rakasimba nezvekuti yavo mhezi yakaita sei."

Iyo "Barbie chidhori inotaridzika" ndipo apo mapapiro ako evhavha akatetepa uye asingaonekwe, zvichipa pfungwa yekuti kuvhurika kwechikadzi kwakasimba.

Mamwe mazwi acho? "Yakachena banga." "Yakaenzana." "Akakwana." Ichowo chitarisiko icho vamwe vaongorori vanosheedza "."

Zvisinei, vakadzi vakawandisa varikukumbira kutaridzika uku, kana fungidziro, kana zvasvika pakuvhiyiwa kwevakadzi pabonde, kana - sezvo zvichinyanya kushambadzwa se - kuvhiyiwa kwekuberekwa kwemukadzi.

“Pane imwe nguva ini nemurume wangu taiona terevhizheni pamwe chete uye mumwe munhu akaita jee pamusoro pemukadzi ane mhando yangu yemarabi. Ndakanzwa ndakanyadziswa pamberi pemurume wangu. ”

Asi tisati taburitsa izvi zvinokurudzira zvepfungwa kumashure kwesikarudzi yekumutsiridza uye kwazvinogona kubva, zvakakosha kutanga tataura nezve terminology.

Nyika yekuvandudzwa kwemukadzi

Izwi rekuti vagina rine nhoroondo yekushandisa zvisirizvo muma media. Nepo "vagina" ichinongedzera mukati memukati memukadzi, vanhu vanowanzoishandisa vachichinjanisa kureva kune labia, clitoris, kana pubic mound. Nekudaro, izwi rekuti "kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi kusangana patsva" rauya kuzotsanangura mamwe maitiro kupfuura zvarinomiririra nehunyanzvi.

Kana iwe ukatarisa kumusoro kwemukadzi kumutsidzira pamhepo, iwe unowana maitirwo anotarisa ese ari maviri ekuvhiya uye ekusavhiya maitiro pane echikadzi genitalia seyakazara. Izvi zvinosanganisira:

• dzidzis
• vaginoplasty kana "dhizaini vaginoplasty"
• hymenoplasty (inozivikanwawo se "kuitazve mhandara")
• iyo O-kupfura, kana G-gwapa kukwidziridzwa
• clitoral hood kuderedza
• labial kupenya
• mons pubic kuderedzwa
• kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi nekusimbisa

Mazhinji maitiro aya, uye zvikonzero zvekuzviwana, zvine kukakavara uye zvinehunhu zvinehunhu.

Vatsvagiri mune zvakawanikwa kuti kupindira kwacho kwainyanya kutsvakwa uye kuitiswa nekuda kwekushongedza kana zvikonzero zvepabonde uye zvishoma zvekurapa.

Munguva pfupi yapfuura, iyo US Chikafu neDrug Administration (FDA) yakaburitsa yambiro kumakambani ekuvandudza maitiro echikadzi.

Zviziviso zvakatengesa zvipikirwa kuvakadzi maitiro avo aizo "simbisa uye kuvandudza" yavo vaginas. Zvimwe zvaive zvakanangwa mukuvandudza postmenopausal zviratidzo, sekuoma kwemukadzi kana kurwadziwa panguva yepabonde.

Asi pane dambudziko rimwe chete. Zvichipa kusavapo kwezvidzidzo zvenguva refu, hapana kana humbowo hwekuti marapirwo aya anoshanda kana kuti akachengeteka.

Kuongororwa kwemagazini evakadzi gumi kwakaonekwa kuti mumifananidzo yevakadzi vasina kupfeka kana vakapfeka zvipfeko zvakaomarara, nzvimbo yepabhawa inowanzo vharidzirwa kana kumiririrwa seyakaumba munyoro, wakapfava munyonga pakati pezvidya.

Nepo kubatanidzwa kweDAA kuchizobatsira hutano hwevakadzi kuve hwakagadziriswa uye hwakachengeteka kuenda kumberi, kudzoreredza kwemukadzi kuchiri kuwana traction.

Chirevo cha2017 kubva kuAmerican Society yePlastic Surgeons chinoburitsa kuti labiaplasty maitiro akawedzera nezvikamu makumi matatu nezvipfumbamwe muna2016, nekuvhiya kunopfuura zviuru gumi nezviviri. Labiaplasties anowanzo sanganisira kucheka marabi minora (emukati marabha) kuitira kuti asanamire pazasi pemaraba majora (ekunze labia).

Zvisinei, American College of Obstetricians uye Gynecologists (ACOG) inonyevera pamusoro pemaitiro aya, ichidaidza kushambadzira - kunyanya izvo zvinoreva kuti kuvhiya uku kunotambirwa uye kunoitika - kunonyengera.

Kana zvasvika pakukanganisa pabonde, ACOG inokurudzira vakadzi kuti vafambe nekunyatsoongorora uye vanyatso ziviswa nezvematambudziko pamwe nekushayikwa kweuchapupu hunotsigira maitiro ekurapa aya.

Sei vakadzi vachitsvaga maitiro akadaro?

Sekureva kwechidzidzo chegore ra2014 mumagazini Zvekurapa Kwepabonde, vaongorori vakaona kuti vanhu vazhinji vanotsvaga kumutsidzirwa kwemukadzi nekuda kwezvikonzero zvemanzwiro, zvakadzika midzi mukuzviziva.

Heano mashoma ezvinyorwa kubva kuvakadzi vari muchidzidzo:

• “Ndinovenga zvangu, ndinozvivenga, ndinozvivenga, ZVIVENZE! Rwakafanana nerurimi rwakanamira nekuda kwedenga! "
• "Ko kana vakaudza munhu wese kuchikoro," Hongu, akanaka asi pane chakashata zasi uko. "

Dr. Karen Horton, chiremba anovhiya wepurasitiki anoshanda muSan Francisco uyo anoshanda zvikuru mumalabiaplasties, anobvuma kuti maitiro acho anogona kufambiswa ne aesthetics.

"Vakadzi vanoshuvira kuti labia minora yavo yakarongedzwa, yakashambidzika, uye yakatsvinda, uye havadi kuona iyo labia minora yakarembera pasi," anodaro.

Mumwe murwere akamuudza kuti "aingoshuvira dai zvaitaridzika serakanaka zasi uko."

Ko hwaro hwe'kunaka 'hunobva kupi?

Nekuda kwekushomeka kwedzidzo uye nhaurirano yakavhurika yakatenderedza izvo zvakajairika kana zvasvika pakuonekwa uye nekushanda kwenhengo dzevakadzi, kuda kwemukadzi wakakwana kunogona kunge kusingagumi.

Vamwe vakadzi vanogona kunzwa vachida kusaina maitiro senge labiaplasty uye iyo O-kupfura kugadzirisa nyaya dzavano "kuvenga" kana kufunga zvisina kujairika. Uye kwavanowana pfungwa yekuvenga miviri yavo inogona kubva kunobva kune vezvenhau, semagazini evakadzi anoratidza airbrushed, zvisingaite nhengo dzepabonde.

Iyi mifananidzo inogona kunge iri kudzikisira kusagadzikana kana tarisiro yezvino "zvakajairika" kune vanoona, uye nekudaro zvichipa mukukwiridzira mumadzimai ekuvandudza maitiro.

Kuongororwa kwemagazini evakadzi gumi kwakaonekwa kuti mumifananidzo yevakadzi vasina kupfeka kana vakapfeka zvipfeko zvakaomarara, nzvimbo yepabhawa inowanzo vharidzirwa kana kumiririrwa seyakaumba munyoro, wakapfava munyonga pakati pezvidya.

Kanganwa nezvekuratidzira yakabuda yemukati labia. Iko hakuna kana chinyorwa chema labia majora.

Kuita kuti marabi aratidzike seadiki kana kusavapo - anomiririra zvisirizvo - anogona kuzivisa zvenhema uye kukanganisa maitiro evanhukadzi ekufunga kuti marabi avo anofanira kuoneka.

"Varwere vangu havana ruzivo rwekuti 'zvakajairika' maronda anofanirwa kutaridzika sei uye kashoma kuva nepfungwa yakasimba nezvekuti ivo vakataridzika sei." - Annemarie Everett

Vamwe vanhu, saMeredith Tomlinson, vanotenda kuti zvinonyadzisira ndizvo zviri kutungamira kutsvaga kwehutachiona hwakakwana uye mukadzi.

"Ndekupi kumwe kwatiri kuona kuvharirwa kwenhengo dzakavanzika dzeumwe mukadzi?" Anobvunza.

Uye anogona kunge achitaura chokwadi. Pornhub, inozivikanwa webhusaiti yewebhusaiti, yakagamuchira vanopfuura 28.5 mabhiriyoni evashanyi mugore rapfuura. Mumushumo wavo wegore, vakaburitsa yakanyanya kufarirwa yekutsvaga mutsara we2017 yaive "porn yevakadzi." Paive ne359 muzana kukura pakati pevashandisi vechikadzi.

Nyanzvi kubva kuKing's College London dzinoratidza kuti "pornization" yetsika yemazuva ano inogona kunge ichimhanyisa huwandu hwevakadzi hwekuvandudza, nekuti varume nevakadzi vane hunyanzvi hwekuona zvinonyadzisira kuburikidza neinternet kupfuura nakare kose.

"Kutendeseka, ndinofunga kuti pfungwa ye'kadzi nemadzimai akakwana 'zvinobva mukushaikwa kweruzivo rwechokwadi pamusoro pekuti mapundu anoita sei," anodaro Annemarie Everett, nyanzvi yehutano hwevakadzi bhodhi uye chiremba anozivikanwa wepeliniki uye wekubereka.

"Kana chinhu chega chatinofanira kutaura nezvacho porn uye neruzivo rwekuti vulvas inofanirwa kunge iri diki uye inoshama, saka chero chinhu chiri kunze kweicho chinoita senge chisingagamuchirike, uye isu hatina nzira yekupokana nekufungidzira uku," anodaro. .

Zvisinei, kunewo humwe uchapupu hunoratidza kuti zvinonyadzisira zvinogona kunge zvisina mhosva.

Chidzidzo chegore ra2015 chakanangana nekunzwisisa kugutsikana kwenhengo dzevakadzi, kuvhurika kune labiaplasty, uye vatyairi vemufaro wavo uye kufarira kukudzwa kwemukadzi vakatarisa mune izvi. Vakaona kuti nepo vachiona zvinonyadzisira zvaibatanidzwa nekuvhurika kune labiaplasty, zvaisave fungidziro yekugutsikana pabonde.

Zvakawanikwa izvi zvinokatyamadza pane fungidziro yekuti zvinonyadzisira ndizvo zvinonyanya kuvandudza kusangana nekutsi kwemukadzi, uye kuti "kune mamwe mafungidziro anofanirwa kuverengerwa mune ramangwana mhando."

Vakadzi vazhinji kupfuura varume vakanyora zvavasingafarire kupfuura zvavanofarira nezvebonde ravo uye nyinyo.

Mune mamwe mazwi, nepo zvinonyadzisira zvisiri zvekupara mhosva chete, inogona kunge iri yezvimwe zvinopa zvikonzero. Chimwe chinhu chingave ndechekuti vakadzi vanongozivawo pfungwa dzezvinodiwa nevarume uye nezve izvo zvinofungidzirwa zvakajairika kana zvasvika kumunhukadzi nekubuda.

"Varwere vangu havana ruzivo rwekuti 'zvakajairika' vulvas zvinofanirwa kutaridzika sei uye kashoma kuva nepfungwa yakasimba nezve izvo zvavo zvinotaridzika," anodaro Everett. "Mutsika, tinopedza nguva yakawanda tichiedza kuvanza maitiro edu uye nenguva shoma kutaridzira vechidiki kune zvakajairwa."

Vasikana vadiki vanokura vachiona zvakakwana zvaBarbie, epurasitiki "V" semumiriri wega we "average" vulva haibatsire zvinhu, chero.

Dzimwe dzidzo dzinogona kukurudzira muviri positivity

Vakabvunzwa varume zana nemakumi masere nevatanhatu nemakumi mana nemakumi masere evakadzi nezve zvavanoda nezvavasingafarire zvine chekuita nemukadzi nemukadzi kuti vanzwisise zvirinani maitiro echikadzi kana genitalia nekuda kwetsika nemagariro.

Vatori vechikamu vakabvunzwa, "Ndezvipi zvinhu zvausingafarire nezve nhengo dzevakadzi? Kune humwe hunhu hwaunofarira zvishoma pane humwe here? ” Pakati pevarume vakapindura, mhinduro yechina yakajairika "hapana".

Kusanyanya kufarira kwaive kunhuwa, kuchiteverwa nebvudzi repabhawa.

Mumwe murume akati, “Sei musingavafarire? Hazvina mhosva kuti chimiro chei chega chevakadzi chega, pane kugara kwakanaka uye kwakasarudzika. ”

Varume zvakare vaigara vachirondedzerwa vachida zvakasiyana nhengo dzokubereka nadzo. "Ini ndinoda akasiyana maumbirwo uye saizi yemalabi uye clitoris," mumwe akapindura.

Mumwezve akataura, zvakanyatsotsanangurwa, "Ndinoda miromo mirefu, yakatsetseka, yakaenzana - chimwe chinhu chakanyanyisa, icho chinokwezva kutarisisa nekufungidzira. Ndinoda mahombekombe akakura, asi ini handifarire pamusoro pawo sezvandinoita pamusoro pemiromo nemahood. "Ndinoda hura kuva hombe, miromo yakavhurika, uye yakadzika pakapatsanuka."

Muchokwadi, vakadzi vazhinji kupfuura varume vakanyora zvavasingafarire kupfuura zvavanofarira pamusoro pesikarudzi yavo nemukadzi, zvichitungamira vanyori kuti vapedzise vachiti: "Tichifunga kuwanda kwekusafarira kunotaurwa nevakadzi, imwe tsananguro inogona kuwanikwa yezviwanikwa izvi ndeyekuti vakadzi vari kupinza zviri nyore mameseji asina kunaka nezve sikarudzi yavo uye vanogadzirisa kushoropodza. ”

Mavhiki matanhatu uye madhora mazana masere nemazana mashanu nemazana mashanu emadhora ekushandisa muhomwe gare gare, Meredith ane chirwere chinopora - uye pfungwa yakaporeswa yega.

Uye meseji dzisina kunaka, padzinouya, dzinogona kuve nehutsinye uye dzinoreva, kunyanya kana iwe uchifunga kuti hapana yakakwana V.

Varume vaitsanangura kusafarira kwavo vanoshandisa mazwi ehutsinye, akadai sekuti "hombe," "flappy," "flabby," "kubuda," kana "kureba." Mumwe mukadzi akataura kuti murume wepabonde waakabatana naye akavhundutswa nemiromo yake yakakura yemukati uye akashandisa chirevo "keteni renyama" kutsanangura ivo. Mumwe murume akati, "Ndinofunga kuti nhengo dzakavandika dzine mvere pamukadzi dzakakomba, zvinoita kuti aonekwe seasina hanya nenzvimbo yake yega."

Kana magazini akaratidzira madzvinyu chaiwo evakadzi mune yavo yese hombe, diki, ine mvere, kana isina bvudzi, pamwe idzi tsananguro dzinorwadza, dzinokuvadza dzinogona kuita shoma.

Dai paive nedzidzo yakakura kutenderera maitiro emukadzi nemukadzi angatarise pamusoro pehupenyu hwavo, pamwe nzira inoenda mukugamuchirwa kwemuviri uye positivity inogona kukurudzirwa.

Kutsvaga chiyero pakati pekumanikidza kwekunze nekunze

Asi chii chinoitika panguva ino yezvizvarwa zvakaenda vasina kudzidza nezvechikadzi kana kuona kudiwa kwekuvandudzwa kwemukadzi?

Meredith, ambotaurwa nezvake, aigara achizvifunga-chema labia kubva achiri mudiki musikana. Kunyanya, izvi zvaive nekuti rake remukati marabhabha akarembera zvakanyanya kudzika kune rake rekunze labia, akati wandei masendimita pazasi peye labia majora.

"Ndakagara ndichifungidzira kuti ndakasiyana, asi ndakacherekedza pandaive ndakashama ndichitenderedza vamwe vasikana kuti ndaive ndakasiyana chaizvo," anodaro.

Nekuda kweizvozvo, Meredith akanzvenga mbichana mbichana. Iye aisada kuisa njodzi yake yemukati yemabara kutsvedza kuti nyika ione. Iye akanzwa kuti aisakwanisa kupfeka izvo zvakaomarara, zvine fashoni yoga bhurugwa zvakare, sezvo ivo vakaratidzira chimiro uye chimiro chemuviri wake.

Paaipfeka majean, aifanira kushandisa maxi pad, kungoitira kuti labia yake itange kugadzikana uye kubuda ropa. `` Kamwe, mushure mezuva rekuchovha bhasikoro, '' anoyeuka, `` ndakaona kuti marabi angu aibuda ropa. Zvairwadza chaizvo. ”

Izvi zvakakanganisawo hukama hwake hwekare, sezvo Meredith aizozeza nezvekuonekwa asina kupfeka nekubatwa pasi ipapo. Ko kana vakatarisa, vakaboora jee nezve 'nyama yakakangwa vaginas,' kana kufunga kuti kwaive kudzima?

Uye kunyangwe mushure mekuroora, Meredith achiri kuona kusachengeteka.

"Pane imwe nguva ini nemurume wangu takanga tichiona terevhizheni pamwe chete uye mumwe munhu akaita jee nezve mukadzi ane mhando yangu yemarabi," anoyeuka. "Ndakanzwa ndakanyadziswa pamberi pemurume wangu."

Mushure mekuverenga chinyorwa chepamhepo chinotaura nezve kuvhiya kwepurasitiki, Meredith akagumburwa nezwi rekuti "labiaplasty" - mhando yekuvhiya kwepurasitiki iyo inoderedza marara emukati emukadzi.

"Aka kaive kekutanga kuona kuti paive nenzira yekushandura zvandaishupika nazvo uye kuti vazhinji vaive mumamiriro akafanana neni," anoyeuka. “Zviri nyore kunzwa wakasurukirwa nenyaya idzi. Izvi zvaisunungura. ”

Nguva pfupi mushure mekutsvaga kwake internet, Meredith akapinda mukutaurirana naDr Karen Horton. "Ndakanga ndisina mufananidzo, asi Dr. Horton vakaita mazano ekuti ndinocheka sei marabi angu emukati," anodaro.

Uye murume waMeredith haana kumbomukurudzira kana kumumanikidza kuti atore labiaplasty. "Akashamisika asi akanditsigira," anoyeuka. "Akandiudza kuti aisava nebasa nazvo uye kuti ndaisafanirwa kuzviita, asi kuti aizonditsigira chero zvodii."

Mavhiki mashoma gare gare, Meredith akagamuchira labiaplasty, maitiro ezuva rimwe chete aanorondedzera se "akareruka, anokurumidza, uye akananga," kunyangwe anesthesia inodiwa. Dr. Horton vakakurudzira kutora vhiki kubasa, kudzivirira kurovedza muviri kwevhiki nhatu, uye kurega bonde kwevhiki nhanhatu.

Asi Meredith akanzwa akasimba zvakakwana kuti adzokere kubasa zuva raitevera chairo.

Mavhiki matanhatu uye madhora mazana masere nemazana mashanu nemazana mashanu emadhora ekushandisa muhomwe gare gare, Meredith ane chirwere chinopora - uye pfungwa yakaporeswa yega.

"Handizvidembi, uye zvakandibatsira," anodaro. “Handisi kuvanda futi. Ndinonzwa zvakanaka. ” Uye hongu - iye zvino anopfeka bhaini pasi, majini asina maxi pad, uye anogara achirovera pabhasikoro rake kwenguva refu.

Kubvira pakuvhiyiwa, Meredith nemurume wake havana kumbokurukura maitiro acho. “Ndakazviitira chose chose. Ndakazvisarudzira ndega. ”

Chirungu Taylor iSan Francisco-yakavakirwa hutano hwevakadzi uye hukama hwemunyori uye kuberekwa doula. Basa rake rakaverengerwa muThe Atlantic, Refinery29, NYLON, LOLA, uye THINX. Tevera Chirungu nebasa rake Pakatikana pamusoro Instagram.