3 Maitiro eVana Vangu Vakadzidza Kubva Kuva naAmai Vachirwara Amai

Zvemukati

• Kurega kuenda kune mhosva
• 1. Kuvapo panguva pamwe chete
• 2. Kukosha kwekuzvitarisira
• 3. Tsitsi kune vamwe

Kutsvaga iyo siringi linings mukuva mubereki ane chirwere chisingaperi.

Hutano uye hutano zvinobata mumwe nemumwe wedu zvakasiyana. Iyi inyaya yemunhu mumwe.

Ini ndaingogara mubath, ndakazadzwa nemvura inopfungaira uye makapu matanhatu eEpsom salts, ndichivimba musanganiswa waizobvumidza kumwe kwekurwadziwa mumajoini angu kudzikamisa nekudzikamisa mhasuru dzangu dzinopenga.

Ipapo ndakanzwa kurova mukitchen. Ndakada kuchema. Chii chiri pano pasi mwana wangu chaaipinda mazviri?

Semubereki mumwe ane chirwere chisingaperi, ndakanga ndaneta chose. Muviri wangu wakarwadza uye musoro wangu wakarova.

Pandakanzwa madhirowa achivhurwa nekuvharwa mubedroom mangu ndakanyudza musoro wangu mumvura, ndichiteerera kurova kwemoyo wangu kuchirira munzeve dzangu. Ndakazviyeuchidza ini kuti iyi yaive nguva yangu yekundichengeta, uye zvaive zvakakosha kuti ndinoita saizvozvo.

Zvaive zvakanaka kuti mwana wangu ane makore gumi ekuberekwa aive ega kwemaminitsi makumi maviri andaive ndichinyura mutabhu, ndakazviudza. Ndakaedza kufemera pamusoro imwe mhosva yandaive ndakabata.

Kurega kuenda kune mhosva

Kuedza kurega kuzvipa mhosva chinhu chandinozviwana ndichiita kazhinji semubereki - zvakatonyanya izvozvi kuti ini ndakaremara, ndinorwara nemubereki.

Ini zvirokwazvo handisi ndoga. Ini ndiri chikamu cheboka rekutsigira repamhepo revabereki vane chirwere chisingaperi icho chizere nevanhu vanobvunza kuti kukanganisa kwavo kuri kukanganisa vana vavo sei.

Isu tinorarama munharaunda inotarisisa kugadzirwa uye tsika inoisa kukoshesa kwakadai pazvinhu zvese zvatingaitira vana vedu. Hazvishamise kuti isu tinobvunza kana isu takakwanira zvakakwana vabereki.

Kune kumanikidza kwenzanga kwevabereki kuti vatore toti yavo kuenda kuna "Amai naMi" makirasi ejimnastics, vanozvipira mukirasi yepuraimari, vharidzira vechidiki vedu pakati pemakirabhu mazhinji nezvirongwa, kukanda mapato ePinterest-akakwana mazuva ekuzvarwa, uye kugadzira kudya kwakaringana - zvese ndichiita chokwadi chekuti vana vedu havana yakawandisa nguva yekuvhara.

Sezvo ini dzimwe nguva ndinorwara zvakanyanya kuti ndibve pamubhedha, ndoda imba, izvi zvinotarisirwa munharaunda zvinogona kundiita kuti ndinzwe sekutadza.

Zvisinei, izvo ini - nevamwe vasingaverengeki vamwe vabereki vane chirwere chisingaperi - vakawana ndechekuti kunyangwe nezvinhu zvatisingakwanise kuita, pane zvakawanda zvehutsika zvatinodzidzisa vana vedu nekuva nechirwere chisingaperi.

1. Kuvapo panguva pamwe chete

Chimwe chezvipo zvechirwere chisingaperi chipo chenguva.

Kana muviri wako usina kugona kushanda izere kana kuita "go-go-go, do-do-do" mafungiro ayo akajairika munharaunda yedu, unomanikidzwa kudzikira.

Ndisati ndarwara, ndakashanda izere nguva uye ndakadzidzisa husiku hushoma pamusoro peizvozvo, ndikaenda kunotora chikoro nguva yakazara futi. Isu taigara tichishandisa nguva yedu yemhuri tichiita zvinhu senge kuenda kunokwikwidza, kuenda kumitambo yenzanga, uye kuita zvimwe zviitiko kunze nepasirese.

Pandakatanga kurwara zvinhu izvo zvakamira pakarepo, uye ini nevana vangu (ipapo mazera masere ne9) uye ini taifanirwa kusvika pakuziva chokwadi chitsva.

Kunyangwe ini ndanga ndisisagone kuita zvinhu zvakawanda izvo vana vangu vajaira isu tichiita pamwe chete, iniwo kamwe kamwe ndakave nenguva yakawanda yakawanda yekugara navo.

Hupenyu hunodzikira zvakanyanya kana iwe uchirwara, uye kurwara kwangu kwakadzora hupenyu hwevana vangu, futi.

Kune mikana yakawanda yekubvongodza pamubhedha nefirimu kana kurara pasofa uchiteerera vana vangu vachindiverengera bhuku. Ndiri kumba uye ndinogona kuvapo kwavari kana vachida kutaura kana kungoda kumbundirwa.

Hupenyu, kwandiri zvese nevana vangu, hwave kunyanya kutarisisa pane izvozvi uye kunakidzwa nenguva dzakareruka.

2. Kukosha kwekuzvitarisira

Mwana wangu mudiki paakange aine makore mapfumbamwe ekuberekwa vakandiudza nyora yangu inotevera yaida kuve mazwi ekuti "chengeta," saka pese pandinoiona ndinorangarira kuzvichengeta.

Iwo mazwi izvozvi akaiswa inki mukutsvaira kutuka paruoko rwangu rwerudyi, uye aive akarurama - chiyeuchidzo chinoshamisa chezuva nezuva.

Kurwara uye kunditarisa ndichitarisa-kuzvichengeta kwakabatsira kudzidzisa vana vangu kukosha kwekuzvichengeta.

Vana vangu vakadzidza kuti dzimwe nguva tinoda kuti kwete kuzvinhu, kana kutsika kure nezviitwa kuti tiende kunotora zvinodiwa nemuviri wedu.

Ivo vakadzidza kukosha kwekudya nguva dzose uye kudya chikafu icho miviri yedu inopindura zvakanaka kwazviri, pamwe nekukosha kwekuwana zororo rakawanda.

Vanoziva kwete chete zvakakosha kuti utarisire vamwe, asi zvakakosha zvakaenzana kuzvitarisira isu pachedu.

3. Tsitsi kune vamwe

Zvinhu zvikuru izvo vana vangu vakadzidza kurerwa nemubereki ane chirwere chisingaperi tsitsi nekunzwira tsitsi.

Mumapoka asingagumi ekutsigira chirwere ini ndiri chikamu chepamhepo, izvi zvinouya nguva nenguva zvakare: nzira idzo vana vedu vanokura nadzo kuva vanhu vane tsitsi zvikuru uye vane hanya.

Vana vangu vanonzwisisa kuti dzimwe nguva vanhu vari kurwadziwa, kana vanonetseka nemabasa anogona kuuya nyore kune vamwe. Vanokurumidza kupa rubatsiro kune avo vavanoona vachinetseka kana kungoteerera kushamwari dziri kurwadziwa.

Ivo vanoratidzawo tsitsi idzi kwandiri, izvo zvinoita kuti ndive anodada zvakanyanya uye nekutenda.

Pandakakambaira ndichibuda mubhavhu riya, ndakazvishingisa kuti ndisangane nenyonganyonga hombe mumba. Ndakazvimonera tauro ndokumbotura mafemo ndichigadzirira. Zvandakawana panzvimbo zvakandiunzira misodzi.

Mwana wangu aive akaradzika "comfies" wandinofarira pamubhedha ndokundibikira mukombe wetii. Ndakagara pamagumo emubhedha wangu ndichiitora yese.

Marwadzo aive achiripo, pamwe nekupera simba. Asi apo mwana wangu paakapinda ndokundimbundira, mhosva yacho yakanga isiri iyo.

Pane kudaro, kwaingova nerudo kumhuri yangu yakanaka uye kutenda kwezvinhu zvese izvo kugara mumuviri unorwara uye wakaremara muviri kuri kundidzidzisa neavo vandinoda.

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